FabSwingers.com forum: is this for us

By *ostring m39 OP Man
31 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

I like watching porn and people's vids. during sex we talk about being watched and even swapping or even other room sex. but not sure if it's reality or fantasy due to watching to much porn?😞😞😞

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Yeah, I used to think it was just the porn 🤣

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By *ostring m39 OP Man
31 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

so it's not a fantasy it's reality? I have to let some lucky guy have his way with my Mrs?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

What are you asking exactly?

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By *vaRoseWoman
31 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’m not quite sure what you’re asking OP

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Only one way to find out

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By *enk15Man
31 weeks ago

Evesham

Only you can figure that out.

If you try, ease into it at a pace you are both comfortable. Make sure you both communicate often about your thoughts and feelings on it and have a code word you can both use if you are in a situation and one of you isn't enjoying it.

If try and don't like it, you can move on. If you never try you might regret what could have been.

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By *elix SightedMan
31 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Much of the behaviour and attitude on fab can be blamed on porn, OP, but this is down to you. Yes, I’m afraid you n er are 100% bonafide, fully paid up, genuine, authentic, filthy perverts.

Embrace it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central

It's for all parties within a relationship to decide for themselves what they want and what they consent to. Outsiders can't know what you want, nor your motivations. Communicate with each other

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By *ffervescentMan
31 weeks ago

winfrith

"I like watching porn and people's vids. during sex we talk about being watched and even swapping or even other room sex. but not sure if it's reality or fantasy due to watching to much porn?😞😞😞"
Really I mean porn is orchestrated in between takes they talk about the weather and what they want for Easter ,whereas Fab is real people ,real sex ,real vids ,you're one of us now buckle down and enjoy the ride .

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By *midnight-Woman
31 weeks ago

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Make sure you talk carefully about boundaries, its easy in the heat of the moment to get carried away... It can make or break relationships x

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to her about it. Slowly.

Yes it can happen but you both have to enthusiastically consent to what happens

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By *xoticFrolicMan
31 weeks ago

Gosport

"Yeah, I used to think it was just the porn 🤣"

Needed a Facebook laughing face for this but no option on here so this instead.

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I fantasised about a lot of the stuff in porn for a long time. It can be even better. If everyone is comfortable and feels safe

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By *xoticFrolicMan
31 weeks ago

Gosport

On OP's actual post. I always wanted to try group, 3, wild things. Not something I could of ever done with a partner though. It would of changed things between us. Here as a single I can indulge consequence free. In your shoes, only you know. I'm getting what you and her want could you still stay the couple you are now. Would it be worth it, would it be better. Your post is vague so best I can do

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By *ostring m39 OP Man
31 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

thank you for your comments, like I said not sure if it's a fantasy or if we would like it. but we will see after all its Christmas soon let's see what (santa baby) brings lol.

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