FabSwingers.com forum: When do you want to die?

By *EAT..85 OP Woman
5 days ago

Nottingham

If you could choose, what age would you want to die at?

How many generations of your family would you hope to see born, how many world changes would you want to be there for? Would you cap it to coincide with a loved one?

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By *ertcoupleCouple
5 days ago

Hatfield

Thought it was the season to be jolly!!! 😣😣😣

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 days ago

East Sussex

Before I'm incapable.

Extreme old age isn't pretty if you can't look after your own basic needs.

I don't want to be alone.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
5 days ago

Dartford

I want to be shot by a jealous lover at the age of 96

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
5 days ago

kent

When I’m 124 years old. I would have lived in three centuries, and that just seems amazing. I could also die with a woman fully 100 years younger than me sitting on my face 😁

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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
5 days ago

Nottingham

"Before I'm incapable.

Extreme old age isn't pretty if you can't look after your own basic needs.

I don't want to be alone. "

Perhaps I should add if you were in good health!

I 100% agree with you based on health.

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By *929Man
5 days ago

newcastle

Being honest I only really care to live long enough to see my kids into adulthood of which they aren’t far off now, after that I don’t care how soon i die, I’d never off myself but wouldn’t be bothered if it was sooner rather than later

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 days ago

East Sussex

"Before I'm incapable.

Extreme old age isn't pretty if you can't look after your own basic needs.

I don't want to be alone.

Perhaps I should add if you were in good health!

I 100% agree with you based on health. "

In very good health probably in to my 90s but I don't want my kids to feel responsible for my well being or obligated to look after me. I'd go in to assisted living rather.

I already feel I've seen enough world events to last me several life times and to show me that history really does just keep repeating itself.

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By *tu.xMan
5 days ago

around

"Thought it was the season to be jolly!!! 😣😣😣"
all together now we wish you a merry 😆

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By *heshireChappyMan
5 days ago

Prestbury

Just realised that my life insurance now covers me for suicide...

And with a history of dementia in the family I've already primed a couple of close friends that if I ever get to the point I need a care home then I want a one-way ticket to Switzerland.

Apart from that, so long as I'm not a burden on others and have all my faculties I'll hold onto the kids inheritance as long as I can.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
5 days ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'd like to die at the dawn of the Third Age of Mankind, ten years after the Earth-Minbari War...

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

"I want to be shot by a jealous lover at the age of 96"

Brilliant

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By *heshireChappyMan
5 days ago

Prestbury

"I want to be shot by a jealous lover at the age of 96"

That's a fantastic ambition... I might just adopt that too.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

I'd go for falling off a mountain aged 90 after learning rock climbing aged 85.

In truth it'll probably be within the next 5 years sitting in my van in traffic losing my temper at some gdd damn awful driver and popping an artery in my brain.

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Chesterfield

It’s a tough one.

My Dad is in his 80s and terminally ill, so I have thought about this.

I would say I’d like to go just before being in constant pain and unable to look after myself.

But what if I got better? Even for a while?

Also, I’ve been with someone whilst they died slowly and in pain and I’d rather go out in a bang.

It’s all a bit weird.

You’d think we’d have a better way to do it by now. Bit like pregnancy and birth. It all gets a bit medieval.

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Chesterfield

"popping an artery in my brain.

Something quick and painless would be ideal.

Or would you rather have time to plan it?

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By *ony MannMan
5 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I intend to live forever.......or die trying.

If I knew when I was going to die, I would make it worth while and take out one of those dictators that keep getting 'elected'.

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

South Wales

Before I start wishing I was dead.

My Nan lived until her 90’s but she was on so much medication for various ailments and stuff that she’d reached the point when she’d had enough and would tell anyone who would listen she’d had enough!

So before that please.

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Chesterfield

Need to start living, if you know what I mean.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
5 days ago

Birmingham

As soon as possible

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
5 days ago

North West

Based on the "not in constant pain" and "not a burden on others", I should have topped myself precisely 8 years ago yesterday.

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
5 days ago

Brum

Not until the New Year hopefully

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
5 days ago

Brum

"Based on the "not in constant pain" and "not a burden on others", I should have topped myself precisely 8 years ago yesterday."

I hear you xx

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By *ather WickmasMan
5 days ago

The Continental

"Not until the New Year hopefully "

After you’ve had a go on me.

Wise choice

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
5 days ago

Brum

"Not until the New Year hopefully

After you’ve had a go on me.

Wise choice "

Oh yeah, at least 3 quality minutes into the new year

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By *ather WickmasMan
5 days ago

The Continental

"Not until the New Year hopefully

After you’ve had a go on me.

Wise choice

Oh yeah, at least 3 quality minutes into the new year"

For you…..I’ll eat a couple ‘o extra weetabix and go 4 minutes.

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
5 days ago

Brum

"Not until the New Year hopefully

After you’ve had a go on me.

Wise choice

Oh yeah, at least 3 quality minutes into the new year

For you…..I’ll eat a couple ‘o extra weetabix and go 4 minutes. "

I love this ..🤣🫦

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 days ago

East London

When I feel I've had enough.

I'd like to see my great-great-grandchildren. Which could be before I'm 75.

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By *ltrMan
5 days ago

sheffield

After my son who is a quadriplegic would be ideal for me not bothered how only not to be hanging on

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By *ensuallover1000Man
5 days ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I want to live forever or at least until when the stroke of an opponents sword and the fall of my head will release the power of my Quickening….

In the end, there can be only one! 👍🏻

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

Darwen

I want to live for at least a thousand years

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By *orcsmatMan
5 days ago

Kidderminster

Not soon. Having a great time and do not want it to end.

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By *NormalMan01Man
5 days ago

Harrogate

"If you could choose, what age would you want to die at?

How many generations of your family would you hope to see born, how many world changes would you want to be there for? Would you cap it to coincide with a loved one? "

Around 1430 and if I could be resurrected by 1435, that would be mega. Have the school run at 1500…

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By *ansoffateMan
5 days ago

Sagittarius A

Just before they discover a solution for immortality. Like the last person to die.

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By *agnar73Man
5 days ago

glasgow-ish

A long time ahead hopefully

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By *uriousscouserWoman
5 days ago

Wirral

I'm not particularly arsed. I've got no kids, no concerns about leaving anyone.

I'd rather outlive my mum because I don't want her having to wrap up my affairs and clear out my flat when part of my estate can pay for that to be done by someone who isn't grieving.

Ideally I'd like to go on the first Sunday in January of whichever year. Enjoy the Christmas break and pop off before I have to go back into work. Perfect.

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By *ny1localMan
5 days ago

READING

The day after payday, I'd hate to have worked the week and not get paid.

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By *orbidden eastMan
5 days ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think it’d be nice to get over 80, and that would be nice.

And then I can soup up the mobility scooter

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By *elboy1978Man
5 days ago

Fellgate

Today

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By *oxy-RedWoman
5 days ago

high on a hill with a lonely goat herd

I guess when my times up as we really dont have any say in the matter

My Dad passed at 84,And my Mams 89 and doing good so will I have the luxury of living that ling who knows

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
5 days ago

BRIDPORT

The ‘when’ doesn’t really bother me, the ‘how’ is of more importance

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
5 days ago

St Leonards

"The ‘when’ doesn’t really bother me, the ‘how’ is of more importance "

You want to die peacefully in your sleep like your grandfather? Not screaming like all the passengers on his bus?

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By *oastal_GentlemanMan
5 days ago

Great Yarmouth

Not today mofo's.. not today!

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By *erces LetiferMan
5 days ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Just before they discover a solution for immortality. Like the last person to die."

Damn... so you also attain immortality... in a way.

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By *og-ManMan
5 days ago

somewhere

I've always told my family that I want to visit Dignitas when I'm 70 years old ...hopefully before I'm sick or incapable of thought or in pain

It always seemed far away

But I'm 60 in February and it seems very near so I'm a bit confused about it

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By *andSxxCouple
5 days ago

Birmingham

"Before I'm incapable.

Extreme old age isn't pretty if you can't look after your own basic needs.

I don't want to be alone. "

You are absolutely right.

It is not age related. My mother is 75 years old. She have is in a lot of pain. And chemo therapy is not helping her either. She said she wanted to die. But they don't give that easily, not even on prescription.

For my part, when my time comes. Quickly, without long suffering. Preferably in bed, after I've cum 1 or 2 times with a woman.😂

mr xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 days ago

East Sussex

"Before I'm incapable.

Extreme old age isn't pretty if you can't look after your own basic needs.

I don't want to be alone.

You are absolutely right.

For my part, when my time comes. Quickly, without long suffering. Preferably in bed, after I've cum 1 or 2 times with a woman.😂

mr xx"

Best wishes to your mum and family.

My dad's 97, nearly 98. He's fir, independent and mobile but horribly lonely. He doesn't want to die but he's finding life difficult.

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By *yreGuy99Man
5 days ago

Somewhere in Moria

Maybe within 10 years from now. Nothing to make me want to stay any longer haha.

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By *ffy.Woman
5 days ago

Fife

Before 4pm would be ideal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex

"Maybe within 10 years from now. Nothing to make me want to stay any longer haha."

Whoa! Come back in ten years and say that. Things can change overnight

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 days ago

Reading

When I'm done. That will be when I have poor quality of life and am just not enjoying life. My guess between 75 and 80.

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By *ABflirtyWoman
5 days ago

Norwich

In my sleep ...... and know nothing about it.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
5 days ago

doncaster

Well this was a depressing read

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By *andSxxCouple
5 days ago

Birmingham

"Well this was a depressing read "

This is life. We are born. We live. We die. But you know what's important? It's how many memories you take with you.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
5 days ago

St Leonards

"Before 4pm would be ideal. "

But....but....then no one could ever again tickle your back until you fell asleep?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
5 days ago

North Yorkshire

I couldn’t possibly say. If I chose 85 now, I’m sure I’d get there and think, “I’m not ready yet!”

If I said, “before I’m in pain and need a lot of care,” it would feel like a disservice to my dad. He’s been in constant pain and in need of care for 30 years, and yet he’s still so grateful for life. None of us see him as a burden.

When it happens, it happens. Hopefully not for a very long time, and that’s a pretty wonderful thing to be able to say as someone who for years didn’t want to be alive at all.

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By *nubis1966Man
5 days ago

North East

"If you could choose, what age would you want to die at?

How many generations of your family would you hope to see born, how many world changes would you want to be there for? Would you cap it to coincide with a loved one? "
said thing is it want to die at least once a day

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Leeds

82 x

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By *os19Man
5 days ago

Edmonton

A young man I worked with a couple of years ago said he wanted to get to 80 that way in theory he would have had a good life with hopefully good health.A few months ago I heard that within a month he had lost his Grandmother in her 80’s and his mum in her early 60’s.

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
5 days ago

Southport

Not sure when, but probably know how...

It will likely involve a motorbike and the words "OH SHIT!!!!"

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By *he Silver FuxMan
5 days ago

Uttoxeter

When I’ve had enough

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Ideally on bin day. I could climb inside the non recycle bin.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
5 days ago

your head

I'd like to say once my children have reached adulthood and have their own lives but I'm fully aware there's no good age to lose a parent so, before I become incapable of looking after myself.

Although the way I'm feeling atm, maybe someone should just put me out to pasture now and be done with it

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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
5 days ago

Nottingham

Thanks for all of the input people.

So this thread didn't go quite how I'd intended it, because I didn't put in my opening post that your health would be impeccable. It was more a question of, if you could live healthily forever, how long would you want to live. What would you hang around for!

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
5 days ago

Southport

What would I wait for?

First Contact...

And ask them to take me with them and get off this shithole of a planet

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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
5 days ago

Nottingham

For those people that have posted and are genuinely feeling low, and like they want to die today or anytime soon for whatever reason, please seek help out talk to someone. The Samaritans can offer counsel and support routes. Or text SHOUT 85258 if you just want to text someone and get support.

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By *ony MannMan
3 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

"Ideally on bin day. I could climb inside the non recycle bin. "

Solent Green

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By *ruebameMan
3 days ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I think I'll be ready to go when I'm around 67 by then I'll probably be fucked anyway with my job taking its toll on me already don't want to end up being someone else's burden

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By *aitonelMan
3 days ago

Travelling

In my own bed, with a belly full of wine and a maiden's mouth around my cock, at the age of eighty.

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By *jlondon78Man
3 days ago

Suffolk

Happy Christmas everyone

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By *arkus1812Man
3 days ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

27th January 2039 which will be;

99 years since the day I was born.

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By *lakeyMan
3 days ago

Teesside

3 oo 4 grandparents were in the late 90s when passed so got some good genes on my side I reckon my liver would have packed in by then though

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By *cflirtyMan
3 days ago

Hampshire

"Not sure when, but probably know how...

It will likely involve a motorbike and the words "OH SHIT!!!!"

Oh YES

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By *a1970Man
3 days ago

East cork

Never....

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By *alm_one4Man
3 days ago

RM16

A day before the money runs out.

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By *ony MannMan
2 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

"A day before the money runs out. "

The day after credit runs out

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By *avej500Man
2 days ago

town

Now please

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
2 days ago

London (She/Her)

Given free choice I’d rather have not been born than go through death. All the deaths I’ve seen involve the body really fighting it, which creates pain and misery. I can’t really understand why people have children, it seems to be purely selfish

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
2 days ago

Manchester

asap

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By *atch0101Man
2 days ago

Here

It's something I've been thinking about lately. Or I'm starting to get worried. No idea how but in suddenly in my 50s, I cannot stop thinking about being old. I'm genuinely stressing about it

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By *ustAGoodGirl.1Woman
2 days ago

The day I can't wipe my own arse is the day I'll happily go.

Not a day before then though

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Glasgow

I would like to go before I became a burden on my family or when the mind goes and you dont recognise anyone anymore say goodbye once and not a million times

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By *apinMan
2 days ago

London

In the year 3000 to see if nothings changed but they live underwater

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

When? As far in the future as possible.

But I've always said I'd rather do it alone. I'd hate for someone else to witness it or wake up next to me after I'd gone. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ral loveMan
2 days ago

Falmouth

When do I want to die

What a question lol

When my heart stops beating

Now the question should of been how do you want to die

With a woman sitting on my face lol ummmm mm please lol

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By *ikesEmBigMan
2 days ago

Herts

I think the not knowing is the best option

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By *antasdeerideMan
2 days ago

winfrith

I don't mind as long as I'm healthy leading up to it and I'm not bothered about generations to come ,that's down to my children.

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By *lex CoxMan
2 days ago

Porth

"If you could choose, what age would you want to die at?

How many generations of your family would you hope to see born, how many world changes would you want to be there for? Would you cap it to coincide with a loved one? "
I wanted to die 7 years ago after my soulmate suddenly did. You still have to stay strong Merry Xmas

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By *ripfillMan
2 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Interesting thread I want to die when I’m not capable of looking after myself and when I become a burden on others,

When I can’t wipe my own bottom

That’s when I think it’s time to turn off the lights

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West

Some of you are gonna have a nasty shock about the whole health/disability/burden thing. You don't get to choose. It chooses you and you just have to roll with it.

Pun possibly intended ♿

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By *ripfillMan
2 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"Some of you are gonna have a nasty shock about the whole health/disability/burden thing. You don't get to choose. It chooses you and you just have to roll with it.

Pun possibly intended ♿"

I just hope Dignitas it’s more available to defined deserving cases

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West

"Some of you are gonna have a nasty shock about the whole health/disability/burden thing. You don't get to choose. It chooses you and you just have to roll with it.

Pun possibly intended ♿

I just hope Dignitas it’s more available to defined deserving cases "

If it wasn't such a financial burden on my family to cease being a disability burden on my family, I'd already have gone

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By *abbergastedMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

I’m not scared of dying.

I just don’t want to be there when it happens.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West

Seriously. Any one of you who is presently not disabled or ill or infirm could find that changes in an instant today, tomorrow, overnight. Instead of wishing to be dead, why couldn't we think about how we could improve the world so that being disabled creates much less of a burden?

I am a burden because of structural obstacles.

I am a burden because of the immense cost of mobility equipment, assistive technology and care.

I am a burden because the world expects everyone to be a net financial contributor (which I am, at the expense of my health).

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By *lex CoxMan
2 days ago

Porth

Mental health Trauma get over it!

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By *ndoogMan
2 days ago

worthing

Made more money than I remember.

Spent more than I've ever earnt .

Just loved once , since November.

Each time I guess I'll learn.

And I know I'll never stop this aching heart,

From ever stopping me from falling apart .

I never want to take a dance with death

I never want to take the LAST Breath

Before I get ill .

Happy now .

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By *ndoogMan
2 days ago

worthing

Mick Scarlet was on LBC . . He was saying the same .

Oh yeah and only One wheelchair at a time on the bus .

It's not really a society anymore !

Here's to a peaceful revolution.

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By *ndoogMan
2 days ago

worthing

"Seriously. Any one of you who is presently not disabled or ill or infirm could find that changes in an instant today, tomorrow, overnight. Instead of wishing to be dead, why couldn't we think about how we could improve the world so that being disabled creates much less of a burden?

I am a burden because of structural obstacles.

I am a burden because of the immense cost of mobility equipment, assistive technology and care.

I am a burden because the world expects everyone to be a net financial contributor (which I am, at the expense of my health).

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

This is something I do worry about. My dad was just 52 and his mum only 42.

In reality I hope long enough to be that wild woman who should know better but is old enough not to care.

I don't want a care home and if I start to need care, I have told my boys to lace my food.

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By *erry bull1Man
2 days ago

doncaster

I’d like to die in my 80s , with a bbw sat in my face

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By *ripfillMan
2 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I am a burden because of structural obstacles.

I am a burden because of the immense cost of mobility equipment, assistive technology and care.

I am a burden because the world expects everyone to be a net financial contributor (which I am, at the expense of my health).

Please forgive me I should’ve been clearer in my reply, as my father did suffer from an incurable type of disease a form of cancer which was making his life particularly painful and was supported only by drugs and daily care in the v late stages of his life

In The inevitability of his death … then certainly it would have been kinder to offer for him an earlier exit from this world , he wanted it to be that, but he was not allowed his choice !

I apologise if there are any thoughtless comments made it was not intended .. I personally i want a choice - I do not want to suffer or live a prolong life in a vegetable state

I would not want to be a Burden for longer than necessary to my family .

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By *os19Man
2 days ago

Edmonton

Although I don’t know the date I will die I believe it will be within a year of the person I love the most

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West

I'm 39 and have needed some level of assistance or care from my family since I was 31.

My family say I'm not a burden but I never believe them.

A lot of comments here make me feel like I'm right.

The way our society views those needing assistance or care as a burden is horrible.

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By *lex CoxMan
2 days ago

Porth

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By *ike14162236Man
2 days ago

Cambridge

In my bed at home hopefully not in excessive pain and still aware of my values.

Hopefully quite a long time in the future…

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By *obilebottomMan
2 days ago

All over

"I'm 39 and have needed some level of assistance or care from my family since I was 31.

My family say I'm not a burden but I never believe them.

A lot of comments here make me feel like I'm right.

The way our society views those needing assistance or care as a burden is horrible. "

Despite what people say,I agree with you. On the whole our society is unkind towards people with additional needs of any kind whether physical disabilities, mental health needs or even financial needs. I have often seen it even on here and always challenge it as can't stand people like that. Having said that there are still a lot of people who care and will do their best to support others in a very altruistic manner.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
1 day ago

St Leonards

"This is something I do worry about. My dad was just 52 and his mum only 42.

In reality I hope long enough to be that wild woman who should know better but is old enough not to care.

I don't want a care home and if I start to need care, I have told my boys to lace my food. "

I'll be lacing my own food - it's too much on others to ask them to do it.

Although preferably I'd get myself up to the North Pole and have a wrestle with a Polar Bear.

Cuddles, fun, last bit of energy, and a good meal for the big hairy thing.

Unless it then gets a taste for other human flesh, in which case I need to rethink this.

But - Polar Bear wrestle as the last act?

Hell yeah 👊 xx

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
1 day ago

Southport

"Mental health Trauma get over it!"

What the bloody hell?????!!!!!

What an awful and callous attitude!

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
1 day ago

Southport

"I'm 39 and have needed some level of assistance or care from my family since I was 31.

My family say I'm not a burden but I never believe them.

A lot of comments here make me feel like I'm right.

The way our society views those needing assistance or care as a burden is horrible.

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By *nywhereyouwantMan
1 day ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Personally if health isn’t an issue I’d be happy once I’d ticked every country off, In reality as soon as I can’t travel anymore I’m not interested.

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By *jekimMan
1 day ago

Wigan

Yesterday

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By *iguy8919Man
1 day ago

Thetford

Hmm I would be happy if I make it to 90 and I die in my sleep. I've worked in nursing homes and I've seen what old age can do to people.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
1 day ago

Bristol

When I’m ready

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By *antasdeerideMan
1 day ago

winfrith

ok can I die in my sleep please

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By *mandaxxx34Woman
1 day ago

london

I’m happy to.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
1 day ago

couple, us we him her.

With the hangover I currently have, can I choose now please

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By *C44Man
1 day ago

Newbourne

After having been alone and single and isolated for so long I don't want to get to the age where I can't see that changing then have to face being alone through that. If I don't start a family or find love I wouldn't want to live past retirement.

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By *use and wolfCouple
1 day ago

angus

i have said since i was 20 that people only die because they accept it as an inevitability, i refuse to accept that, i will live forever or die trying...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 hours ago

North West

"i have said since i was 20 that people only die because they accept it as an inevitability, i refuse to accept that, i will live forever or die trying..."

I mean, it's definitely an intriguing way to look at things. I'm sure my aunt, who pre deceased my birth, just accepted the inevitability when she was struck by a drink-driver, whilst crossing the road at a marked crossing. She was 16. That's why she died, obviously

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By *inochioMan
20 hours ago

Derbyshire

"If you could choose, what age would you want to die at?

How many generations of your family would you hope to see born, how many world changes would you want to be there for? Would you cap it to coincide with a loved one? "

Id like to be around as long as someone needs me and wants my company.

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By *vaRose43Woman
20 hours ago

Forest of Dean

When the pain becomes too much to control. That’s it.

Speaking as someone who lives with chronic pain, who’s had level 10 screaming, vomiting and passing out pain. If I get there and it can’t be controlled, I no longer want to be here.

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By *cflirtyMan
11 hours ago

Hampshire

Not sure I'd want to choose to die, so I guess it'll be the day I stop breathing

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By *thedMan
9 hours ago

stirling

I don't really want to know when I'll die, I want to know where. Then I won't ever visit that place.

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