FabSwingers.com forum: How have your swinging ambitions changed in teh time you have been on this site?

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am asking about criteria for meeting people, the dos and don'ts of your profile and also how your views on some practices and the scene have changed. For example you may have been just meeting singles, never intended to attend socials and/or met people to play/ or not play on the first night.

I am curious what makes people change and how they evolve? I know I have changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my second profile on as a single female. When I first joined I fucked and fucked and fucked! Then I got ill and decided to go nilla. I then rejoined after a stalker ex and fucked and fucked again! Met a Dominant had a great time etc etc. In January things ended with the Dominant and I decided to slow things down on the meets other than in clubs.

Went to a party, met my wonderful J and I've slowed down massively and we now have a profile together.

My priorities when I first joined were get as much cock as possible!! Now I want to explore meeting couples with J and exploring things with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That didn't really answer the question did it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am asking about criteria for meeting people, the dos and don'ts of your profile and also how your views on some practices and the scene have changed. For example you may have been just meeting singles, never intended to attend socials and/or met people to play/ or not play on the first night.

I am curious what makes people change and how they evolve? I know I have changed.

We just fuck everyone we meet nice and simple

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"That didn't really answer the question did it!? "
I think you did answer the question - it was kind of what I was thinking, that we may have different criteria and priorities at different times.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am curious what makes people change and how they evolve? I know I have changed.

We just fuck everyone we meet nice and simple

Xx"
At least no complications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curious what makes people change and how they evolve? I know I have changed.

We just fuck everyone we meet nice and simple

XxAt least no complications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My criteria is quality over quantity I want to enjoy the sex I have not have notches on my bed post. I would like to find someone I can enjoy the swing scene with rather than being a single fella on a swinging site if that makes sense. My first criteria was to actually meet people on here. Now I want to explore in a different way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined, I wanted to find mh boundaries, to explored experience as much as I could. And I did.

Now, my profile is hidden as I'm not looking for anyone. I've found what I wasn't looking for and that's changed my whole idea about being on here.

It's as if I've moved through to a different phase. I know myself better now, I appreciate who I am and I know what I'm capable of and that's enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for grammar. Blame predictive text. Grrrrrrr

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

I would say that I ave become a lot more accepting of peoples sexuality. The first thing on our original profile was NO CD/TV/GAY/BI MEN....We still only play with straight men but have removed all the CD/TV stuff.....apart from BI/Bi-curious as we still get contacted by Bi men who we will not play with!

We are also now very much into sub/Dom play......No pain, i might add! This is something neither of us had even considered, when we came onto the swinging scene this time last year.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"When I first joined, I wanted to find mh boundaries, to explored experience as much as I could. And I did.

Now, my profile is hidden as I'm not looking for anyone. I've found what I wasn't looking for and that's changed my whole idea about being on here.

It's as if I've moved through to a different phase. I know myself better now, I appreciate who I am and I know what I'm capable of and that's enough for me. "
I can subscribe to that - it is kind of an evolution at personal level.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I would say that I ave become a lot more accepting of peoples sexuality. The first thing on our original profile was NO CD/TV/GAY/BI MEN....We still only play with straight men but have removed all the CD/TV stuff.....apart from BI/Bi-curious as we still get contacted by Bi men who we will not play with!

We are also now very much into sub/Dom play......No pain, i might add! This is something neither of us had even considered, when we came onto the swinging scene this time last year."
I have become more accepting of other people's sexuality whcih is different from mine. It does not mean I would play with them but it does mean it would not worry or freak me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as well my knowledge about BDSM and D/s has developed massively. I understand the concepts now and am perfectly capable of bringing a dim dom down a peg or 3!

Its now become a fsvourite past time of mine!

Oh and I've played with women!

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

"I think as well my knowledge about BDSM and D/s has developed massively. I understand the concepts now and am perfectly capable of bringing a dim dom down a peg or 3!

Its now become a fsvourite past time of mine!

Oh and I've played with women! "

Why would you want to bring dwn a Dom, sophie? Surely as you say you understand the consept of a D/s relationship, you understand that being a Dom is just a role as is being a sub! Both roles are very different but neither is more worthy than the other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as well my knowledge about BDSM and D/s has developed massively. I understand the concepts now and am perfectly capable of bringing a dim dom down a peg or 3!

Its now become a fsvourite past time of mine!

Oh and I've played with women!

Firstly its Ruby and secondly I bring down dim doms who have no concept of D/s. This isn't the place for the conversation however, if you'd prefer to continue it privately.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I think as well my knowledge about BDSM and D/s has developed massively. I understand the concepts now and am perfectly capable of bringing a dim dom down a peg or 3!

Its now become a fsvourite past time of mine!

Oh and I've played with women! "

Must say the scene was the eye opener for me in so many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think as well my knowledge about BDSM and D/s has developed massively. I understand the concepts now and am perfectly capable of bringing a dim dom down a peg or 3!

Its now become a fsvourite past time of mine!

Oh and I've played with women!

Must say the scene was the eye opener for me in so many ways

Yes I remember watching my first gangbang and being terrified and also a dungeon session too - now the dungeon is my favourite place in a club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging has totally made realise how sex can be amazing in so many ways.

When first joined on another site wasn't sure wot I was wanting, just knew sex was boring n wanted to have fun and do more than basics.

I had few men who I fucked eventually met gio and has taught me so many things, roleplay, he is my master n doms me,i love it as makes me cum loads, the sex wow! Together we have.learned what buttons to press to get each other horny .....

We have a profile together as trust each other totally and we discus things and he makes me think bout what i want from being pleasured but never puts pressure on me.

I have totally evolved from starting with basics foreplay n just plain sex to doing lots with gio even anal. Never thought I would do anal as sounded painful but once had anal want all time now. Want to do lots more together and even mff.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I've changed so much over the last 5 years and even more so over the last 18 months.

At first I was definately niave and easily taken in. But as my sexual confidence has grownI've learnt some lessons, sometimes the hard way, and now easily am able to sort the wheat from the chaff and the bull shitters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Ruby on this one.. obviously as she is my little protege... However, what she really means is that she takes down the men that think dominance is all about tying up and spanking and basically being a twat.. so she is really putting down wannabe dominants.. not real ones..

however far to many dominants these days think that being sub, Means I should talk to them in a certain way...

As to what I have learnt on this site.. oh my god too much to list... I'm more understanding of others preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and to me being submissive is not a role... It's a part of who I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i first came on here i met men on their own, met a few couples didnt realy enjoy it that much though.

then started to meet two or three men for group fun, some of it was fun, if i met the right people.

at the moment i only want to meet men on their own unless its men who i think are right for me.

some of the men i have met werent right for me and i regreted meeting them.

on another site like this as well.

i was quite careful about who i met before but now i am being much more careful in that i wont meet someone just because i dont like to say no, or because i am feeling a bit bored.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

When I first joined, I guess I was like most new males. I messaged everything that twitched. Now I have quite a few no, no's on my profile, and very rarely message anyone new. Far too many hairy toed people about

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