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By *asterfulsoul OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Manchester

For safety reasons?

E.g. putting a camera up in your room, telling people the camera is there, and it's a prerequisite for a meet to have it on.

What if there was a way of ensuring the recordings weren't accessible without the agreement of both parties? (On the knowledge that the police could coerce access if necessary).

Do you do this already? I have already spoken to one person who does (and, yes, tells their meets).

Do you think it would act as a deterrent if you did have it?

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If someone told either of us that a meet would be recorded, even for safety reasons lol.....we wouldn't be turning up.

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

Only so people believe me that I had the sex with that person!

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

Hell no!

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

If you’re THAT fearful for your safety…….dont meet strangers from the internet.

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By *midnight-Woman
11 weeks ago

...


"If you’re THAT fearful for your safety…….dont meet strangers from the internet. "

Yeah I was thinking this too!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I know we like being watch but to have a recording of us on someones computer is just not right.

We would not attend a meet if that was a condition x

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Not under those circumstances,never.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
11 weeks ago

London


"For safety reasons?

E.g. putting a camera up in your room, telling people the camera is there, and it's a prerequisite for a meet to have it on.

What if there was a way of ensuring the recordings weren't accessible without the agreement of both parties? (On the knowledge that the police could coerce access if necessary).

Do you do this already? I have already spoken to one person who does (and, yes, tells their meets).

Do you think it would act as a deterrent if you did have it?"

If I was that scared of guys I just wouldn't bother meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It's not for safety reasons.

It's for wanking reasons.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

Whose safety?

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By *antstoexploreCouple
11 weeks ago

wales

We’ve done it and still look back at the videos with they’re consent though

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By *reggSausageMan
11 weeks ago

derby

Are you expecting the visitors to turn up on balaclavas ? If so crack on, they are only there to steal your tellybox anyways

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

No

A mutually agreed recording is one thing, but the idea of someone covertly recording me is abhorrent

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"No

A mutually agreed recording is one thing, but the idea of someone covertly recording me is abhorrent "

I better not see myself on the Grove times.

No idea where i was going with that one tbh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"No

A mutually agreed recording is one thing, but the idea of someone covertly recording me is abhorrent "

I'm this scenario they tell you.

I wouldn't agree to it anyway but *if* I did I'd be very wary that there were no cameras elsewhere eg in the loo.

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I will say that I know filming certain scenes within bdsm circles is more common and is done for safety reasons. Those scenes I can’t mention here but they also include consent recordings at the start from all parties involved

It’s more of a legal standpoint though when edgeplay could easily be misconstrued to an outsider or should something go wrong and emergency services are called. Usually in these cases all parties are recording too so there’s no one sidedness.

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By *ffervescentMan
11 weeks ago

winfrith


"For safety reasons?

E.g. putting a camera up in your room, telling people the camera is there, and it's a prerequisite for a meet to have it on.

What if there was a way of ensuring the recordings weren't accessible without the agreement of both parties? (On the knowledge that the police could coerce access if necessary).

Do you do this already? I have already spoken to one person who does (and, yes, tells their meets).

Do you think it would act as a deterrent if you did have it?"
Surely we are told now that CCTV is their for our safety it's already in place but doesn't stop anyone from abusing it .

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Hell no. Being videoed is not on my list of needs, I'd only ever meet strangers at house parties and clubs, where there's security available if I need help.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Nope, not a hope,

I typically don't do meets on spec here, it's usually after weeks if nothing months of chat and banter, that being both parties are well comfortable with each other,

I wouldn't turn up if I knew I'd be on vid.

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By *asterfulsoul OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Manchester


"I will say that I know filming certain scenes within bdsm circles is more common and is done for safety reasons. Those scenes I can’t mention here but they also include consent recordings at the start from all parties involved

It’s more of a legal standpoint though when edgeplay could easily be misconstrued to an outsider or should something go wrong and emergency services are called. Usually in these cases all parties are recording too so there’s no one sidedness. "

Yeh, this is partly what inspired me to ask, the other thing being the current trial which is only resulting in conviction because of the overwhelming evidence.

I'm very uncomfortable with it but I'm struggling to deny that it would be a very effective deterrent as well as a very effective piece of evidence, for a crime that is all too common and has a depressingly low conviction rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"I will say that I know filming certain scenes within bdsm circles is more common and is done for safety reasons. Those scenes I can’t mention here but they also include consent recordings at the start from all parties involved

It’s more of a legal standpoint though when edgeplay could easily be misconstrued to an outsider or should something go wrong and emergency services are called. Usually in these cases all parties are recording too so there’s no one sidedness.

Yeh, this is partly what inspired me to ask, the other thing being the current trial which is only resulting in conviction because of the overwhelming evidence.

I'm very uncomfortable with it but I'm struggling to deny that it would be a very effective deterrent as well as a very effective piece of evidence, for a crime that is all too common and has a depressingly low conviction rate."

What is the trial called please?

X

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, never.

And I wouldn't let anyone record me either.

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By *asterfulsoul OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Manchester


"What is the trial called please?

X"

The trial of Dominique Pélicot?

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"What is the trial called please?

X

The trial of Dominique Pélicot?"

There's a cautionary tale in there for monsieur tout le monde

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By *use and wolfCouple
11 weeks ago

angus

Only consensually and more towards content creation and sharing.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

That’s just put me off from meeting people altogether, but now I’m just done.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

No. I'd prefer to hire security staff, or not meet instead

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"What is the trial called please?

X

The trial of Dominique Pélicot?"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Oh my goodness, I've just read a news article on the trial. 😭😫

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By *omRachCouple
11 weeks ago

Wirral

Whenever we meet a guy from here we pay for the accommodation, that ay we know there are no cameras hidden anywhere nor any nasty surprises of any kind.

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By *otwife Snowy and MeCouple
11 weeks ago

Carshalton


"It's not for safety reasons.

It's for wanking reasons.

"

Exactly.... The multi angles of a meet make me feel like the Spielberg of swinging

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By *tu.xMan
11 weeks ago

around

Thats why I take a balaclava

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By *andwellcoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

warley

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By *andwellcoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

warley

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

No, if your that wary of meeting people don't meet.

Mrs

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By *andwellcoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

warley

We always film our meets with single guys but It is done openly with a camera in hand

We agree with guys that it will be filmed prior to agreeing to meet

And the films are for our veiwing only there never shared

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental


"We always film our meets with single guys but It is done openly with a camera in hand

We agree with guys that it will be filmed prior to agreeing to meet

And the films are for our veiwing only there never shared "

The OP is asking about it from a safety perspective.

While it seems you do it for the pleasure of watching back at later times?

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By *anonfire96Man
11 weeks ago

Mansfield

Had quite a few meetings where it's been recorded by the other person, mainly to show their partner, or live with the partner watching. But both parties get a copy.

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By *anonfire96Man
11 weeks ago

Mansfield

Are you certain about that? I've stayed in quite a few hotels over the years with my job , and found covert cameras in a couple.

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