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Making the first move volume 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago

So I just found the other thread about women making the first move.

When I've done this it has actually worked out a lot better for me.

So guys n gurls: if you're a Lady that wants to send the first message and you're unsure, make it known right here and let's have a girl power kissmas!

Guys if you'd like a first message from your forum *A listers* just say you're in!

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair

•Ín•

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"•Ín•"

With bells on? 🎊

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By *iss.BellaWoman
16 weeks ago

Wales

In for the few I've not told yet. And I might send reminders to the nice ones

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Guys if you'd like a first message from your forum *A listers* just say you're in!"

Oh, hello. I’m in for that.

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair


"•Ín•

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With bells on? 🎊"

If you (or any other damsel) wishes to embellish my relish with whatever benevolent bells and baubles that are at your disposal, no one would be more delighted than I. ❣️

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By *aitonelMan
16 weeks ago

Liverpool

I dont often check messages much these days but sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"In for the few I've not told yet. And I might send reminders to the nice ones "

That's a good idea, sometimes people need that extra little nudge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"Guys if you'd like a first message from your forum *A listers* just say you're in!

Oh, hello. I’m in for that."

Oh I love your baubles! I agree, the kissing

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've never objected to sending the first message

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Oh I love your baubles! I agree, the kissing "

Oh, thank you!

I was going to apologise for the baubles. You know how it is. You do a thing for one thread, and end up looking like a cock in all the others …

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By *imples24Man
16 weeks ago

tamworth

I’m in and think this is the way forward with them over flowing inboxes 🎅 🎄

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By *ivilised matureMan
16 weeks ago

Barnes mostly

In for a Penny or a Sue

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
16 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Always happy to have my box lit up.

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"•Ín•

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With bells on? 🎊

If you (or any other damsel) wishes to embellish my relish with whatever benevolent bells and baubles that are at your disposal, no one would be more delighted than I. ❣️"

Your responses just brighten my day

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By *altonUkguyMan
16 weeks ago

Walton On Thames

Unfortunately messages from women seem to be a bit ‘thin on the ground’, in the Surrey area.

I agree that it’s probably easier for club meets, rather than a long chat/ discussion online - a probably from a fake profile - which is just sooooo annoying/ wrong.

Happy Xmas everyone!!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
16 weeks ago

kent

Oh how lovely. I (George) and we (Ailsa too) are in for this.

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By *hoirCouple
16 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

We're in with bells on.

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By *altonUkguyMan
16 weeks ago

Walton On Thames

I’m in, if you’re in!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"Unfortunately messages from women seem to be a bit ‘thin on the ground’, in the Surrey area.

I agree that it’s probably easier for club meets, rather than a long chat/ discussion online - a probably from a fake profile - which is just sooooo annoying/ wrong.

Happy Xmas everyone!!"

Yeah clubs are great if you can find a nice one!

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
16 weeks ago

the moon

Ladies 1st

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By *aybeLadyWoman
16 weeks ago

West Dublin

I've often sent a 1st message. Whats the worst that can happen!??

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By *urreyfun38Couple
16 weeks ago

croydon

Always happy to have a first message

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By *altonUkguyMan
16 weeks ago

Walton On Thames


"Unfortunately messages from women seem to be a bit ‘thin on the ground’, in the Surrey area.

I agree that it’s probably easier for club meets, rather than a long chat/ discussion online - a probably from a fake profile - which is just sooooo annoying/ wrong.

Happy Xmas everyone!!

Yeah clubs are great if you can find a nice one!"

Thanks Santa !! 🎅🏻😈

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By *NormalMan01Man
16 weeks ago

Harrogate

I love the little ego boost of a first message it’s very flattering to know that someone might fancy you… so I’d love a message of intent… 🥵

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By *partharmonyCouple
16 weeks ago

Ruislip

Ladies, feel free to make a move on us.

Or just Hannah. That's fine too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago

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By *mf123Man
16 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I dont message anyone new anymore just folks i knew in the past for a natter

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By *hiversMan
16 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

In!

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By *nterblueMan
16 weeks ago

manchester

Please do 💌

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
16 weeks ago

Wherever

A girl power kissmas!

I’ll come back to this thread later when I have a moment.

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By *ean441300Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"So I just found the other thread about women making the first move.

When I've done this it has actually worked out a lot better for me.

So guys n gurls: if you're a Lady that wants to send the first message and you're unsure, make it known right here and let's have a girl power kissmas!

Guys if you'd like a first message from your forum *A listers* just say you're in!"

“In” - always enjoy a first move….

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By *ags73Man
16 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

In.

See what happens.

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By *hunky GentMan
16 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm in, but I'm rather shy.

Be gentle......

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"In for the few I've not told yet. And I might send reminders to the nice ones "

In.

But pretty sure I'm on the naughty list this xmas. 🤷‍♂️

*as always.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"In for the few I've not told yet. And I might send reminders to the nice ones

In.

But pretty sure I'm on the naughty list this xmas. 🤷‍♂️

*as always......."

I'm sure that's the best list to be on

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By *ir tootMan
16 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"I'm in, but I'm rather shy.

Be gentle...... "

You've said it to the masses now, gentle it is!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"In.

See what happens."

Don't forget to update

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By *iss.BellaWoman
16 weeks ago

Wales

Oh I forgot about this

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By *ornyRebel88Man
16 weeks ago

Fermoy

In

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"I dont message anyone new anymore just folks i knew in the past for a natter"

That's lovely though, maybe you could have a new natter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"Unfortunately messages from women seem to be a bit ‘thin on the ground’, in the Surrey area.

I agree that it’s probably easier for club meets, rather than a long chat/ discussion online - a probably from a fake profile - which is just sooooo annoying/ wrong.

Happy Xmas everyone!!

Yeah clubs are great if you can find a nice one!

Thanks Santa !! 🎅🏻😈"

Any time 🎅

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"A girl power kissmas!

I’ll come back to this thread later when I have a moment."

Did you find a moment fellow lady chaos?

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By *ir tootMan
16 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Go on then why not, always happy to chat to new fabbers.

So I'm in!

What could possibly go right!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
16 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I dont often check messages much these days but sure"
evidently lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
16 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Me making the first move has never worked out for me 🤣😭

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By *imply_SensualMan
16 weeks ago

Widnes

Will give this a try - "in"

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By *.T.Man
16 weeks ago

Belfast

In!

Nothing brighten my day more than a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

You've twisted my arm.

In

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By *rMonkeyMan
16 weeks ago

Somewhere

In for an early Christmas present

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair


"•Ín•

·

With bells on? 🎊

If you (or any other damsel) wishes to embellish my relish with whatever benevolent bells and baubles that are at your disposal, no one would be more delighted than I. ❣️

·

Your responses just brighten my day "

These types of compliments always fuel my Fab apparatus.

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By *layfullsamMan
16 weeks ago

Solihull

I’m in

What could possibly go wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"•Ín•

·

With bells on? 🎊

If you (or any other damsel) wishes to embellish my relish with whatever benevolent bells and baubles that are at your disposal, no one would be more delighted than I. ❣️

·

Your responses just brighten my day

These types of compliments always fuel my Fab apparatus."

I enjoy providing fuel for the 🔥

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By *enk15Man
16 weeks ago

Evesham

I feel late to the party but dammit, I'm in

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By *ynamicnatureMan
16 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm in,

I'll have to clear my inbox in preparation,😅

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

My box has been as busy as Grand Central Station, you know. It’s the happiest time of the year.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
16 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

In please!

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By *sWyldWoman
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Ok, I'll be brave!

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By *LiamMan
16 weeks ago

Midlands

Late but here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"I feel late to the party but dammit, I'm in "

Better late than never I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"Late but here "

And again!

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

First move makers more than welcome in my box.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"Ok, I'll be brave! "

👧👧 💪 💪 💪

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
16 weeks ago


"I'm in,

I'll have to clear my inbox in preparation,😅"

Would you like to borrow my snow plough?

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By *ouchthisbeardMan
16 weeks ago

London/Nottm

Oh I’m very much in

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Hello. (Miss)

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By *NormalMan01Man
16 weeks ago

Harrogate

I’m very much still in… maybe my inbox is broken?

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By *X2019Man
16 weeks ago

Newcastle

Always hot when a lass makes the first move. Shows a bit of confidence and certainly stands out

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By *iss.BellaWoman
16 weeks ago

Wales


"Late but here "

Oh hello

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By *r SensualMan
16 weeks ago

London

I’m in

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

𝐋𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 — 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞. 💐

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By *atte Lover 82Man
7 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

I'm definitely in for this

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By *umber77777Man
7 weeks ago

Aldershot

When she makes the first move it is absolutely sure that she will get a reaction

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By *iss.BellaWoman
7 weeks ago

Wales

A bump for the gents

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
7 weeks ago

bedford


"A bump for the gents "

Better late then. Never

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By *rHotNottsMan
7 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I love getting messages or winks from ladies, the process just goes so much easier. A couple were wink, you wink back & they mostly just ignore you.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Guys if you'd like a first message from your forum *A listers* just say you're in!"

I’m still in for that.

I mean, I generally always am.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

What about us zlisters?

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"What about us zlisters?"

Aww

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Everyone is somebody’s A-lister. Might as well shoot your shot.

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By *ergus1622Man
7 weeks ago

Dundee

I am game , see what happens!

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair


"𝐋𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 — 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞. 💐"

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Bumps-a-daisy.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
7 days ago

North Wessex Downs

I'm in!

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By *ergus1622Man
7 days ago

Dundee

Let's see if anything happens?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

little house on the praire

I often used to make the first move with great success

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
7 days ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I've tried making the first move to bugger all avail

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