FabSwingers.com forum: Do you hold the door open for a lady maybe give up your seat on a bus

By *usman 199 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Stockport

Good morning. I do . Is it old school or is it still going strong

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
11 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Only if she’s got cracking tits, otherwise it would be patronising to women to do it just because she’s a woman.

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By *ete1969ABC100Man
11 weeks ago

Blackburn

Always. It would be so rude not to.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I do for the elderly, or pregnant women

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sure I do and if she a has a child and the queue in shops are massive

I'm close to the front let her jump in front of me

which I did recently and the lady behind me didn't mind 😝 I did receive a lovely smile and full eye contact

Which was read as a big thank you

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By *KBIMALE2025Man
11 weeks ago

WEDNESFIELD, WOLVERHAMPTON

I hold open doors for most people but some don't even say 'thank you'

I only offer my seat if elderly or pregnant

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

The door thing sometimes hell iv even helped some lasses get the shopping in when looking overwhelmed by all the bags but i will never ever give up my seat on a bus mainly cos i wont sit on one fuck that hobos sit on them seats

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By *onrob2 30Man
11 weeks ago

glenrothes

I always do that, it’s just common courtesy, gets on my nerves though if someone doesn’t do it for me

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
11 weeks ago

Home

Yes I was brought up to show manners

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

I do and for men too. I give up my seat if they need it more than me too

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I nearly always do the door thing on whether it’s male or female. And I will give my seat to anyone who looks like they need it. Beyond that, it would feel a bit creepy to be honest. If I fancy someone, I’m more likely to try and strike up a conversation than inappropriately offer a seat.

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By *ildwife38ddCouple
11 weeks ago

donegal

Yes for sure and our sons will do the same

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
11 weeks ago

somewhere

I hold doors open for anyone, I'm always that person that stands there and lets everyone else through.

I was on the tube last week and it was nice to see fellas giving their seats up for the women, made me have faith that the world isn't such a selfish place

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

If I'm in a position to, I do it for men and women. It's a polite bit of consideration for a fellow human being.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Yes, always for those more in need.

If I’m offered, I usually decline politely.

I love chivalry, really hope it never dies even if I’m a strong, independent woman.

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

As for keeping the door open 😂 at times I've kept it open letting everyone through when is a mad rush and greeted with a thank you from everyone

Nice reminder that are still some lovely people that thinks of others

Makes my day bringing a smile through my good deeds as they aren't small but massive

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By *atch0101Man
11 weeks ago

Here

Yes. With doors, I hold it open for anyone.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Always.

That was the way I was reared,

That is the way my son is being reared.

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By *WB85Man
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Isn't that against gender equality?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Without question but I get little annoyed when there isn’t the common courtesy to say thank you but hey ho

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'll hold the door open for anyone. If I'm in a position to do so

I ain't giving up my seat for anyone unless they appear to be vulnerable to having to stand - old, pregnant, injury etc and again that applies to everyone.

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By *ookey734Man
11 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Absolutely, costs nothing and is just a nice thing to do for people

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Absolutely and unapologetically so... I was brought up to be a gentleman by an amazing woman so what she says is gospel.

If someone takes offence at my actions then it's on them. They took it!

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By *lovetoowatchMan
11 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yeah i was raised right

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By *ee69Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

You should always

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
11 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I'll hold the door open for anyone. If I'm in a position to do so

I ain't giving up my seat for anyone unless they appear to be vulnerable to having to stand - old, pregnant, injury etc and again that applies to everyone. "

Ditto and double ditto.

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By *irty Boy-123Man
11 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I believe it is the correct way to be raised. Manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I’ll hold open the door for anyone.

I don’t get the whole giving up your seat for someone who is perfectly capable of standing though. I wouldn’t expect anyone to do that for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Well of course. Isn't that just common decency?

I very much live by the rule of being kind to everyone until they give me reason not to be.

You can come face to face with a person and they could have lived through the worst of horrors but you wouldn't know.

It does not hurt to be kind. X

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By *rSircumsizedMan
11 weeks ago

Newport area.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
11 weeks ago

Newport area.

I've given up on the keeping the door open business, especially in heavy traffic areas. I was stood holding a door open at St. Davids Shopping centre, Cardiff for about 5 minutes. Not one person said thank you, when is it ok to stop holding it if people are constantly walking towards it?

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By *host63Man
11 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

It's the age of equality so unless she is pregnant or elderly no I don't.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I hold the door open for anyone, I give my seat up to the elderly or disabled and women with small kids, but women in general no.

Mrs

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By *allGuy1000Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

I was raised by my grandparents. I was taught to be a gentleman and that manners cost nothing but are worth so much. I will continue to be a gentleman and I teach my son the same.

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By *imples24Man
11 weeks ago

tamworth

Yeah still do this just manners and respect surely can’t offend anyone 🤷‍♂️

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By *educing_EmCouple
11 weeks ago

Tipperary

I'll hold the door open for anyone, I was raised like that.

As for seats, elderly, pregnant, people with kids, disabled people.... Basically anyone who looks like they might need it more than me absolutely.

Id never take a seat from someone either unless I really needed it

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By *rafter69Man
11 weeks ago

upminster

Yes its been drilled into me so still do it without thinking.

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I'll hold the door open for anyone, I was raised like that.

As for seats, elderly, pregnant, people with kids, disabled people.... Basically anyone who looks like they might need it more than me absolutely.

Id never take a seat from someone either unless I really needed it"

Omg get your own answers Em, stop stealing mine!

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By *educing_EmCouple
11 weeks ago

Tipperary

"I'll hold the door open for anyone, I was raised like that.

As for seats, elderly, pregnant, people with kids, disabled people.... Basically anyone who looks like they might need it more than me absolutely.

Id never take a seat from someone either unless I really needed it

Omg get your own answers Em, stop stealing mine! "

Who are you and why are you following me!!

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