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By *issyasianboi OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Visiting

Question to experienced cruisers: How do you tell the other guy that you’re interested when you’re inside the car?

So I went to a dogging site the other night and was waiting for some action. Sadly nothing happened, so I drove away back home. I noticed a car was following me and when I pulled over to a layby, they did the same. I turned off my engine and lights and they did the same. Moments later, driver got out of their car and walked towards the passenger side of my car. They were wearing a high-vis jacket so I thought it was the cops so I just stared at them. He was just standing there but because theres no light, I wasnt sure what was going on. Then I lowered my window and he said “u alright?” And my automatic response was “yh, u alright?” Then he walked away!

Didn’t know what just happened there. Did I misread the whole thing? How are you supposed to let them know that you want to suck their cock without sounding awkward? I didnt want to make assumptions.

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London

You need to ask Fabs resident Dogging expert, Miss Bella

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By *iss.BellaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales


"You need to ask Fabs resident Dogging expert, Miss Bella "

I'd have thought you'd enough advice to offer yourself after last night's gay dogging session? I'm sure you mentioned about being balls deep somewhere?

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"You need to ask Fabs resident Dogging expert, Miss Bella

I'd have thought you'd enough advice to offer yourself after last night's gay dogging session? I'm sure you mentioned about being balls deep somewhere? "

That was a secret!!!

I didn't go blabbing about you having a train run on you by those 12 60yr old guys did I!!!

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Question to experienced cruisers: How do you tell the other guy that you’re interested when you’re inside the car?

So I went to a dogging site the other night and was waiting for some action. Sadly nothing happened, so I drove away back home. I noticed a car was following me and when I pulled over to a layby, they did the same. I turned off my engine and lights and they did the same. Moments later, driver got out of their car and walked towards the passenger side of my car. They were wearing a high-vis jacket so I thought it was the cops so I just stared at them. He was just standing there but because theres no light, I wasnt sure what was going on. Then I lowered my window and he said “u alright?” And my automatic response was “yh, u alright?” Then he walked away!

Didn’t know what just happened there. Did I misread the whole thing? How are you supposed to let them know that you want to suck their cock without sounding awkward? I didnt want to make assumptions."

To be honest, OP, I wouldn’t want anything to do with anyone who followed me like that. You simply don’t know who is getting into your car or following you home. I appreciate that is the essence of dogging but there’s an inherent code around everyone turning up to one place and letting each other know what you want (google ‘dogging code’). I have never done it because I don’t want to meet strangers in dark places (or for them to be in my dark places), but if I did I certainly wouldn’t engage with someone who followed me surreptitiously.

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Maybe try in the Swingers Chat forum...unless Bella PMs you with the low down

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

Learn about dogging by visiting and observing, similarly cruising. Be friendly and a little chatty but beware of this deterring many, as it can seem exclusive. You always get consent before you do anything.

Whatever you do, don't have your vehicle lights on much, nor drive and stop, over and over again, as this will interrupt and hassle others. It's certainly not on to tail people around etc.

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By *rNightMan
9 weeks ago

Coventry

The fact he was following you away from the dogging spot would be enough of a red flag for me to now take any chances at all.

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By *rNightMan
9 weeks ago

Coventry


"The fact he was following you away from the dogging spot would be enough of a red flag for me to now take any chances at all. "

*NOT

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By *issyasianboi OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Visiting

Ahh thanks for the responses everyone. I did felt a bit scared being followed but then again, it was my first time cruising. I’ll try to research on the code hehe

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
9 weeks ago

The Continental

Probably better off arranging something with someone for the first time. Take the uncertainty out of the equation.

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By *EX-SMan
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"You need to ask Fabs resident Dogging expert, Miss Bella

I'd have thought you'd enough advice to offer yourself after last night's gay dogging session? I'm sure you mentioned about being balls deep somewhere?

That was a secret!!!

I didn't go blabbing about you having a train run on you by those 12 60yr old guys did I!!! "
Now that does sound like a fun train

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By *usie pTV/TS
9 weeks ago

taunton

Just bought a Renault Traffic for dogging can those frigging sidelights be turned off that come on with the engine running.

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