FabSwingers.com forum: How do you apologise?

By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

When you have been a lot of a nobber? Bonus points for hormonal rage apologies.

😘

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

that depends, what are we apologising for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"that depends, what are we apologising for?

For being a horribly hormonal woman 🫣

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Depends on if I'm genuinely in the wrong OP or they think I'm wrong and I'm apologising just to keep the peace.

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By *asterfulsoulMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm sorry, that was an unreasonable amount of semen"

Usually something like that.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
11 weeks ago

Kent

Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣"

You got it. Yuk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

""I'm sorry, that was an unreasonable amount of semen"

Usually something like that."

I don't think that will work but good to know

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I spend my time apologising too much so my best advice is not to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Depends on if I'm genuinely in the wrong OP or they think I'm wrong and I'm apologising just to keep the peace."

I was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Saying sorry is a start but it soon means nothing if the nobber behaviour continues.

Say Sorry

Mean it

Stop being a nobber

Make up

Enjoy life as a new non-nobber

PS, would love to know what a one has to do to be a nobber?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

With the truth of what happened, I guess it depends if I hurt them/over stepped their boundaries, as to whether they may forgive me or cut me loose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"I spend my time apologising too much so my best advice is not to. "

Interesting,but what if it is warranted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"With the truth of what happened, I guess it depends if I hurt them/over stepped their boundaries, as to whether they may forgive me or cut me loose."

Very true

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By *imples24Man
11 weeks ago

tamworth

Say sorry then make up sex always works

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By *ivpoolmanMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Say sorry then make up sex always works "

Sorry usually helps x

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By *oneyBee200Woman
11 weeks ago

Kent

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk "

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗"

Thankyou xx

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
11 weeks ago

N. Wales

"When you have been a lot of a nobber? Bonus points for hormonal rage apologies.

😘"

I had a blip this morning. He deserves a BJ, and we can both have chocolate... Not everyone will get the same treatment though 🙈

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"that depends, what are we apologising for?

For being a horribly hormonal woman 🫣"

You shouldn't have to apologise, you should be forgiven for said hormonal rage without apology with understanding and empathy (...and then refrain for reacting with more hormonal rage; "how dare you forgive me, I've not even apologised"! 🤪😊)

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, all you had to do was apologise to me profusely via PM. Creating an allegorical thread about it is next level hormonal. 💌

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"OP, all you had to do was apologise to me profusely via PM. Creating an allegorical thread about it is next level hormonal. 💌"

Behave

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗"

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes.

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By *ad NannaWoman
11 weeks ago

East London

Blow job seems to do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

Right HRT and BJ.

You guys are the best...I think 😘

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes."

I can't have hrt either, but the progesterone only pill has leveled out all of my symptoms and I actually feel normal again.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"OP, all you had to do was apologise to me profusely via PM. Creating an allegorical thread about it is next level hormonal. 💌

Behave"

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I accept your apology. Wholeheartedly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes.

I can't have hrt either, but the progesterone only pill has leveled out all of my symptoms and I actually feel normal again.

I usually am perfectly normal, just a couple of times a year I'm not🫣

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By *imples24Man
11 weeks ago

tamworth

"Blow job seems to do the trick."

Would work for me all is forgiven 🤣

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes.

I can't have hrt either, but the progesterone only pill has leveled out all of my symptoms and I actually feel normal again."

I can't have that either, luckily the worst symptoms I've had are night sweats, other than that I think I've got off quite easily with it 🤞

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By *oneyBee200Woman
11 weeks ago

Kent

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes.

I can't have hrt either, but the progesterone only pill has leveled out all of my symptoms and I actually feel normal again.

I can't have that either, luckily the worst symptoms I've had are night sweats, other than that I think I've got off quite easily with it 🤞"

Try sage tablets.

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

"Chocolate helps

Hormone rage sucks, like flicking a bitch switch 😣

You got it. Yuk

Sit them down, explain what is happing. If it's due to peri/ menopause see your GP for hrt. It has given me some resemblance of normality.

Hugs to you 🤗

Yes this, I can't have hrt but my gp has put me on a really low dose antidepressant, it is really helping with the menopausal mood swings and hot flushes.

I can't have hrt either, but the progesterone only pill has leveled out all of my symptoms and I actually feel normal again.

I can't have that either, luckily the worst symptoms I've had are night sweats, other than that I think I've got off quite easily with it 🤞

Try sage tablets. "

Thanks, I'll look into them.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

"When you have been a lot of a nobber? Bonus points for hormonal rage apologies.

😘"

On the rare occasions I need to, I do so sincerely x

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

If I know that I'm in the wrong then I just say so and apologise

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Rarely.

Too much apologising can cheapen the sentiment.

Trying to change your behaviour and not repeating cuntiness, can be more authentic. And a heck of a lot harder.

Good luck OP x

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By *ensual DesiresMan
11 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

I apologise alot, I apologise for apologising. I'm constantly being told to stop saying sorry, comes from being insecure

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I apologise meaningfully but with intention. My apology is the end of the matter and if someone keeps on about the issue it’s off the table.

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By *ea monkeyMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m not sure that people should be apologising for emotions. If it was unwarranted and unintentional then by all means do, if it requires a level of explanation or contextualisation that was previously not stated, then state it but we all have hormones, we all have bad days and we all snap. I think that we can all be better at being gentle with and giving others a little bit of understanding.

It sounds as though you feel guilty, OP. If that’s the case then try to make amends. If you regret it, then say so

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Don't blame it on hormones

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