FabSwingers.com forum: Christmas gift

By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

I really need help.

I have a 'fwb' I've been seeing weekly for 7 months and I need to buy him a gift. However, its got a little complicated recently and I don't really know where we stand.

I've thought about toys but there is a chance I might not see him again in the new year. It can't me anything jokey that might lie around the house cause he kids don't know he's 'seeing' anyone.

Does anyone have any ideas please? This is really stressing me out

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?"

Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

If you don’t think you’ll be seeing him beyond the new year, why buy anything? I wouldn’t bother personally.

But that’s just me, I’m a bit brutal at the end.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?

Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings. "

If you feel that you want to get something then I like a book. Maybe an author or genre he has mentioned. Maybe something you’ve picked up that he likes. Can be anything

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"If you don’t think you’ll be seeing him beyond the new year, why buy anything? I wouldn’t bother personally.

But that’s just me, I’m a bit brutal at the end. "

I'm hoping it continues next year but I'm preparing for the worst

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?

Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings.

If you feel that you want to get something then I like a book. Maybe an author or genre he has mentioned. Maybe something you’ve picked up that he likes. Can be anything

Thank you

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.

How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.

How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.

Mrs"

Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.

How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.

Mrs

Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet."

Good idea, but get the picture laminated.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.

How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.

Mrs

Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet.

Good idea, but get the picture laminated. "

Ah good call

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Something edible so he can eat the evidence.

How old are his kids and why can't he just say he got a gift from a friend? Rhetorical question, it's not my business

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By *rystalsswingCouple
3 weeks ago

Galway

"If it’s complicated and don’t know where you stand then why waste your money getting them anything?

Because hes special to me. The complications have come from the feelings. "

A shirt! If you really like him, maybe a shirt that irons well 😜

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever

"I wouldn't buy a FWB a gift in the first place, but that's me.

How about a Costa/Starbucks/Cafe Nero gift card. It fits in your wallet or can be left in the car.

Mrs

Or..buy a lovely butt plug. Take a tasteful picture bent over and get it made into credit card sized. Can also be kept in his wallet."

This is genius actually.

You’re buying him a present but really it’s your present, no matter the outcome.

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By *egasus NobMan
3 weeks ago

Wandsworth

Music

Funny Coasters

Ticket etc

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By *imples24Man
3 weeks ago

tamworth

Sexy calendar of yourself. Or toys or a wkend away you can enjoy together 🤷‍♂️ least if it doesn’t work out you can enjoy yourself

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

Clone a Willy kit to make one for you

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By *luebell888Woman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I would buy a novelty mug or some smelly stuff, like Bull Dog showered gel.

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By *uri00620Woman
3 weeks ago

Croydon

After seeing mine for about 6 months I bought him a taxidermy rat that had a Superman t-shirt in his chest cavity that was being prised open.

He loved it but like me he likes the ridiculous (and Superman)...

If i didn't see him again I'd have kept it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Sexy calendar of yourself. Or toys or a wkend away you can enjoy together 🤷‍♂️ least if it doesn’t work out you can enjoy yourself "

She can't give him anything that he would have at home apparently.

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

A good book.

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Tie/scarf sort of thing, something you think he’d suit. Maybe no more than £20 but a bit of thought with it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A small Lego item

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I bought mine a nice bottle of wine and some tiffin he likes (not a euphemism)

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"Clone a Willy kit to make one for you "

Oohh I like that one

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"I bought mine a nice bottle of wine and some tiffin he likes (not a euphemism) "

Glad someone else has also bought one. Was starting to feel a bit odd lol

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

Thank you everyone, there have been some really good ideas.

He's a miserable git sometimes and wouldn't appreciate most of it so I wouldn't waste my money.

We were joking around about what we would want and he wants a maclaren p1 so I've picked him up a hotwheels keyring. He can pass that off as a gift from a friend.

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I buy my FWB presents, after all, he is a friend though if I were in your predicament OP, I probably wouldn't bother.

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By *usty kay OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Burnham

"I buy my FWB presents, after all, he is a friend though if I were in your predicament OP, I probably wouldn't bother."

My predicament is complicated and I didn't explain it well to begin with. We will still be friends no matter what happens but not sure we can continue the benefits. He deserves a Christmas present

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By *ira2024Woman
3 weeks ago

"I really need help.

I have a 'fwb' I've been seeing weekly for 7 months and I need to buy him a gift. However, its got a little complicated recently and I don't really know where we stand.

I've thought about toys but there is a chance I might not see him again in the new year. It can't me anything jokey that might lie around the house cause he kids don't know he's 'seeing' anyone.

Does anyone have any ideas please? This is really stressing me out "

Girl, men don’t appreciate gifts. Buy yourself some sexy lingerie and have an amazing last night of sex with the guy. It will be his loss 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Don't worry about feelings, good people get them sometimes. It's scary falling, when you know you should not. Set yourself boundaries and make sure he understands them. It's OK to love.

As for the gift, what does he like, it really does not have to be sexy.

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