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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

You are angry?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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11 weeks ago

East Sussex

I go very quiet and very still.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Go quiet, switch off

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By *lan157Man
11 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Burst out of my shirt

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By *iker JackMan
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I don’t do angry with people

I do angry with myself for allowing the situation to have happened

In that case I cycle. It clears my head. Even on my spinner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Burst out of my shirt "

I like this one, I am wearing green today so strong possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Get extra sarcastic

Fuck off everyone around me

Eat

Cry

Work out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Get extra sarcastic

Fuck off everyone around me

Eat

Cry

Work out

Well I tried to do the first one but had a cancel 🤣

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By *eneralKenobiMan
11 weeks ago

North Angus

Proper anger? Silence

Slightly grumpy, I mouth off at the culprits who got me that way

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

It depends how angry

If I’m really fucking angry I’ll go silent and just cut everyone that’s the focus of my anger out. Done.

If I’m just mildly pissed off, they’re about to learn why

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By *ilverfox for youMan
11 weeks ago

Hull

Don’t really get that angry really !

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Add a line on my excel of Grievances, Antagonisms and Emotional Disturbances Not Quite Justifying Death But Maybe a Little Bit of Death (nothing permanent). It’s a long title but AKA Shit List 4.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Add a line on my excel of Grievances, Antagonisms and Emotional Disturbances Not Quite Justifying Death But Maybe a Little Bit of Death (nothing permanent). It’s a long title but AKA Shit List 4. "

Ooh nice idea Glow

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By *ell GwynnWoman
11 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I go quiet. "Dangerously silent" is how it was once described to me by someone who was more inclined to shouting and banging things around when angry.

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By *IXEN200Woman
11 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I tend to shut down and close myself off

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"You are angry?"

Either stew quietly or lose my temper in a thermonuclear fashion.

I just recovered from the latter.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

Go on social media usually and watch funny videos I’ve saved or look at funny memes.

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I generally have a good rant and get it out of my system.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"You are angry?

Either stew quietly or lose my temper in a thermonuclear fashion.

I just recovered from the latter. "

Yes I think I am there 🤣

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By *WANDTGCouple
11 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

I try the ABC 123

A - Activated, what's brought it on.

B - Belief, whose right or wrong.

C - Consequence, what outcome would arise if you lost it.

Then count to 3.

Anger management.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Takes a while of pushing my buttons but when I snap I blow up and lose my shit. Then I take myself away until I've calmed down and mulled it over. If I was unreasonable then I'll come and talk. If they were then I'll sulk until they make the first move.

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By *ellhungvweMan
11 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Depends what type of angry. I rarely get properly angry but I will usually go on the front foot if it happens - it can either be action orientated or shouting orientated. Either way something will happen.

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By *rMrsH723Couple
11 weeks ago

Dundee

Cry 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I start walking fast, and try to calm myself down! I normally don't get pissed off so quick!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Cry 😂🤦🏼‍♀️"

Done that, might be moving on to angry cleaning of the oven next...2 birds 1 stone

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"You are angry?

Either stew quietly or lose my temper in a thermonuclear fashion.

I just recovered from the latter.

Yes I think I am there 🤣"

It was entirely pointless because I lost it at my Dad.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

I just angrily chopped onions and opened tins and lobbed 'erbs and spices and put the slow cooker on 🤬

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Pick on Wonko

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By *panking masterMan
11 weeks ago

Washington

"You are angry?"
spit my dummy out and throw all my toys out of my pram,,,

and if i am really angry i pull the wheels off too,,,

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By *alsaman15Man
11 weeks ago

Market Drayton

I don't get angry I get even

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
11 weeks ago

St Leonards

Plot.

Wait.

Wait some more.

Maybe a little more.

Execute the strategy.

Smile.

Coffee and a fag ✔️.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

"I don't get angry I get even

Not always possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"I just angrily chopped onions and opened tins and lobbed 'erbs and spices and put the slow cooker on 🤬"

I am going to cook tea with angry music

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
11 weeks ago

london

Depends how angry.

Mildly angry I walk away and ignore.

Really angry then I do what Bruce Banner does

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By *929Man
11 weeks ago

bedlington

Depends entirely on the situation

Just feeling wound up in general going to the gym really does help

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

Cry, or go for a fast walk.

Or both, preferably at the same time.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

Lock myself away in my office and brood.

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
11 weeks ago

houghton

Walk the dog until im lucid

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By *ife NinjaMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Mutter obscenities under my breath

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By *midnight-Woman
11 weeks ago

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I get very quiet, still and reflective .... I give myself breathing space to figure out what i want to do and how 8 want to react

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By *hinstrapMan
11 weeks ago

sheffield

I go and sulk and calm down in another room for 5 mins.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
11 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"You are angry?"

Usually my default is frustrated cry (Mrs)

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster

End up in Strangeways or similar government establishments

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By *usty kayCouple
11 weeks ago

Burnham

Depends who I'm angry with. Kids I count to 10 before I let them know why I'm angry. Adults I tend to avoid confrontation when I'm angry because my brain doesn't work and I can't say what I want and end up crying. Or I shout and say something downright hurtful that I don't mean. I don't tend to get angry very often but I almost left my job last time I did but I still avoided confrontation with the person causing it.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

It takes a lot to make me angry, and it happens rarely. Ailsa is the only person who has ever seen me. I can shout a bit, say things I don’t really mean. It goes quickly, and because it’s not a natural state for me, I get really tired afterwards. Anger is exhausting.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

I'm a bottler, I store it all up until I can get to the beach for yoga. Out with the negative, in with the positive

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
11 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

If it’s a minor thing I’ll have a little strop that lasts like a minute and then I’ll realise I’m being a brat and laugh at myself

If it is a proper hard anger I totally shut down and go silent to give myself Time to process

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By *ad NannaWoman
11 weeks ago

East London

I get over it very quickly, take a deep breath and move on.

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I get over it very quickly, take a deep breath and move on."

(This)

Sometimes I’ll need to have a mini rant about it first and then usually laugh at how stupid I’m being.

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By *a1970Man
11 weeks ago

East cork

Awsome... I'm the same as everyone else

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By *NormalMan01Man
11 weeks ago

Harrogate

Depends on the situation, who or what has made me angry and what is going on around me..

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