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Red flags, no no's in profiles and person

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By *yneViking OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yeah I'm new to the game and I'm asking the questions of :

A Woman's first attraction to a profile and also to the person on a first meet.

And also what is it a woman

would try to avoid when looking at a profile or a person on a first meet.

Cool thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You might end up with a few different answers for this, as some things are personal preference.

So long as you present yourself how YOU want to be seen, that's what matters most. But a half decent photo and a polite attitude will go far.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

You won't find an all-encompassing answer here because people are different and have varying expectations and criteria. Just come across as good-natured on your profile, avoid any arrogance, be yourself and not try to project a false persona. Some women have an aversion to graphic photographs displaying your previous conquests; it's Fab, of course, but some people like to feel unique and not have the visual evidence of sexual encounters displayed on profiles.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

I don’t like people who wear a lot of lipstick.

I don’t like people whose nail varnish is chipped or is messy.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Women aren't a hive mind. They all have individual tastes and preferences, so you'll be unlikely to get the same answer from them all.

Also....trying to adjust your profile and behaviour to suit a few will just as likely put off those that don't share the same views.

Best advice? Just be yourself and talk to others as if they were people and not just a means to get your rocks off.

If you type 'profile advice' into the forum search box you'll find plenty of threads where women have given their thoughts. There's a few common themes that are useful pointers, but the best profiles are self generated, rather than trying to play the game of posting something you think others want to see/here. 😉

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I don’t like people who wear a lot of lipstick.

I don’t like people whose nail varnish is chipped or is messy. "

Way to call me out in public Pickle 💜

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I like a profile that has some tasteful pics and a bit written about themselves, what they offer and look for.

I don't reply to one line profiles or those with no public pics, rightly or wrongly I always think they're hiding something.

The biggest red flag to me is being pushy or trying to tell me what to do /wear. Or questioning my boundaries.

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By *oxy jWoman
11 weeks ago

somerset

ill keep my red flags to myself last thing i want to do is give them away so people dont show them trueselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"ill keep my red flags to myself last thing i want to do is give them away so people dont show them trueselfs"

Absolutely the wisest thing to do, without a doubt. 👌🏻

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Try not think of it as a game.

Think of it as a hunt, but where you are the prey.

That way if no one catches you, then you are successful.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m an uncomplicated creature but also someone needs to say it. If I happen to stumble across a profile with a dick as their profile picture, I block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"ill keep my red flags to myself last thing i want to do is give them away so people dont show them trueselfs"

Yes I totally agree. X

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You have received some really good advice on here.

Your profile looks pretty good so far.

Honestly be yourself.

The rest will flow naturally.x

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Profiles without any public pics or only dick pics.

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Single profiles with action shots. I question consent and I don’t need to see you hanging out of the back of others

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Alpha - that one word is an instant block for me

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Dirty backgrounds on pics

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Little to no bio. Be yourself in your bio for fuck sake but if you have zero imagination or have put no effort in I’ll just assume you’re just as lazy in bed.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Avoid - single men

- single men with women in their pics

- crap pics

- cock pics

- text speak

- moaning status

- wife's belongings in backgrounds

Like - women

- good pics

- humour

- effort

Mrs

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends


"I don’t like people who wear a lot of lipstick.

I don’t like people whose nail varnish is chipped or is messy.

Way to call me out in public Pickle 💜"

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