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By *ehindClosedDesires OP   Man
6 weeks ago

close enough

Hello, I'm fairly new to this site and this scene. I can tell just from reading profiles that single men profiles are very much on the back foot here, which is not surprising, but I wondered how does one go about getting verified as genuine?

I don't like the idea of sending a million messages to multiple profiles until someone replies, I've sent a couple of polite messages with not so much as a reply, which again I'm not surprised as most profiles probably get inundated with them. It sort of seems like a catch 22.

Is it a good idea to go to a club and be sociable just to meet people to have verifications? I know my profile is fairly bare... Should I post more pictures publicly?

Looking for advice, really.

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By *orphia2003Woman
6 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'd certainly say that going to an organised social is the best way to meet people and subsequently get verifications.

Find one you like, message the organiser, explain you are new and I'm sure they will take good care of you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


" I know my profile is fairly bare... Should I post more pictures publicly?

Looking for advice, really. "

Yes definitely post a variety of pics. Personally I'm not attracted to hairy armpits. Also I find the phrase "untoward bodily excretions" offputting. You are ethically non monogamous so could you ask your partner to give advice on what appeals to women on a profile ?

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By *iker JackMan
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I am confused

What do you think being verified as genuine will give you?

What does genuine mean? It’s whatever perception you give that person which may or may not be genuine

Verifications do not open a magical door

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

To see if someone is verified you need to click on their profile, therefore the profile pic, the introductory message or a forum comment must spark interest.

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By *ffervescentMan
6 weeks ago

winfrith


"Hello, I'm fairly new to this site and this scene. I can tell just from reading profiles that single men profiles are very much on the back foot here, which is not surprising, but I wondered how does one go about getting verified as genuine?

I don't like the idea of sending a million messages to multiple profiles until someone replies, I've sent a couple of polite messages with not so much as a reply, which again I'm not surprised as most profiles probably get inundated with them. It sort of seems like a catch 22.

Is it a good idea to go to a club and be sociable just to meet people to have verifications? I know my profile is fairly bare... Should I post more pictures publicly?

Looking for advice, really. "

Get verified on cam or at a club or eventually at a meet but only if they are verified themselves also you can get postal veries ,hope this helped.

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By *iker JackMan
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"To see if someone is verified you need to click on their profile, therefore the profile pic, the introductory message or a forum comment must spark interest. "

But he’s asked about being verified as genuine. Is that not sending the photo with the bit of paper of your name for the green flag

It’s early. It’s probably me being confused

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

How do you get a postal verification please ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


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But he’s asked about being verified as genuine. Is that not sending the photo with the bit of paper of your name for the green flag

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I think you are correct and I was mistaken

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By *ffervescentMan
6 weeks ago

winfrith


"How do you get a postal verification please ?"
Give me your address and I post it to you .Well I don't I'm not verified but a verified user would

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds


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But he’s asked about being verified as genuine. Is that not sending the photo with the bit of paper of your name for the green flag

"

He has the green flag

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By *ffervescentMan
6 weeks ago

winfrith


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But he’s asked about being verified as genuine. Is that not sending the photo with the bit of paper of your name for the green flag

He has the green flag"

He has been verified as a man then ,he's ready to go .

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By *mandaxxx34Woman
6 weeks ago

london

Meet people!

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By *ffervescentMan
6 weeks ago

winfrith


"Meet people!"
I met loads of people today and not just that I have a green flag .

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