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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ends

A fwb or a few fb?

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By *aybeLadyWoman
11 weeks ago

West Dublin

A few fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

FWB. I'd rather have a social aspect as well.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

Depends on the availability. Preference for the fwb but if the fwb can't meet often then a few fb.

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By *cotlad178Man
11 weeks ago

falkirk

Love either

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By *onrob2 30Man
11 weeks ago

glenrothes

I would just prefer the one, would like the social side of things as well as the sexual

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By *arley QuimWoman
11 weeks ago

Somewhere

FWB - I'm currently struggling to find enough time in my life for one person in that respect. I'd have no chance with more. Due to the friendship side they understand that though and it's working okay.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Just 1, I only have time for 1…

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
11 weeks ago

Bristol

Again just the FWB, life is hectic enough to try and juggle more than one currently

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

FWB... Sex gets better as you get to know someone and the social side is important too.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
11 weeks ago

Next Door

A fwb would suit my needs currently.

Just hard to find that person

🤷‍♀️

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Definitely a FWB

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Swansea

Right now I don't want either, but when I was single I had a few fb's rather than a fwb.

I didn't want to have closeness or friendship, I didn't want lots of messages or calls or daily updates. I just wanted them for sex when it suited me and my schedule, hence the reason why I had a few of them.

It worked for me for over 3 years.

Mrs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

Fwb

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By *odg123Man
11 weeks ago

southampton

Fwb

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By *antricSeeker60Man
11 weeks ago

Durham

Either as long as they’ve an open mind.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
11 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Just one FWB, don’t have the time or inclination for more than that rn

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
11 weeks ago

furnace

Depends on the choices

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By *heelerMan
11 weeks ago

Northants


"A fwb or a few fb?"

A few fb

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

South Wales

Depends how good the sex was. One epic shag is better than a few mediocre shags.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
11 weeks ago

furnace


"Depends how good the sex was. One epic shag is better than a few mediocre shags."

But one is never enough

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By *hristopherd999Man
11 weeks ago

Brentwood

Just one

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By *ad NannaWoman
11 weeks ago

East London

I'd have the friend with benefits if they were a friend and not someone who messages when they need sex.

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
11 weeks ago

Ilford

Absolutely the FWB, as someone else in the thread said, the sex gets better the more you do it with the same person and the social aspects are nice too.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Ends


"I'd have the friend with benefits if they were a friend and not someone who messages when they need sex.

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
11 weeks ago

N. Wales

Ooh, good question! Before us, I had a few fwb's. That worked well for me then. I don't think it could now. Too much life-ing going on!

I'll go with a few fb's to start with

~ Mrs. DS

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

FWB.

I don't mind the odd fuck buddy to fill the gaps when I'm happily partnered. But if I was single single I'd prefer to have at least one person that was more than just available genitalia 💜

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Seems like most of us are looking for A FWB,and can't find one lol

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

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A fwb.

Zero interest in a fuck buddy. I'd rather go without (not happening 'cause of poly life 🩷) but yeah, zero fuck buddies.

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool


"A fwb.

Zero interest in a fuck buddy. I'd rather go without (not happening 'cause of poly life 🩷) but yeah, zero fuck buddies."

This, without the poly part.

With one adjustment, it doesn't need to be a frequent regular fwb. Nor does it need to be super best friends forever friendship either. Somebody I get on with and could chill with now and again is fine but definitely some level of social aspect.

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By *om_4_FunMan
11 weeks ago

Stafford

Regular FWB would be perfect

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By *ell GwynnWoman
11 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

One FwB. I can't do FB's.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
11 weeks ago

North West


"A fwb or a few fb?"

FWB please. A really, really good one.

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By *uckurcumMan
11 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

FB suits me ...meet...both get what we want ... Job done

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By *alkingbobMan
11 weeks ago

Hamilton

Either FWB or FB

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"A fwb.

Zero interest in a fuck buddy. I'd rather go without (not happening 'cause of poly life 🩷) but yeah, zero fuck buddies.

This, without the poly part.

With one adjustment, it doesn't need to be a frequent regular fwb. Nor does it need to be super best friends forever friendship either. Somebody I get on with and could chill with now and again is fine but definitely some level of social aspect. "

.. this exactly

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By *ife NinjaMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

FWB would be nice

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely a few FB, I don’t need to have sex with my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

FWB I like the social side the interaction, the trust you can build up , one good sexcy lady is enough for me

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
11 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I (Mrs) had a couple of FB then just one fwb... We caught feelings.. now we're married and on here together

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

Surely a few fwb, it's like going to a sweet shop and you can only have the same sweet every time. Much better to have variety in colour, flavour, texture, style and personality no?

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading


"Seems like most of us are looking for A FWB,and can't find one lol"

It's worse than that, we can't find a fwb on a swinging site!

Where's a face slap emoji when you need one.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

Neither

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By *usty kayCouple
11 weeks ago

Burnham

I always thought my answer would be a few fb but having accidentally fallen in 1 fwb I now know what I prefer. Unfortunately it doesn't work well when you're married and friends becomes something more so I now have to try 1fwb and a few fb's lol

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By *ugarCumFairyWoman
11 weeks ago

Fuckerville, Oxon

Regular fwb…

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By *hav02Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow/London

prefer fwb...chemistry adds the spice

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By *hortyscotWoman
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have 2. Works well for us all

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By *ife NinjaMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I have 2. Works well for us all "

How about 3?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

A few fuck buddies.

I couldn't handle just one fwb, I need variety

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By *ungyoungbullMan
11 weeks ago

Cork City


"A few fuck buddies.

I couldn't handle just one fwb, I need variety "

Exactly . Need to share the love

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

My FWBs are my FBs so a win is a win.. I don't do any other way. If we can't get along non sexually we won't ever get along sexually. Ever

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Variety is the spice of life pickles.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'd go with a few FBs at the moment, not got the energy for being friends and doing social stuff.

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

FWB.

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