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"They must know OP. Nobody is that naive surely. 🤔 " You'd be surprised at how many people think this is a closed community and this corner of the internet is only seen by like minded souls. Many don't realise that the forums can be read by non members too. | |||
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"They must know OP. Nobody is that naive surely. 🤔 You'd be surprised at how many people think this is a closed community and this corner of the internet is only seen by like minded souls. Many don't realise that the forums can be read by non members too. " I'm actually going to remove my face on public soon, the more time I spend here the more I get the feeling I'm going to get recognised. Bah I have no idea what I want to do.. 🤣 | |||
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"You mean Sydney University might be hoovering them all up??? But what about the disclaimers 🙄🤦🏼♂️ " 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"We understand that. The risk is currently less if you use a photo that isn't shown elsewhere. Also never posting risky photos with your face showing allows plausible deniability " Exactly this. | |||
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"Yep I know this. People may find me via my face pic but what are they going to do then? Out me to my friends? Blackma*l me? "All of the above Lost 2 jobs because a coworker stayed at mine after I went and picked her up from a husband who'd battered her..my live in guys were there and she told me job that my lifestyle was detrimental to the company. 2nd job asked if images were recent and I was dismissed on the spot | |||
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"I've had messages from guys threatening to tell our common boss what a naughty girl I am It was when I had my initial up. My name isn't Amelia and I work for myself, so nice try, creeps 🤣" I'd be tempted to feed them the rope to hang themselves with. | |||
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"I've had messages from guys threatening to tell our common boss what a naughty girl I am It was when I had my initial up. My name isn't Amelia and I work for myself, so nice try, creeps 🤣 I'd be tempted to feed them the rope to hang themselves with." Occasionally I do. Mostly I just block, because that's appalling behaviour. | |||
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"I've had messages from guys threatening to tell our common boss what a naughty girl I am It was when I had my initial up. My name isn't Amelia and I work for myself, so nice try, creeps 🤣 I'd be tempted to feed them the rope to hang themselves with. Occasionally I do. Mostly I just block, because that's appalling behaviour." Yeah there's nothing quite like sexual coercion to put one in the mood. | |||
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"They must know OP. Nobody is that naive surely. 🤔 You'd be surprised at how many people think this is a closed community and this corner of the internet is only seen by like minded souls. Many don't realise that the forums can be read by non members too. I'm actually going to remove my face on public soon, the more time I spend here the more I get the feeling I'm going to get recognised. Bah I have no idea what I want to do.. 🤣 " Do what's best for you while bearing in mind that what's on the net is for ever but your current circumstances re job, relationship etc aren't | |||
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"I've had messages from guys threatening to tell our common boss what a naughty girl I am It was when I had my initial up. My name isn't Amelia and I work for myself, so nice try, creeps 🤣 I'd be tempted to feed them the rope to hang themselves with. Occasionally I do. Mostly I just block, because that's appalling behaviour. Yeah there's nothing quite like sexual coercion to put one in the mood." I wish more people understood that. | |||
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"It’s a shame some people think they can use your private sexual life as a way to threaten you. Only reason I posted is I had a friend on here who has something happen to them which nearly cost their job. The post was more for awareness than anything else. AI is a scary thing! " AI is making it scary to have your face picture anywhere on the net. | |||
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"Does everyone fully understand that by putting their faces on here, anyone can find you. your workplace, all of your socials and a lot more private details too. I understand that there’s many who are ok with this, but surely there’s some that are not and do not realise how easy it is to find you once your face is online. Just a thought " It's called sigint for signals intelligence and it's really easy to find people across social media etc. Look up how easy it is on YouTube. I work in IT and use a few of the techniques. | |||
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"You mean Sydney University might be hoovering them all up??? But what about the disclaimers 🙄🤦🏼♂️ 🤣🤣🤣" Exactly why I spend all my time in the forums carrying out vital research🤓🤓 | |||
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"You mean Sydney University might be hoovering them all up??? But what about the disclaimers 🙄🤦🏼♂️ 🤣🤣🤣 Exactly why I spend all my time in the forums carrying out vital research🤓🤓" All the cool kids research for Macquarie University these days | |||
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"Part of the reason I'm still lurking in the shadows. I have nothing to hide in terms of doing anything wrong or cheating, but I don't want people I know in the vanilla world judging me. The other part is I don't have any decent pics and trying to find a photographer to do some tastefully teasing shots." Use a book or a bent (used) gift card to prop your phone up, set a timer, and go to town. | |||
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"I go from showing my face pic as my main profile picture to not. But at the end of the day, if someone finds me on here, then we’re on here for the same reason. Nothing to be ashamed of to want to explore your desires and have wonderful experiences with like-minded individuals/people. It’s those that have a problem with being open minded that are the issue. We’re all adults (or I would hope so!)" I'm plenty open minded. I just don't want to deal with the social/economic repercussions from those who are less so. Ultimately it's none of their business. | |||
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"You mean Sydney University might be hoovering them all up??? But what about the disclaimers 🙄🤦🏼♂️ 🤣🤣🤣 Exactly why I spend all my time in the forums carrying out vital research🤓🤓 All the cool kids research for Macquarie University these days " That's a great university I'm just not cool enough | |||
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"I go from showing my face pic as my main profile picture to not. But at the end of the day, if someone finds me on here, then we’re on here for the same reason. Nothing to be ashamed of to want to explore your desires and have wonderful experiences with like-minded individuals/people. It’s those that have a problem with being open minded that are the issue. We’re all adults (or I would hope so!) I'm plenty open minded. I just don't want to deal with the social/economic repercussions from those who are less so. Ultimately it's none of their business." I get you, each to their own. We all have different circumstances. But even so, any judgement from those would tell you how close minded they are x | |||
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"I go from showing my face pic as my main profile picture to not. But at the end of the day, if someone finds me on here, then we’re on here for the same reason. Nothing to be ashamed of to want to explore your desires and have wonderful experiences with like-minded individuals/people. It’s those that have a problem with being open minded that are the issue. We’re all adults (or I would hope so!)" People are not all on here for the same reason. We are all adults chronologically, not necessarily emotionally. | |||
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"I go from showing my face pic as my main profile picture to not. But at the end of the day, if someone finds me on here, then we’re on here for the same reason. Nothing to be ashamed of to want to explore your desires and have wonderful experiences with like-minded individuals/people. It’s those that have a problem with being open minded that are the issue. We’re all adults (or I would hope so!) I'm plenty open minded. I just don't want to deal with the social/economic repercussions from those who are less so. Ultimately it's none of their business. I get you, each to their own. We all have different circumstances. But even so, any judgement from those would tell you how close minded they are x" And the consequences to me are no less real. | |||
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