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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

Came true today. A kid told my kid that it's her fault [my child's] that I'm in a wheelchair.

I've expected it but always hoped I'd be wrong.

Le sigh

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By *inger_SnapWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

How cruel... ☹️

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By *educing_EmCouple
10 weeks ago

Tipperary

This is horrible, for both you and her 😔

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

They could have picked a time when my head wasn't already wayyyyyyy out of it.

Thanks, kid (them, not mine).

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By *otguy555Man
10 weeks ago

Bristol

My daughter has been bullied at school for a few years. Kids can be so fucking mean. We have taught her to rise above anything other kids say x

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm so sorry. That's awful. I hope you're both ok

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By *aitonelMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

I won't let the intrusive thoughts win but nothing a swift perfect comeback won't have fixed!

The worst thing about kids being the little shits they often are is that there will be a parent out there defending their kids behaviour "oh no, not mine, they would never!"

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By *educing_EmCouple
10 weeks ago

Tipperary


"They could have picked a time when my head wasn't already wayyyyyyy out of it.

Thanks, kid (them, not mine)."

It never works that way and always hits harder at those times but you're stronger than you think and I bet she is too.

Be kind yo yourself and maybe a word with the other mammy might not go a miss either ❤️

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
10 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Came true today. A kid told my kid that it's her fault [my child's] that I'm in a wheelchair.

I've expected it but always hoped I'd be wrong.

Le sigh "

WTAF ! Jesus.. hope you are both OK xx

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

We know the child well and it's very out of character. All we can do is message the other parent and speak about it in January because we're away from the morning.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing??? "

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on. "

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
10 weeks ago

in Lancashire

That is truly shit for you as a family..

Some kids can be so cruel..

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By *educing_EmCouple
10 weeks ago

Tipperary


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter?? "

This is my thought too sadly

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter?? "

She seems okay. Mr KC only told me about it after she'd gone to bed. Not going to go into any more detail but we shall tackle it, but once we've boarded a plane tomorrow 🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly "

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably.

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By *ripfillMan
10 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Thank god for this thread and the forum …

people who care and show their love, concern and their own experiences

This is where the fab forum is invaluable in my opinion

Support and being non judgmental but honest and practical

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Oh no 😭

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By *educing_EmCouple
10 weeks ago

Tipperary


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably. "

Oh dear, try to rest up and not let these thoughtless adults disturb the holiday for ye.

You're a fantastic human ❤️

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By *runette n JayCouple
10 weeks ago

bilston

Kids can be cruel without knowing just how cruel it is.

I was no goody but had the sense to be thoughtful of what I say, however I assure you most of us have said things as kids that we are not proud of.

They grow up just like we all did.

That's all anyone can really do for now other than their parents 'trying' to get them to understand how damaging words can be.

Hope you and your daughter are OK!

Jay

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably.

Oh dear, try to rest up and not let these thoughtless adults disturb the holiday for ye.

You're a fantastic human ❤️"

Thanks Em and everyone. I'm feeling immensely delicate at the present time anyways, both physically and mentally. I'm leaving the inter-parental discussion in the hands of Mr KC.

I think we've packed everything. I think 75% of the contents is either my medication or wheelchair repair kit stuff

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
10 weeks ago

North West

Ahhh KC, this sucks. Sometimes the things we fear lose their power when they actually occur. I really hope this is the case for you 🥰

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By *educing_EmCouple
10 weeks ago

Tipperary


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably.

Oh dear, try to rest up and not let these thoughtless adults disturb the holiday for ye.

You're a fantastic human ❤️

Thanks Em and everyone. I'm feeling immensely delicate at the present time anyways, both physically and mentally. I'm leaving the inter-parental discussion in the hands of Mr KC.

I think we've packed everything. I think 75% of the contents is either my medication or wheelchair repair kit stuff "

Gotta keep that puncture repair kit handy or you'll be veering off the paths😁

Be kind to yourself, I'm only a message away if you ever want to vent x

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By *sWyldWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Kids can be so cruel but I'm pretty sure your wee one is made of strong stuff and she will rise above it.

I hope you all have the best holiday. You deserve it. X

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably.

Oh dear, try to rest up and not let these thoughtless adults disturb the holiday for ye.

You're a fantastic human ❤️

Thanks Em and everyone. I'm feeling immensely delicate at the present time anyways, both physically and mentally. I'm leaving the inter-parental discussion in the hands of Mr KC.

I think we've packed everything. I think 75% of the contents is either my medication or wheelchair repair kit stuff "

Sending lots of love and hoping that you have a good break... Don't loose your meds xx

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By *ensual DesiresMan
10 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire


"Came true today. A kid told my kid that it's her fault [my child's] that I'm in a wheelchair.

I've expected it but always hoped I'd be wrong.

Le sigh "

Kids are some of the cruelest going as they don't care about the impact there actions have. I'm so sorry your child has had to go through that

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Bloody hell KC.. What triggered them to say such a thing???

I have no idea. Unfortunately, my pregnancy and disability are directly related but to my knowledge, children at school don't know this or wouldn't cotton on.

So potentially the kid has overhead a parent discussing it

How is your daughter??

This is my thought too sadly

There was an event yesterday afternoon in a church where parents could attend and, as usual, there was a wonderful spectacle of getting me inside (at the front, in front of the entire school). So yeah. Probably.

Oh dear, try to rest up and not let these thoughtless adults disturb the holiday for ye.

You're a fantastic human ❤️

Thanks Em and everyone. I'm feeling immensely delicate at the present time anyways, both physically and mentally. I'm leaving the inter-parental discussion in the hands of Mr KC.

I think we've packed everything. I think 75% of the contents is either my medication or wheelchair repair kit stuff

Gotta keep that puncture repair kit handy or you'll be veering off the paths😁

Be kind to yourself, I'm only a message away if you ever want to vent x"

After yesterday's puncture exploits, the kit consists of puncture repair kit, 2 inner tubes, tyre levers, Allen keys etc.

And thank you

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"Came true today. A kid told my kid that it's her fault [my child's] that I'm in a wheelchair.

I've expected it but always hoped I'd be wrong.

Le sigh

Kids are some of the cruelest going as they don't care about the impact there actions have. I'm so sorry your child has had to go through that "

See, I don't think that particular child IS cruel. It has very much surprised me.

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By *mf123Man
10 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Some kids are just cunts

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

I'm sorry this happened MrsKC, hope you and your daughter are ok as you can be, enjoy your break ❤️

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Mrs KC ❤

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By *ags73Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I’m sorry

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

How old are the children involved K.C ?

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

North West


"How old are the children involved K.C ?"

8 and 7

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