FabSwingers.com forum: Moral compass test

By *xoticFrolic OP Man
10 weeks ago

Gosport

Imagine the situation. You approach a couple. Turns out you're talking to the female half. Conversation flows, pictures exchanged. She's your idea of perfect. Beautiful and the most amazing figure. Turns out hubby only meets with couples though. But! He works away and she is up for sneaking a meet behind his back. What do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

They're the one cheating not me, I'd go get some!

Obviously if the genders were switched as women are just bleugh.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

YOLO

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
10 weeks ago

St Leonards

If they were French, I'd pursue it.

If they were British, I wouldn't.

Because the French have turned "affairs" into an art form which avoids sucking you into a messy drama.

But the British have turned "cheating" into an awful mess that is nothing but an ongoing drama.

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wouldn’t. Last thing I want is some bloke called Stefffff with a fat neck hunting me down. Shag someone else

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

In my eyes, its cheating and I would avoid this situation.

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlands

"Imagine the situation. You approach a couple. Turns out you're talking to the female half. Conversation flows, pictures exchanged. She's your idea of perfect. Beautiful and the most amazing figure. Turns out hubby only meets with couples though. But! He works away and she is up for sneaking a meet behind his back. What do you do? "

It's a no from us.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
10 weeks ago

cardiff

Nothing, the cheater, and 'cheatee' are both a pair of absolute **nts

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By *imples24Man
10 weeks ago

tamworth

I have a feeling the husband is in the wardrobe am I right 🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

Whose moral compass are we testing?

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By *itplayssoloWoman
10 weeks ago

leeds

I wouldn't. Ethically non-monogamous here. I'm here to have fun and connect with like-minded people, not break someone's heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Not for me... Accomplice to cheating may not carry all the guilt but it speaks of a person's character.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
10 weeks ago

The Continental

I’m out.

There’s plenty of hotties that aren’t doing it behind their partners back. I’ll have a go on one of them instead.

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By *ffervescentMan
10 weeks ago

winfrith

I don't get involved with drama I have however been with a few married women ,I have no moral compass who'd have thought .

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"I wouldn’t. Last thing I want is some bloke called Stefffff with a fat neck hunting me down. Shag someone else "

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
10 weeks ago

Fareham

Go for it. He's probably hiding under the bed or secretly filming the whole thing anyway!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

What would you do op? In which direction does your moral compass swing?

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
10 weeks ago

furnace

"What would you do op? In which direction does your moral compass swing?"
. I have a similar thing but had played with his wife as hubby watched and joined in to had spoken about her spending a night with me everyone seemed happy and two weeks later she called to arrange her visit which was great fun too the problem came when I called him to thank him after her second overnight

To discover he knew nothing about it and had been working away 😱

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What would you do op? In which direction does your moral compass swing?. I have a similar thing but had played with his wife as hubby watched and joined in to had spoken about her spending a night with me everyone seemed happy and two weeks later she called to arrange her visit which was great fun too the problem came when I called him to thank him after her second overnight

To discover he knew nothing about it and had been working away 😱"

Oh dear that was awkward for you and a bit of a shock for him.

Why were you thanking him?

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
10 weeks ago

furnace

To discover he knew nothing about it and had been working away 😱

Oh dear that was awkward for you and a bit of a shock for him.

Why were you thanking him? "
for allowing his wife some sexual adventure he turned into a nutter

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By *antam AvershiresMan
10 weeks ago

Falme

I'm going to go with "this is a you not a me problem"

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
10 weeks ago

wonderland.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

To discover he knew nothing about it and had been working away 😱

Oh dear that was awkward for you and a bit of a shock for him.

Why were you thanking him? for allowing his wife some sexual adventure he turned into a nutter"

When he discovered she'd gone behind his back? It must have been quite a shock if he previously believed it was all with mutual knowledge.

I'm not sure I'd be comfortable with a man thanking my husband after I'd had sex with him though

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Whose moral compass are we testing?"

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The one whose immoral compass points to Illicit North. 🧭

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By *allySlinkyWoman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Why were you thanking him?

for allowing his wife some sexual adventure he turned into a nutter"

What did he do ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Whose moral compass are we testing?

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The one whose immoral compass points to Illicit North. 🧭"

I'm so hopeless at compass points unless the English channel is visible that my moral compass must be all over the place

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hubby only meets couples, she hasn’t said she does…I’d be up for a meet and some fun

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Whose moral compass are we testing?

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The one whose immoral compass points to Illicit North. 🧭

I'm so hopeless at compass points unless the English channel is visible that my moral compass must be all over the place "

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I have a penchant for any fragrant woman who smells delightfully of English Channel No.5™. ❣️

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By *amie HantsWoman
10 weeks ago

Atlantis

I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
10 weeks ago

furnace

To discover he knew nothing about it and had been working away 😱

Oh dear that was awkward for you and a bit of a shock for him.

Why were you thanking him? for allowing his wife some sexual adventure he turned into a nutter

When he discovered she'd gone behind his back? It must have been quite a shock if he previously believed it was all with mutual knowledge.

I'm not sure I'd be comfortable with a man thanking my husband after I'd had sex with him though

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well when we had spoken about all together part of his pleasure was wanting to hear all about afterwards

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
10 weeks ago

All over the place

I absolute meet her and give her the most disappointing 7 seconds of her life (jokes lol)

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
10 weeks ago

All over the place

"I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off "

Ohhh shit just got real

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate

Nope. Not for me. I’m not looking to break someone else’s home for a bit of sexual gain.

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By *NormalMan01Man
10 weeks ago

Harrogate

"I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off "

Not only do I put it back but I also rearrange all the others which have just been pushed in to the scovered area. Little trolleys go with little trolleys. Big trolleys with big. Yes, some are slightly different because they hold two children and fit with that trolley type…

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Go for it

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

Think if all the potential drama is worth the moment of pleasure. If yes, go for it. I know what I’d rather do.

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By *p4Fun7070Man
10 weeks ago

Leven

"I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off "

Or if you're actually in the supermarket and you put say....a block of cheese into your trolly, only to discover similar cheese a few aisles down at a discounted price. Do you just replace the original cheese with the discount cheese ? Or do you put the original cheese back in its correct place ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd leave it. They might have their morals, but I have mine.

I'd also stub my toe kicking a wall afterwards

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By *xoticFrolic OP Man
10 weeks ago

Gosport

"What would you do op? In which direction does your moral compass swing?"

Not an easy answer. Here for drama free fun. They do swap with couples so it's not like she doesn't have other men. She is litterally my idea of a perfect work of art though. Um assuming this isn't all hypothetical

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By *xoticFrolic OP Man
10 weeks ago

Gosport

"I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off

Trolley goes in the bay but cheese swapped with discount. Hmmm I part good part bad.

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By *lovetoowatchMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

Its cheating and that causes drama and im too old for that shit so No

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

"I think a better test is whether you put your trolly back after shopping or leave it by bay and drive off "

Or leave the trolley fully blocking the car parking space, next to their car and drive off.

I'll settle for thanking the half of the couple's interest and wishing them well

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not worth the hassle

Also answers in public might not indicate actual actions

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By *inger_SnapWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Don't do it. If you're willing to enable someone to cheat, you're just as bad as the cheater.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
10 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

What goes in their lives ain't my concern,

Nothing Moral about it,

I'm meeting without hesitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Don't do it. If you're willing to enable someone to cheat, you're just as bad as the cheater. "

But why? If you're single and have made no commitments, what are you doing wrong?

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd decline, as I'd hate it done to me. Plus it could be a lot of drama if the husband catches her at it behind his back.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
10 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

It’s a no from me… I don’t knowingly go into situations with a cheat.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Big nope.

They should sort out their relationship dynamics and agreements before dragging other people into that kind of mess 💜

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By *ags73Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Do I need the drama?

Do I need other peoples drama?

How longs he away?

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By *enk15Man
10 weeks ago

Evesham

Hell no.

I cut drama out of my life a long time ago.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
10 weeks ago

Markfield

How are you even sure it’s not the husband you’re chatting to? It’s a no from me.

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