FabSwingers.com forum: New sub

By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

My new sub has disappointed me the past few days.

Other than spanking his bum, ideas on how I punish him sexually?

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By *ortySwitchMan
8 weeks ago

london

Sit there in silence with an x-box controller. He'll be crushed

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Sit there in silence with an x-box controller. He'll be crushed

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
8 weeks ago

wonderland.

"My new sub has disappointed me the past few days.

Other than spanking his bum, ideas on how I punish him sexually?

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if they have disappointed you why would you be giving them any attention.

However depending on how they have... perhaps a conversation needs to be had

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

There's only one punishment for when they disappoint.

Ignore them entirely 💜

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Thank you.

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I feel he needs some form of sexual punishment, before the silent treatment.

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By *rama FreeMan
8 weeks ago

The Jungle

Make him watch a Rangers game.

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By *ony MannMan
8 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

Are subway doing an Xmas special

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By *oan77Man
8 weeks ago

London, Fulham

Tie him up, tease him and then leave him hard and go away, more and more times

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Tie him up, tease him and then leave him hard and go away, more and more times

Now that’s for more serious subordination issues, thank you!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I feel he needs some form of sexual punishment, before the silent treatment."

Nah.

If you reward disappointing behaviour with play then they'll keep disappointing you.

If it's a bratty kind of dynamic and you like them behaving that way, then you're not disappointed, and what you're looking to give isn't actually a punishment, just a part of play.

Disappointment to me is something that shouldn't be encouraged 💜

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By *emorefridaCouple
8 weeks ago

La la land

Depends on what you and your sub have agreed. Some above have said silent treatment which is a massive no no for me, and is one of my boundaries. So it very much varies from person to person.

Find it's better to have discussions with your sub, make sure they know what is expected of them and what the consequences are of non compliance. Makes life a heck of a lot easier when everyone understands the rules.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Tie him up, let him think he’s getting some action, put deep heat down his pants & send him home

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Tie him up, let him think he’s getting some action, put deep heat down his pants & send him home"

If thats the punishment for disapointment definately never want to make you angry 😮

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Depends on what you and your sub have agreed. Some above have said silent treatment which is a massive no no for me, and is one of my boundaries. So it very much varies from person to person.

Thank you!

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By *asterfulsoulMan
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Have you considered therapy.

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By *asterfulsoulMan
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I should clarify that therapy is what I call my thick cane.

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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I should clarify that therapy is what I call my thick cane."

I have a spanker but feel cane is too severe a punishment.. at the moment

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

What are your agreed limits? Punishments need to be outlined beforehand.

However

Cage him, make him wear a strapon and you can fuck the strapon

Use a dildo gag and have him fuck you

Tie him to a chair and make him watch you

Next time you meet tease the fuck out of him but don’t allow him to climax at all

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By *use and wolfCouple
8 weeks ago

angus

What about a long drawn out edging session culminating in a ruined orgasm?

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By *use and wolfCouple
8 weeks ago

angus

Or, get a thick rubber cock sheath like we have, keeps him hard and You can fuck him but he won't feel any of it, very frustrating...

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By *armandwet50Couple
8 weeks ago

Far far away

"I feel he needs some form of sexual punishment, before the silent treatment."

give him a ruined orgasm

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By *omRachCouple
8 weeks ago

Wirral

Can we enquire as to the nature of your annoyance OP - what has/hasn't he done to incur your wrath?

An idea of his offence may be useful in terms of thinking up.a suitable punishment.

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By *rHotNottsMan
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Are subway doing an Xmas special "

I also came here for this, so disappointed.

OP - just punch him in the balls and tell him to get out.

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