FabSwingers.com forum: Is Fab easier for

By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

women?

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By *ildTimes.Man
11 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Yes.... Next topic 😂

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By *rdere OpusCouple
11 weeks ago

Brum - ish

If they're looking for sex without having much in terms standards, it absolutely is easier for women.

If it's finding someone to be a fun, dependable fb / fwb I think it's actual easier for men! (Provided they stand out and play their cards well).

Couples? I'll get back to you

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not anymore it was 10 years ago

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

No.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
11 weeks ago

North West

I think it depends what you're looking for. B tends to meet more people than I do.

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By *lex46TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Near Wells

I doubt it. If ladies receive the same messages as I do from some guys it’s definitely not easy.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"women?"

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Yes, in relative terms.

That's not because women have it easy, it's because men make it hard for themselves and unwittingly put up hurdles and obstacles that do them no favours.

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By *tevenTellyCouple
11 weeks ago

Newmarket

"I doubt it. If ladies receive the same messages as I do from some guys it’s definitely not easy."

My wife must have it the best then.

Easy isn't word I'd use but fab has been great for us since we are looking for men and not couples.

Bonus for her is that I get to filter through all the BS messages.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Yes.... Next topic 😂"

I’m finding it not too easy though. But maybe it actually is for other women.

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By *8warrenMan
11 weeks ago

Absolutely

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By *oshlevronMan
11 weeks ago

barnstaple

I think it is only easier for women bc the amount of men of this app but it’s all about finding the right people with the same interests

Can’t always be a picky person

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By *ty31Man
11 weeks ago

NW London

It's certainly easier for women in terms of choice and it's certain that being a woman on Fab has a certain privilege and advantage.

Although I suppose being a woman on Fab does attract more negative attention in the form of stupid or abusive messages etc.

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By *viatrixWoman
11 weeks ago

Redhill

Not easy having to deal with Neanderthalic stupidity for hours. Day in, day out.

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Six of one and half a dozen of the other.

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

Define easier. Because there are a few ways to do so and some of those will be yes and some will be no.

It's easier in some ways and in some ways far more worse than it is for others.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
11 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.

If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world!

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

From the "male" pov of easy to a result, yes by far easier than it is for me. The you drop in a few factors like getting a quality meet and suddenly it's not all that easy.

Fabmin is surely a nightmare.

Do women have it easier on fab than I do? No they don't, because I don't give a fuck and don't go out of my way to make things happen with new randoms as I once did, and it's never been an easier experience. I'm unshackled from the desire to make the sex happen.

Your own expectations can make or break this place in terms of how easy or difficult it is.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
11 weeks ago

Next Door

If it's just a fuck to relieve yourself or a fuck-a-day, then it's easy for women.

If, like me, they are a fussy cow, then it's bloody hard work.

Found it harder when I was in a couples profile, as a 4 way attraction is really hard to find.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.

If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world! "

I just want a shag! But I’m very much aware my limitations are where I don’t find it easy at all.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

We completed it ages ago. We're on the secret levels that you need cheat codes for

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"We completed it ages ago. We're on the secret levels that you need cheat codes for

Max out those achievements and then speed run it.

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By *iss KinkWoman
11 weeks ago

North West

I’d say no

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Depending upon which way you look at it so yes/no

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
11 weeks ago

kendal

It depends I guess, most women could have 10 liasons a day, if they were lacking in standards and willing to lower themselves.

But those who wish to seek out quality over quantity, have to pan a hell of a lot of silt just to find a tiny bit of gold

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
11 weeks ago

Merseyside

I don’t think so - had two guys not turn up and a few not complete the meet process so would say just as hard for women

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By *entlemanH666Man
11 weeks ago

No. Having compared my experiences here as a single male vs being here as a couple vs single women friends I’d say being a single guy is the easiest.

I have not experienced any of the negatives single women get…a few easy to spot fakes/timewasters but that comes with the online world.

Also as so many single men have a very strange approach to attracting women here…it is quite easy to stand out amongst the crowd and find great connections.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I wouldn't wish to switch places and have to sift through the countess messages like women have to. I rather like a challenge, step up, bring the A game etc etc. Or at least I used to.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"We completed it ages ago. We're on the secret levels that you need cheat codes for

Max out those achievements and then speed run it."

I tried speed running but it fell flat. On my face

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By *andH 23Man
11 weeks ago

Luton

"women?"

Let’s swap inboxes in 3 hours and you will see the difference 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Yes, obviously

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

No, it’s not, it’s draining & not flattering/ego boosting like men think it is when you get men messaging you without reading what I’m looking for, so no.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"women?

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Yes, in relative terms.

That's not because women have it easy, it's because men make it hard for themselves and unwittingly put up hurdles and obstacles that do them no favours."

This!

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By *ornycougaWoman
11 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.

When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.

Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.

It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.

So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"women?"
FFFFFFKKKKK YES,

Close thread nothing more to discuss

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

No, obviously

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Not easier. Different. As a woman you have a choice of hunting which means wading through oceans of chaff to find potential wheat. Then finding that they have no chat/you don't find their face atteactive/they behave like a dick. Or you open your filters and let them find you. You essentially have the same challenge. This place is tough for anyone who has standards and isn't just looking for a cock/pussy/ass to fill or be filled.

When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. "
but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part.

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By *essTTWoman
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

I depends

Tbh

I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any

I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here

I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

"I depends

Tbh

I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any

I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here

I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that "

Verifications are no indicator. I have one to show I am genuine. I will never show anymore. Nor do I want any.

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??"

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By *essTTWoman
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I depends

Tbh

I see women who pop up on my feed with loads of verifications and I see women who have barely any

I guess it depends on what you're actually look for on here

I don't find it easy but I'm very sure about what I want and I refuse to bend on that

Verifications are no indicator. I have one to show I am genuine. I will never show anymore. Nor do I want any."

No indicator *for you

I merely meant that you can tell that a woman has met lots of men if she has lots of verifications

Nothing else

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? "
how many are available, ???

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???"

Start with one here - and find others.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? "

What the holy hell are you drinking?

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

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Is fab easy for - then read the rest..

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

What the holy hell are you drinking?

Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

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Is fab easy for - then read the rest.."

I've read it, thank you. However, I'm not quite clear on the point that you're making, other than the fact you're inebriated.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

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Is fab easy for - then read the rest.."

Easier, not easy. When you say „easy” it doesn’t make any sense in the context of this thread.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

What the holy hell are you drinking?

Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight

Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS.

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By *adbod74Man
11 weeks ago

Dudley

Women run the show here

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???

Start with one here - and find others."
can they cook,surely that's the clincher,,

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

If women are just looking for Nsa then I'd say probably

If like me there looking for a fwb then I'd say no it's not

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By *itygamesMan
11 weeks ago

i'd guess definetley No

They get to many unwanted messages, most rude or containing cock pics that theydidn't want or ask for.

Can't go on cam without being pestered to watch a wank cam..

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

In my mind?

No. It's no easier than it is for men.

Different issues, different approaches required and different advantages.

Fab is easier for 'some people' than for others. Gender doesn't define that to me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Fab is easiest for those who have the biggest pool to fish in.

The biggest pool I see is men wanting casual encounters. So anyone wanting casual encounters with men is the most likely to find what they want.

Properly bi and gay men probably get more sex per head than straight or bi women 💜

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

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Is fab easy for - then read the rest..

Easier, not easy. When you say „easy” it doesn’t make any sense in the context of this thread. "

Yes it’s not easy I get that..

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???

Start with one here - and find others. can they cook,surely that's the clincher,,

Can run Fortune 500 companies - be head of FCA, can be MP, be PM, too billionaire in UK, can be nurse or be a doctor too..and get you a nice curry too

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

What the holy hell are you drinking?

Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight

Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS."

Let me finish my Macallan

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Six of one and half a dozen of the other."

Swings and roundabouts ?

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By *HUSH-Man
11 weeks ago

London

If you just want ONS I would think that’s easier for a woman providing you don’t care too much about who you’re meeting.

If you’re looking for more of a connection that means finding your person. Which is the same level of difficult.

Distance fucks us all.

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By *urry BlokeMan
11 weeks ago

Stalybridge

If they have their filters set properly, as opposed to leaving the gates open for all and sundry, I believe it is a path much more easily trodden

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

What the holy hell are you drinking?

Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight

Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS.

Let me finish my Macallan "

I think it will finish you first.

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By *reggSausageMan
11 weeks ago

derby

I looked into this using google so it must be true (an experiment was conducted using t1nd3r) 1 man spent time assembling what was deemed to be a good profile plenty of informative text with six photos, lady basically put no info and two photos

They started swiping, ratio of liking was guy liked more than the lady did in a ratio of 10-1, so they switched to two different people and continued, ratio was down to 8-1, responses back were lady got 70% of messages and match swipes within an hour, guys return ratio over a week was 3% so what we can draw from this……

Nothing, it’s all garbage, it’s not a league table and if people think getting a meet constitutes a win then yay go you, if however you meet the (insert known genders) of your dreams on either here another app, the fruit and veg aisle at Waitrose then that’s real winning, don’t forget the mince pies either, bakery section next to the tiger loaf, face it, a large number of people on here are lonely, some more desperately lonely than others, you me and everyone else aren’t for everyone, choose your mince pies wisely, choose your meets even more wisely

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

When it's works - it's great. But I think it is hard work for most on here and has the side effect of making you cynical and jaded. but at least ye get the option to hunt, men here are strapped to a wheelchair then wheeled under the hunters dinner table hoping a scrap might fall roll off the table and land on their face,, for the most part.

No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea

♿

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By *exytimeCoolMan
11 weeks ago

swadlincote

"women?"
i want say yes for the women yet i think its hard for all men women and couples just have think be one profile that makes all happen least i tell myself haha

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

Depends on your definition of easier.

Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently

Unfortunately, I don't 💁‍♀️

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Depends on your definition of easier.

Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently

Unfortunately, I don't 💁‍♀️"

Wtf hammered deep. 🤣

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

"Depends on your definition of easier.

Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently

Unfortunately, I don't 💁‍♀️

Wtf hammered deep. 🤣

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

Sounds hot, I'm in

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Depends on your definition of easier.

Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently

Unfortunately, I don't 💁‍♀️

Wtf hammered deep. 🤣

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

Sounds hot, I'm in

I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
11 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

Hell no!

If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely but for those of us who care what goes in and out of our bodies an looking for abit more than just a wham bam ty Mr then no its not lol

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea

♿"
ahhh Jesus, I walked right into that one,,,

Ahhh Jesus I did it again

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

Sounds hot, I'm in

I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.

I'll drink to that

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

Sounds hot, I'm in

I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.

I'll drink to that

"
does the 9000 come with optional attachments??? And where could one get one?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"women?"
Absolutely not. Just different problems.

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I'm gonna pulverise your rear end with my jackhammer 9000.

Sounds hot, I'm in

I'll bring the Gin and the jackhammer.

I'll drink to that

Same here.

cheers 🍻

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

"I don’t find it easy at all but it depends what you’re looking for. I don’t moan about it as I know it’s my reasons and specifics that make it difficult.

If you just want a shag every day I imagine it’s the easiest thing in the world!

I just want a shag! But I’m very much aware my limitations are where I don’t find it easy at all."

You sound like a bloke, welcome to the club

we all just want a shag.

The surprising thing on fab was to hear from the ladies how few of them are finding what they want here. Despite there being, 50 guys to each lady.

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
11 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :"

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :"

I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples!

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

How many women here msg their prey,, sorry I ment msg men first??

And be honest ladies.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.

Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.

It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.

So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past

This sums it up perfectly

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :

I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples!

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being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE,

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"How many women here msg their prey,, sorry I ment msg men first??

And be honest ladies."

I do. Not many I'll admit, as there isn't many I actually like.

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
11 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"Easier to find a nsa ons fuck with any man, Yes.

Finding one she is attracted to and actually wants to spend time with, No.

It's so boring being lied to everday, by guys who just want to dump their cum and run.

So we hold onto the belief that the gems will surface, through the mud as the river flows on past

This sums it up perfectly

Yes this 👍 "

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :

I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples!

being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE,

Oh but it works a treat

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By *utieBootyPatootieWoman
11 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"How many women here msg their prey,, sorry I ment msg men first??

And be honest ladies.

Honestly ive sent like 3 msgs first in the 3 or so years that ive been here lol "

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice?? how many are available, ???

Start with one here - and find others. can they cook,surely that's the clincher,,

I'm a single Asian guy and can cook, I can cook curry, biryani or salmon en croute.

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

"Depends on your definition of easier.

Of I wanted my arse "hammer very deep" - his words- by a faceless profile, yes, there'd be someone willing apparently

Unfortunately, I don't 💁‍♀️"

Miss Bella, you have increased my vocabulary today, never heard the term arse hammer before.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier.

I often thought that women pull by making the man think sex is on the cards, men pull by getting the woman to think it's not the intention. Both are arguably the contrary position to what they actually want.

If a bloke walked into a bar with 100 women and offered himself I don't think he'd get as many takers as if a woman offered herself to a bar with 100 men. Does that mean it's easier?

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Hell no!

This true of anyone on here.

But as a female, you can't deny it's easier. I would love to see the threads on here if women didn't get any messages.

Well yeah in a way, more "opportunities" shall we say given the vast number of men on here to women but still not an easy "ride" lol :

I find fab super easy to find hot decent guys. If you crack the code and know how....it's simples!

being mean then going into hiding leaving them itching and scratching for ya is not what everyone would call the CODE,

Oh but it works a treat"
ohhh I ffking know that, I have eyes Miss R,

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

No,no. It's ME that's strapped to the wheelchair. Well. Not actually strapped cos I don't use a seatbelt, but. You get the idea

♿ ahhh Jesus, I walked right into that one,,,

Ahhh Jesus I did it again

Feckin' ableds

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier."

But who are the wimminz shagging? I'm assuming each other, if it's so easy for them but not the men? Or is it a reverse gangbang situation?

Message unclear

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By *exanthemMan
11 weeks ago

North

"Indian men, educated , well behaved and can weave grammatically correct sentences, wear nice cloths, decent body and always smell nice??

What the holy hell are you drinking?

Yes they are the hated ones - I am d*unk tonight

Put down the bottle and get to bed before it gets worse FFS.

Let me finish my Macallan

I think it will finish you first."

Nah, nothing can finish Indian - we are the survivors, isn’t it? Remember the history?

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By *hagTonightMan
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Hell no!

If like other women have mentioned you've got no standards an your just willing to shag anything within a 5 mile radius absolutely "
This

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By *ffervescentMan
11 weeks ago

winfrith

"women?"
Of course it is ,you get messages ,you answer messages ,you meet people who fit your criteria ,the difficult bit for you is sorting the crap from the cream .

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By *andH 23Man
11 weeks ago

Luton

Let’s define this by how many women scroll through profiles and message fella’s with the view for either a quickie or something more than that and then how many men take the time to read all the code words and make sure that you engage my brain bollox that’s posted just so you feel special dms that you all get we are all here for the same reason but if you want to feel special you need to be a woman

I respond to DmS because I’m not up my own arse xx

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By *avin77Man
11 weeks ago

camberley

Very hard for gen single males

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"I think getting sex is easier for women in general so it stands to reason that FAB would be easier.

But who are the wimminz shagging? I'm assuming each other, if it's so easy for them but not the men? Or is it a reverse gangbang situation?

Message unclear "

Still no answer to this question!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
11 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Yes, next

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

How about the safety aspect of meeting people as a single woman?

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
11 weeks ago

Hatfield

"How about the safety aspect of meeting people as a single woman?"
m

Significant I’d say to point of deal breaker… the sexual urge may prevail but bravery and trepidation must exist … hence chat can public meet first I guess is way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"How about the safety aspect of meeting people as a single woman?"

If I ever felt I'd be unsafe meeting someone, I wouldn't be meeting them.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
11 weeks ago

Hatfield

As a guy looking for meets I. know I’m safe I know I’m genuine but I also know it’s impossible to prove on here by chat alone so can’t pressure or blame a woman for concerns …

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

As someone who completed it on new game plus i will say its as hard or easy as you want it to me

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By *r.XratedMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

"Not easy having to deal with Neanderthalic stupidity for hours. Day in, day out. "

Neanderthals were actually very intelligent despite their ape-man reputation

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By *entlemanFoxMan
11 weeks ago

North East / London

Historically, I would have said it is much easier to for women.

Having watch a good looking female friend struggle to arrange a meet despite having nearly 800 messages I know it is just as hard to get a good meet.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive. "

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past. "

It’s an uncomfortable truth.

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By *over of ladiesMan
11 weeks ago

cannock

"Yes.... Next topic 😂

I’m finding it not too easy though. But maybe it actually is for other women."

Maybe you should rethink your age restraints

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By *uxurybubblesCouple
11 weeks ago

by the sea

From our personal experience

Female

being bombarded with winks,messages and friend requests from people who don't read your profile/ think they can change your mind on your limits /rules and let's jot forget the unsolicited pictures

Male (decent and genuine)

Being 1 in a sea of 1000 trying your best to be respectful and creating messages they are relevant to the account your sending it to but being lost in a shuffle to the point where being on here is little more than a form of mental self harm

Couples m/f

Having to constantly remind people you are a couple and both of you come together ( giggity) and all the same aspects of the single Female with an added splash of disrespectf for your partner

Why are we here again?

This site is what you make of it the good the bad and the down right nasty the concept of it being easier for x or y is redundant

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.

It’s an uncomfortable truth. "

This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.

It’s an uncomfortable truth.

This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”."

Milfs?

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

No.

I think it's easier for people who are conventionally attractive.

For women/men who want quick NSA and don't mind who that's with.

For people who don't place too much pressure/importance on Fab.

For people who are confident in themselves and what they have to offer.

But for women as a whole? No. All different groups have/face their own potential issues.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

It depends what the women is looking for, if it's anyone then yes it's easy, if they want a connection and attraction then it's not.

I have a singles profile for meeting women only and no that's not easy.

Mrs

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Yes.... Next topic 😂

I’m finding it not too easy though. But maybe it actually is for other women.

Maybe you should rethink your age restraints"

My age preferences have nothing to do with the fact why I’m finding Fab difficult at times.

But yes, I do extend it to 25-45 when I’m actively looking to meet.

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By *rRiosMan
11 weeks ago

dublin

I don’t necessarily agree but I read elsewhere that fab is like water. Single men live in drought areas and single women, swaps

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"From our personal experience

Female

being bombarded with winks,messages and friend requests from people who don't read your profile/ think they can change your mind on your limits /rules and let's jot forget the unsolicited pictures

Male (decent and genuine)

Couples m/f

Having to constantly remind people you are a couple and both of you come together ( giggity) and all the same aspects of the single Female with an added splash of disrespectf for your partner

Why are we here again?

This site is what you make of it the good the bad and the down right nasty the concept of it being easier for x or y is redundant

Interesting insight from the couple’s perspective as well.

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By *imples24Man
11 weeks ago

tamworth

Silent with no notifications, have it vibrate and choose when I answer. If someone rings consecutively means it’s important lol

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.

It’s an uncomfortable truth.

This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”.

Milfs?"

Ah no

this one I like.

I was thinking 💸

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By *imples24Man
11 weeks ago

tamworth

"Silent with no notifications, have it vibrate and choose when I answer. If someone rings consecutively means it’s important lol "

Wrong thread 😂

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By *layfullsamMan
11 weeks ago

Solihull

If women just want sex I’d say it’s way easier

But like everything finding the right person who ticks their wish list is probably a whole different story and I’m guessing the sh.T they receive from some men re messages, demands etc etc goes some way to counteract the easy sex available.

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
11 weeks ago

Right up your street

1. It’s difficult for women because of idiotic time wasting men

2. It’s difficult for men because of idiotic time wasting men mean women don’t read messages so striking up a conversation is increasingly difficult on here

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It definitely varies from person to person in what they want/looking for and also their approach.

I've been here 6+ years now, made many mistakes the first couple of years and now I'm pretty strict on who I will meet.

Almost all of the time all my message filters are blocked - as harsh as it is to say but 99% of the random messages I did get were not from people I would click with or find attractive, taking out the fact that all of them wouldn't read my bio or send face pictures.

So now I find it more fun and have more success reaching out myself.

It's also saved me buckets of time not having to read and delete ect.

I think the only woman who find it "easier" as such are those with zero/no preferences just due to the number of men to women on here. But most of us like what we like and that can't be helped.

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By *oiluvfunMan
11 weeks ago

Penrith

Having several female friends with solo profiles in here, I know it is far easier for them to find people to meet, than it is for me as a solo guy.

Yes, they get bombarded at times. Yes, they receive some horrible messages (they share so many with me), and yes, copy and paste is real…..

But when they’re looking for new meets, off go the message filters, and away they go…..

‘Meet today/hotel meets’ while away……again; not a problem for solo women. Plenty to choose from! For me, when I’ve been away in Birmingham, Manchester, Liverpool and Glasgow……one offer after several years (apart from the cock sucking guys of course

)…

“Just go to a club!” I hear you cry!

My experiences of the club scene really do pale in to insignificance, again, compared to those of my solo female friends. I don’t know a single female who was ever avoided like a leper in a club setting……

I’m glad you chose the word ‘easier’ for the thread, than ‘easy’, as yes, the sheer volume of attention probably doesn’t make using the site easy, but message filters and strict preferences go a long way to cutting the wheat from the chaff. Nobody can argue single ladies aren’t spoiled for choice in here, so it will never be ‘difficult’.

Ladies; you have my sympathies

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Hell no..easier for any hole female of course..but a woman no

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
11 weeks ago

kendal

"How many women here msg their prey,, sorry I ment msg men first??

And be honest ladies."

I've never sent the first initial message to a single guy, EVER.

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

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"It’s easier generally I suspect in many ways just based on the fact that you’re a woman. But the site is easiest for people that are fit and attractive.

I got quite a backlash saying the exact thing in the past.

It’s an uncomfortable truth.

This, and one more specific topic I am actively wishing to avoid for the same reason and pretend it doesn’t exist, like everyone else. It starts with „m”."

Masturbation?

M&ms?

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How many women here msg their prey,, sorry I ment msg men first??

And be honest ladies."

I've not met anyone I didn't message first since before 2020.

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It would be very easy if I wasn't fussy, seeking mutual attraction and logistics were never an issue

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It would be very easy if I wasn't fussy, seeking mutual attraction and logistics were never an issue "

Yup. Basically impossible.

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