FabSwingers.com forum: What is deemed mind stimulating to you?

By *imiTheSweet OP Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hey fabbers I see it a lot profiles on here but after some interactions I've found it means different things to different ladies so let me ask, what do you class as mind stimulating discussion?

Some feel it's sexually charged witty banter others its intellectual conversations about anything other than sex! Or does it just mean being able to hold a decent conversation regardless of topic!?

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By *oodmessMan
11 weeks ago

yumsville

Honestly think you covered all womanhood there.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
11 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like to talk about wheelie bins and what different colours in different regions are indicative of what is to be deposited in them.

I am very interesting 👍🏻

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

From my experience, in past conversations and current (extant) ones, it means they are more intrigued in men who possess a certain level of flair in holding conversations better than they can hold their own cocks.

It's not about grammar per se, although it helps, indeed it's more about stimulating chat where conversations are interesting and reciprocal, as opposed to monotone exchanges, or chat that is exclusively sexual and one-sided and nothing more. They require substance and wish to delve beneath the veneer and find out more about the person and their interests inside and outside of the bedroom, with humorous exchanges and perhaps a little innocuous sarcasm (witty retorts are usually a prerequisite). It's a balance too: it doesn't mean they are not interested in flirtatious exchanges; conversations of a sensual nature are often mixed with the normal chat. The last thing a woman needs to know is if they are a prude!

This ^ isn't about all women; it's just from my personal experiences. Nor does it cover all circumstances, as in, it's usually pointless if the woman has an itch to scratch and is posting a "meet me now". At the very least she needs to establish that the person she is about to sleep with isn't a dullard.

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Affinity, diversity, humour, deep thought, playfulness, authenticity.

Th first words that spring to mind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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11 weeks ago

East Sussex

For me it's a conversation that's interesting. It could be about almost anything from history to the best way to cook chocolate cake as long as the participants are knowledgeable or keen to understand. I would grow quickly bored of football or the best route to a certain destination

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Honestly think you covered all womanhood there."
haha

I mean to TBF it's wades out some folks from interaction so it might be fine I don't shy from them but if the profile is lacking personal information of their likes and dislikes and they want their mind stimulated your kind of shooting in the dark for your opening msg!

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By *oodmessMan
11 weeks ago

yumsville

"Honestly think you covered all womanhood there. haha

With luck they are within 10 miles and have a meet now posted. It's just pot luck if they are actually within 10 miles and do want to meet now

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

"For me it's a conversation that's interesting. It could be about almost anything from history to the best way to cook chocolate cake as long as the participants are knowledgeable or keen to understand. I would grow quickly bored of football or the best route to a certain destination "
oh jeez I'm not a football fan so I'm instantly out besides I would think most would reply to a msg about football unless you was really taking the P! 😅

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By *imiTheSweet OP Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Honestly think you covered all womanhood there. haha

With luck they are within 10 miles and have a meet now posted. It's just pot luck if they are actually within 10 miles and do want to meet now

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it's mad I don't get a lot of them where I'm at TBF and ladies contrary to the sites mentality are more prudish to drop you a line 1st even if they like you which is wild to me if you find someone or their profile interests you then you would think they would just msg or drop a wink bt I find these things out after I've started speaking to them they're glad I msg'd 1st cause they wouldn't have! 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *ornucopiaMan
11 weeks ago

Bexley

"I like to talk about wheelie bins and what different colours in different regions are indicative of what is to be deposited in them.

I am very interesting 👍🏻"

Talking about wheelie bins (for example) can be a very cunning way of getting a woman to dump you, through sheer boredom, without her realising that you are trying to dump her but fear the scorned woman's fury which often comes with such action.

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

An ability for engaging, intelligent, articulate conversation. People who will challenge me to think too.

Are they comfortable enough to geek out and tell me all about their passions?, will they openly offer information about themselves? What are their guilty pleasures? Damn even politics is fine by me - I quite like a good debate.

What I hate are vacuous, nonsense chats that never get deeper than a puddle. If that’s the real you then I don’t want to know any more. You can be the most gorgeous person on fab but if that’s the only thing about you then I’m not interested.

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