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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

After having an "affair" with a work colleague for the past 8 months ... both of us being married can you just resort to just being friends once again and working together without awkwardness

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By *etro1940sCouple
11 weeks ago

Kingston upon Thames

never "shit where you eat" we say ...

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By *use and wolfCouple
11 weeks ago

angus

Hmm, been there, done that and ended it as friends, even still friends with her now ex-husband of the time who has since found out it happened.

But i am also friends with 90% of my ex's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time

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By *tu.xMan
11 weeks ago

around

"never "shit where you eat" we say ... "
so you eat out alot 😆

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By *tu.xMan
11 weeks ago

around

"After having an "affair" with a work colleague for the past 8 months ... both of us being married can you just resort to just being friends once again and working together without awkwardness "
time will tell ...some can some can't I guess

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Farnborough

Many years ago I had an affair with a colleague at work, which inevitably ended.

She turned into a complete bunny boiler!! .. she stalked me, silent phone calls, threats …. and even came close to getting me sacked! … I don’t want to go there ever again!

R xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

Was you both "married" in a relationship when this affair happened or was she single looking for more?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

"Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time"

They don't just happen, it takes two people without boundaries to make it happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Suppose it is a case of you spend a lot of time together with work colleagues, sometimes more than with your partner and you grow close - sometimes things just happen over time

They don't just happen, it takes two people without boundaries to make it happen. "
I did say sometimes things just happen ... not all the time, sometimes you just grow close to people

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By *tu.xMan
11 weeks ago

around

Did the old works Christmas party fling thing little nod of appreciation when we seen each other back in the new year

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Farnborough

"Was you both "married" in a relationship when this affair happened or was she single looking for more?"

I was married … she was single, and looking! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Was you both "married" in a relationship when this affair happened or was she single looking for more?

I was married … she was single, and looking! X"
ahhh so she was after more than just fun, hence how it ended up

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By *anonfire96Man
11 weeks ago

Mansfield

Hmm seen it happen a few times, every time it ended in disaster for one or both parties getting sacked, most places I've worked it's actually been against company policy.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

Yes wouldnt recommend.

It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
11 weeks ago

furnace

"Yes wouldnt recommend.

It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone

Yes been there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Yes wouldnt recommend.

It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone

We're you both married or involved?

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By *ndyBristolMan
11 weeks ago

Keynsham

does this mean that I have to get a job to find a woman for sex? I hope not as I like being retired.

I've seen many workmates having affairs over the years and each time it didn't end badly as far as I know.

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By *ecky and justCouple
11 weeks ago

Godalming

It never ends well.

Even if eventually you can be friends, there’s always a painful part inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"It never ends well.

Even if eventually you can be friends, there’s always a painful part inbetween.

Yes I am getting that feeling myself, I want a little more, she just to be friends .. a little hurt there x

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No no no i dont shit in my fridge

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

"Yes wouldnt recommend.

It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone

We're you both married or involved?

We were both single

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

"Yes wouldnt recommend.

It was supposed to be a bit of fun after the Christmas do. It ended up as a five and a half year relationship with a commitment phone

We're you both married or involved?

We were both single

Apologies, I didn't read the OP. Well that's more complicated than my situation 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

In my experience it's not a simple answer...

I have only remained friends where the feelings have mutually gone. Where one still wants something then it'll always be an issue.

Men are also more likely to be able to move on to a platonic relationship more readily. Women hold grudges over the littlest thing for-fucking-ever! 😆

Lesson maybe learned that that's why most companies frown on workplace affairs - which I always found ironic given that 50% of marriages started at work (pre-internet).

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By *adbod2godbodMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"never "shit where you eat" we say ... "

Seconded.

Fun at the time. But rarely works out

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By *artfordBlokeMan
11 weeks ago

Dartford

Always said I wouldn't, til I did, it was fun but never again, work and private are two very seperate things in my world

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