FabSwingers.com forum: “Are you behaving?”

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Might be the ickiest question to be asked 🤢

It makes my skin crawl. I’m not a child doing something wrong. Ugh.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
31 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’m glad no-one’s ever asked me that one. I’d be torn between a scathing reply or an instant block.

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By *ags73Man
31 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Oooh. Is that used as chat?

Ooft

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By *appyToBeHere222Man
31 weeks ago

Asgard

What sort of a question even is that

What was the follow up to the question?

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't think I've ever come across that form of remark, comment, endearment or whatever the intended inference is. It's a new one on me.

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By *WANDTGCouple
31 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Unless he had a red suit on and said " oh oh oh" in every other sentence then I'd be very weary.

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had "are you being a good girl for daddy?"

There's one person in the world who can call himself my daddy, and he's about 20 years above my upper age limit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I get lots of first messages from people asking it. 3 in a row this evening 🤮hence the post

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fortunately I haven't had variants of it for awhile.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
31 weeks ago

Durham

Well, are you?

Sorry, couldn't resist.

Ruby

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
31 weeks ago

North West

Can I ask you a question?

The answer is always - ignore. Because the question will be vile. Without fail.

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Can I ask you a question?

The answer is always - ignore. Because the question will be vile. Without fail.

Yeah. I cringe when I see that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

Almost as bad as 'are you being norty?'

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

On the kink scene, it can be quite a valid question, especially if something for a scene or dynamic has been negotiated, if you’re not into it, absolutely not ok, stop pushing your fantasies into other people!!

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm split on these 'ick' statements. I'm even split on the word ick.

It's really contextual almost in every case.

Not that I don't get your point, but also it can be said in a tongue in cheek way and even in a self-satirising way and I appreciate that style far more than the words.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
31 weeks ago

Willenhall

"I get lots of first messages from people asking it. 3 in a row this evening 🤮hence the post

Are you sure it wasn't Santa Claus that was asking?

If it was he won't have anything left in his sack for you now...

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By *vaRoseWoman
31 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Almost as bad as 'are you being norty?'"

*shudders*

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By *EAT..85Woman
31 weeks ago

Nottingham

My dad always tells me to behave when he says goodbye. I find it highly amusing, as he knows I'm not going to.

A fab friend sometimes says it, but it's usually if I'm being really cheeky and that's ok. Otherwise, yeah, I suppose there is an element of ick.

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By *midnight-Woman
31 weeks ago

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"Might be the ickiest question to be asked 🤢

It makes my skin crawl. I’m not a child doing something wrong. Ugh.

Is it not just a not so subtle way of asking if you are playing with anyone else???

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By *rdere OpusCouple
31 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Oooh. Is that used as chat?

Ooft"

By the uninitiated, yes.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, also being called trouble by someone you've never spoken to before.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Are you behaving?

Are you a good girl?

Have you had any fun lately?

Are you naughty/bad?

It's skin crawling stuff. 😖

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By *eliWoman
31 weeks ago

I find it really grim and I deliberately ignore that question and move on to another topic.

It's added to the terms/words/sounds playdate, nawty, mmmmmmmm and meet. That general pile of things I'd rather not hear/read and have to politely smile when someone uses one.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Let’s put it this way…. I’m not planning on going midnight mass this year!!! I’ll burn the place down when I spontaneously combust!

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By *emma200Woman
31 weeks ago

Warwickshire

"Oooh. Is that used as chat?

Ooft"

Quite often with some of the messages I get

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple
31 weeks ago

deal

Think my name says it all

Mrs

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By *egasus NobMan
31 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Well are you 😂

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By *egasus NobMan
31 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Just another way of saying hello my guess not meant to take literally.

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
31 weeks ago

Gloucester

Absolutely hate this question 🤢🤢

I wish people would stop making sex out to be something that’s wrong or naughty.

We are adults and sex is a natural part of life.

Kink (Mrs)

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"On the kink scene, it can be quite a valid question, especially if something for a scene or dynamic has been negotiated, if you’re not into it, absolutely not ok, stop pushing your fantasies into other people!! "

Yeah, it's not my thing, but some people are into it. That's fine.

But from Biggus Dickus finding his way into an inbox for the first time, it's gross.

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Yeah, it's not my thing, but some people are into it. That's fine.

But from Biggus Dickus finding his way into an inbox for the first time, it's gross."

Point.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

For someone with my username is it a tad odd I've never had that as a message? 🤔🤦‍♂️😂

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By *mf123Man
31 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No im being a cunt

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