FabSwingers.com forum: First thing a lady looks at on a guy?

By *exicanamigo OP Man
11 weeks ago

hampshire

Eyes

Teeth

Shoes?

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Eyes

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

Shoes and I’m not even joking.

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By *heelerMan
11 weeks ago

Northants

"Eyes

Teeth

Shoes?

Wallet

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Eyes

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
11 weeks ago

Chichester

Height!

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
11 weeks ago

furnace

"Shoes and I’m not even joking."
so what are your shoe guide to men

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Monobrow

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
11 weeks ago

N. Wales

His head. Don't be dirty!

His face and hair, his smile, and his mind

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

His face

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Shoes and I’m not even joking. so what are your shoe guide to men"

Depends on the man, really.

Can be a dealbreaker.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
11 weeks ago

furnace

"Shoes and I’m not even joking. so what are your shoe guide to men

Depends on the man, really.

Can be a dealbreaker."

Pm me more details please genuinely interested

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Eyes, smile, bum

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By *luebell888Woman
11 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Confidence and body language

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Shoes and I’m not even joking. so what are your shoe guide to men

Depends on the man, really.

Can be a dealbreaker.

Pm me more details please genuinely interested "

Erm no thanks.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
11 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

It’s the mouth for me… I’m very drawn to full lips… after the mouth, it’s the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Shoes and I’m not even joking. so what are your shoe guide to men

Depends on the man, really.

Can be a dealbreaker.

Pm me more details please genuinely interested

Erm no thanks."

Swing and a miss. 😂

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster

My mam always told me my smile will get me into trouble, it did many, many times.

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By *entlandscaperMan
11 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Been told my arse look good but my smile is cute

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

pulse

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By *entlandscaperMan
11 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

"pulse "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter?

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By *entlandscaperMan
11 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "

Most women like a taller man then them I feel if women taller then me we look funny walking down the road. In bed though height don’t matter your all same

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Eyes, smile,then do the scanning up and down

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By *uv2likokuMan
11 weeks ago

newport

Yeh short guys get a bit of a hard time

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By *antra MassageMan
11 weeks ago

city

"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "

Its programmed into our DNA.

A woman is drawn to masculine traits, tall, broadshouldered, strong, youthful, etc.

Just like men are drawn to some feminine characteristics, red lips, breasts, bum, scent. etc.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeh short guys get a bit of a hard time "

Tom Cruise doesn't seem to struggle. 🤷‍♂️

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By *inxy777Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

It depends how much taller they are to me!!😂

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By *NormalMan01Man
11 weeks ago

Harrogate

"pulse "

Mine beats every now and again.

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By *ugehandsMan
11 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

Nasal and ear hair?

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

All women want the same thing, I heard it from some guy on the Interweb and he has loads of followers. So if they say otherwise 🚩!

I'll let you all in on the trade secrets.

1. Choice of mince pies - women assess a man's character and good taste this way.

2. Quality of socks - so they can steal them.

3. If they eat meat off the bone with their hands. - If they do they're good for sex - if not they're a simp.

I'm so glad the internet is there to learn me how to think right. Imagine if I was left to learning for myself!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
11 weeks ago

Next Door

Eyes and smile.

If dressed smart casual, then i will also look at watch and shoes.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
11 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Eyes and smile, bonus points for dimples 🥵

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By *entlandscaperMan
11 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

"Eyes and smile, bonus points for dimples 🥵"

Blue eyes and dimples

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
11 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Face, smile, teeth.

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By *ornucopiaMan
11 weeks ago

Bexley

"Yeh short guys get a bit of a hard time

Tom Cruise doesn't seem to struggle. 🤷‍♂️"

The phrase 'Tom Cruise' always makes me think of driving through Tooting Bec.

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
11 weeks ago

york

A nice bum

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Yeh short guys get a bit of a hard time "

Not all short guys. 🩶 This one gets a good time. Frequently.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Nowhere

"It’s the mouth for me… I’m very drawn to full lips… after the mouth, it’s the eyes "

Gutted I'm too old

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
11 weeks ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

Lips is the first thing for me … a nice pair of lips and how they move can be insanely attractive. Then I take note of eyes, thighs and I love broad shoulders.

How a person dresses also features and yes, footwear too.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
11 weeks ago

Kent

Lips, smile and eyes. All equal

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Eyes and smile, then hands

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

Their general face - how they smile, the warmth of their eyes. How kissable their lips looks.

Closely followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands.

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By *quirrel!Man
11 weeks ago

Ball bag

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By *quirrel!Man
11 weeks ago

"Ball bag "

Apologies - I’m in one of those moods!

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By *midnight-Woman
11 weeks ago

...

Height, eyes

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By *ABflirtyWoman
11 weeks ago

Norwich

Height and face ..

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
11 weeks ago

Essex

Poise

Smile

Style

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Their general face - how they smile, the warmth of their eyes. How kissable their lips looks.

Closely followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands."

I recently discovered I have a thing for vascularity too

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Ball bag

Apologies - I’m in one of those moods!

That was not who I expected to say that ! 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter?

Most women like a taller man then them I feel if women taller then me we look funny walking down the road. In bed though height don’t matter your all same "

Well no. You don't shrink when you lay down, you're still shorter/taller.

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By *ularliWoman
11 weeks ago

Worcester

Eyes and smile

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"This is what I hate. I don’t get it, why does height actually matter? "

The answer isn’t doesn’t to some and it does to others. Unfortunately attraction is by its nature discriminatory and instant decisions are made at a glance.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands."

I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

I genuinely don’t care

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...In bed though height don’t matter your (sic) all same "

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No, it ·does· matter and the sooner we stop using that bullshit hackneyed phrase the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Eyes and smile

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West

Face, smile, kissable factor of lips.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
11 weeks ago

St Leonards

Dick.

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands.

I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them."

You shouldn't hide them; I know it's far easier to say don't be self conscious about something than it is to stop being so. I like evident vascularity. Always have. Add in easy dexterity and it's such an eye catching thing.

Quite a few women on here find it attractive. Men should have photos where they're writing/reading and they've been photographed, candid style. Sleeves rolled up etc....

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Face

And age matching appearance

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Arse

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"...In bed though height don’t matter your (sic) all same

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No, it ·does· matter and the sooner we stop using that bullshit hackneyed phrase the better."

Height doesn't matter

Size doesn't matter

Functionality and awareness and confidence matters

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

Eyes seem to be the winner.

Result for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Eyes seem to be the winner.

Result for me.

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By *igrobboMan
11 weeks ago

Sunderland

For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.

That's my opinion anyway.

Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message.

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By *NormalMan01Man
11 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Lips is the first thing for me … a nice pair of lips and how they move can be insanely attractive. Then I take note of eyes, thighs and I love broad shoulders.

How a person dresses also features and yes, footwear too. "

I have lips. Just sayin’

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By *lackcanaryWoman
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Teeth, eyes, arms

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By *lackcanaryWoman
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.

That's my opinion anyway.

Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message. "

Sorry to say it is! I personally need a physical attraction to play.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
11 weeks ago

West Dublin

Wedding ring finger!! 😂😂

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By *B69Woman
11 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Face

Shoulders

Thighs

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Eyes, hair, smile...

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.

That's my opinion anyway.

Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message. "

Maybe because most only have dick pictures or say they are 43 but looks 79..

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
11 weeks ago

wonderland.

Eyes xx

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

"Shoes and I’m not even joking."

What if I'm not wearing any 🤔

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By *agic.MMan
11 weeks ago

Orpington

"Shoes and I’m not even joking.

What if I'm not wearing any 🤔"

...you don't even qualify 🤭

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By *he AmbassadorMan
11 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"For majority of the women it's all about a guys looks.

That's my opinion anyway.

Why else would they demand a recent face picture with first message.

Maybe because most only have dick pictures or say they are 43 but looks 79.."
AHH lol I wouldn't say the boys here are the biggest offenders here on that 1, not by a country mile

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By *NormalMan01Man
11 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Face

Shoulders

Thighs"

Amount of mince pies.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Shoes and I’m not even joking.

What if I'm not wearing any 🤔"

Like, never? 🧐

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By *B69Woman
11 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"Face

Shoulders

Thighs

Amount of mince pies. "

And ratio to cream

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

"Shoes and I’m not even joking.

What if I'm not wearing any 🤔

...you don't even qualify 🤭"

I’m willing to consider different qualities.

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By *igrobboMan
11 weeks ago

Sunderland

Yeah but most the women who are asking for face picture with first message don't even have there face showing so why should they ask for ours without even showing theres. It should work both ways. I do have face pictures in my profile for if or when friend invite is sent and approved.

Yeah some atraction should be there but it's not all about how a person looks.

Should never judge a book by its cover and that is exactly what the majority of women do on here.

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By *ornucopiaMan
11 weeks ago

Bexley

"...followed by hands/vascularity of arms/hands.

I've always been self-conscious about the vasculature prominence in my hands. I suppose it's an age thing...for me. I sometimes hide my photos and sometimes unhide them."

You're so veined, I bet you think this thread is about you. Don't you?

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Bell end

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Their face. Their eyes and smile can tell me so much.

If I like that then i will take my time to look them up and down.

But oh boy, can it go wrong once they open their mouth. 🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
11 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

After taking their first glance at me they're normally looking for the nearest exit. 😆

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By *oney HoneyWoman
11 weeks ago

York

Looks at- Eyes, height, torso, bum

What is a deal breaker- personality

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
11 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Eyes seem to be the winner.

Result for me.

I also have eyes!

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