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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

and I know it may sound as if I am implying double standards but here it goes :

How would your view of a person whose professional advice you seek eg a GP, a lawyer etc change if you knew they were swingers.

Would it change? Would it change for the better, the worse?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

wouldn't change at all

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

wouldnt change ..myb change for the better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me- no

Someone who believes the shite printed in the sun, the mail etc- quite possibly

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"wouldnt change ..myb change for the better lol"
Not including special rates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't change at all..... What ever people do for a job, be it a professional job or an un professional job!!!

If I had to seek advice from let's say a lawyer who I happened to know swung, I wouldn't mention it but probably wouldn't be able to hide my " I know what you do" look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it change? Their private lives take nothing away from their public lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no matter what the job we are all people with needs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know I think I'd feel happier talking to a doctor who I knew swung. As crazy as that sounds when my health first went south and I was in A&E I had to explain to the doctor that the night before I'd had some pretty full on hardcore sex. I was mortified (as was she) but if I'd have known she was a swinger I'd probably not have felt so embarrassed.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester


"wouldnt change ..myb change for the better lolNot including special rates lol"

so you think me angling for free tummy tuck out is the question then ..lmao

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It wouldn't change at all..... What ever people do for a job, be it a professional job or an un professional job!!!

If I had to seek advice from let's say a lawyer who I happened to know swung, I wouldn't mention it but probably wouldn't be able to hide my " I know what you do" look "
I agree - for me it would not change how I view the professionally. If anything I might be inclined to assume a greater tolerance for people although I could be wrong there.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It would change things for me.

I would only employ hot female professionals and after I had received my advice I would totally flip/reverse that shit and deliver something of my own. IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"wouldnt change ..myb change for the better lolNot including special rates lol

so you think me angling for free tummy tuck out is the question then ..lmao "
hey if you find a good and "inclined" surgeon I might consider a bit of lipo for myself

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It would change things for me.

I would only employ hot female professionals and after I had received my advice I would totally flip/reverse that shit and deliver something of my own. IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!!"
Impressive how you always emerge at the right moment

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"No no matter what the job we are all people with needs ."
Are nt we just xx

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

though i do get special favours from a very sxy mehanic i know

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

If I knew my Dr swung, it would be a lot easier to go in for a checkup and tell them what we have been doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would like to think that a person in a high powered profession such as law or medicine would be professional enough to deal with your problem and keep swinging totally separate ...

When in the military, we came across more than a few swingers in our time and if we worked with them, the banter may have had a few more double entendre s than normal but work was work .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"You would like to think that a person in a high powered profession such as law or medicine would be professional enough to deal with your problem and keep swinging totally separate ...

When in the military, we came across more than a few swingers in our time and if we worked with them, the banter may have had a few more double entendre s than normal but work was work ....."
SImilar experience here

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"It would change things for me.

I would only employ hot female professionals and after I had received my advice I would totally flip/reverse that shit and deliver something of my own. IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!!Impressive how you always emerge at the right moment "

I have a knack

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Wouldnt change..

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

For me probably be for the better. They know what they want or like and gone after it, if the apply the same practice to their work life chances are they will be good at it.

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By *ust_RedWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Nothing would change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly enough the majority of people actually do have sex, someones sexual proclivity doesn't affect my view of the way they do their job.

Ergo all politicians are wankers

QED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes if they were into weird stuff or i didnt like the look of people they met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt bother me. Its their private life - might be someone to chat to about it lol

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By *hérieWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

It would awaken the scandal squad inside my head.

But it wouldn’t change my opinion; admiring somebody’s profession wouldn’t change.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"and I know it may sound as if I am implying double standards but here it goes :

How would your view of a person whose professional advice you seek eg a GP, a lawyer etc change if you knew they were swingers.

Would it change? Would it change for the better, the worse? "

It wouldn't change at all...in fact last year a lovely Doc at the hospital said as I was leaving " I don't need to see you professionally anymore "

It threw me a bit and I laughed and said so does that mean you want to meet socially as if you did it has to be with the hubby too....if he had said he was a swinger then I would have been very happy as he was gorgeous

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"and I know it may sound as if I am implying double standards but here it goes :

How would your view of a person whose professional advice you seek eg a GP, a lawyer etc change if you knew they were swingers.

Would it change? Would it change for the better, the worse? "

It would change the way I see the person not my opinion of their profesionalism or how do their job...I might be tempted to take 'advantage' of the situation.... ...did I really write that????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know a family member found out their GP was into S&M, they very quickly changed doctors.

Personally it would not bother me, as what the Dr does in the spare is their business and not mine.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

My view of my priest would change yes.

Confession would never be the same again

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"and I know it may sound as if I am implying double standards but here it goes :

How would your view of a person whose professional advice you seek eg a GP, a lawyer etc change if you knew they were swingers.

Would it change? Would it change for the better, the worse? "

nope, what they do in their spare time makes no difference to their professionalism

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Thing is... some of the people we meet and engage with at professional level may well be swingers and we would never know.

It would not bother me as long as I could trust their professional confidentiality, whcih I am sure they would not pout at risk.

And yes, some are drop dead gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would not change at all professionals always act professional so no problem x

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Wouldn't change my opinion of them.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

If I was going for professional advice then it wouldnt bother in the slightest what they do in their private lives, thats not why I am seeing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest,infact I'd think they were more likely to be more honest

You could be asking the wrong crowd as a lot of people would frown upon it ,as not everyone is as open minded

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest,infact I'd think they were more likely to be more honest

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See, that is what I kind of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view of my priest would change yes.

Confession would never be the same again

"

so whos confessing what and to whom?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Disgression is definately garanteed and rather take professional advise from a likeminded person

(susie)

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