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What percentage of people over 50 are unhappy in their relationship

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings

Board and now think I'm making her as un happy as she is making me..

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Have you tried anything to shake things up?

And I don't mean in the bedroom

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

There’s a lot of grumpy people on here

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By *asterfulsoulMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Have you tried anything to shake things up?

And I don't mean in the bedroom "

Oh yes.

Lots of things I did try and chat but it ended in a row as normal.

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here."

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that. "

That I fully understand, at times also I think we're to old to move on

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

That I fully understand, at times also I think we're to old to move on "

Is it to old or to involved as time goes on 2 lives almost become 1.

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By *urry BlokeMan
11 weeks ago

Stalybridge

More than happy with mine

I've had previous relationships that were either unrealistic or toxic

This one was unexpected, open, communicative and

That's not to say we don't fall out, cos we do, but it's more bicker / calm down / find the common ground / move on scenarios

If you and/or your wife are unhappy, open the door to full and frank discussion & walk away from any conflict that arises

Life is too short for protracted unhappiness

I say that not to encourage a split, but more of a recognition that carrying on the way you are isn't healthy for either of you

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By *usie pTV/TS
11 weeks ago

taunton

A very common situation, it is one heck of a sacrifice to stick with it.

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By *usurrusCouple
11 weeks ago

North West.

On our sofa right now......it's a 100% satisfaction rate.

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By *oxy jWoman
11 weeks ago

somerset

can i ask is your marriage boring since you joined this site??

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

Waiting patiently for someone to come with a “menopause” card. I have a feeling it won’t be long.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

I've been single for many years and plan to stay this way.

Live is short and precious, if you're in a relationship that's making you miserable. Find a way out.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
11 weeks ago

cahoots


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that. "

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold.

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By *onrob2 30Man
11 weeks ago

glenrothes

Im in a similar kind of situation but we have a daughter who has some medical issues( not too serious) and that has basically put everything else on the back burner, we can’t go away for the weekend or even a night away is hard to arrange. I feel it has come to the point where we won’t be like we were

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple
11 weeks ago

B’stoke

Not 50 yet but happy to rent Mimi away 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold."

She could not afford the bills or do the maintenance to the gardens on her own.

There again nor could I the maintenance that is.

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold."

So I guess she bought your half. And how did you split every thing else.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Waiting patiently for someone to come with a “opause” card. I have a feeling it won’t be long. "

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@Dee, I've removed the "men" from the your "menopause" statement, my darling.

The "men" have it hard enough. We are not culpable for mother nature's peculiarities. 🩶😘

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By *lik and PaulCouple
11 weeks ago

cahoots


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold.

So I guess she bought your half. And how did you split every thing else."

No she lived there until she moved on and got together with a new partner then we sold the house.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

We change so much from 20 to 50 that the chances of your 50 year old safe still being well suited to your partners 50 year old self seems to be rather fortunate and uncommon.

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By *reddie DerbysMan
11 weeks ago

matlock

Not 50 yet but unhappy have been for years , circumstances keep holding us together us now have a kid via IVF .

Sex has always been horrendous but lived in hope but no I no longer find her remotely sexually attractive nor want to touch her and she must feel the same. I did myself a sexual experiment about 12 yrs ago which confirmed she has got a sexual bone in her body or just isn’t arsed about me, hence why I’m in here before I go insane

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By *orkiebar51Man
11 weeks ago

Keighley

She's 72 and an alcoholic. We've been together for 55 years and I can't contemplate leaving but her lies and deceit about her drinking, and how it changes her behaviour are destroying my mental health

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

A similar percentage to the under fifties I reckon.

From what I see and read I'm beginning to wonder if the number of unhappy relationships far outweigh the happy ones. I think a lot of people actually expect to be unhappy.

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"A similar percentage to the under fifties I reckon.

From what I see and read I'm beginning to wonder if the number of unhappy relationships far outweigh the happy ones. I think a lot of people actually expect to be unhappy."

Either that or they have unrealistic expectations about long term relationships

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

38.5262%

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Waiting patiently for someone to come with a “menopause” card. I have a feeling it won’t be long. "
well into that department at the moment, luckily she is just my FB who I think a lot about.

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold."
I offered my house to the ex but she didn't want it, just half of what it was worth at the time, £165,000 later she was happy and I remortgaged,

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Not 50 yet but happy to rent Mimi away 🤣😂🤣😂🤣"
I've just priced a job in Basingstoke, I don't think I'll get the job, I put in a proper silly price.

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By *ove2pleaseseuk OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Hastings


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold. I offered my house to the ex but she didn't want it, just half of what it was worth at the time, £165,000 later she was happy and I remortgaged, "

Not meany would afford a £165k mortgage what's that 2k a month or more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"A similar percentage to the under fifties I reckon.

From what I see and read I'm beginning to wonder if the number of unhappy relationships far outweigh the happy ones. I think a lot of people actually expect to be unhappy.

Either that or they have unrealistic expectations about long term relationships "

That's a very good point.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

50 is not old/too old to be making changes or starting over... This is why people end up so bloody miserable 😣

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Also staying for houses and kids is never a good/valid reason.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
11 weeks ago

Maidstone

My husband had the same thoughts. He called it. Yes it devastated me. My world was thrown upside down. It took me a while to come to terms with it and move on. But guess what? I did. And I'd much rather he did what he did, than be living a sham of a marriage. I'm free.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends


"My husband had the same thoughts. He called it. Yes it devastated me. My world was thrown upside down. It took me a while to come to terms with it and move on. But guess what? I did. And I'd much rather he did what he did, than be living a sham of a marriage. I'm free. "

❤️

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Put the ball in her court then.

Tell her you've met other people on here and see if the house means more to her.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
11 weeks ago

cahoots


"Talk to your partner, or leave them.

You're not gonna find the solution here.

If I leave it will brake her, as the house she dreams of will need to be sold. don't know I can live with that.

If it's losing the house that will break her and not losing the relationship then your priorities are all wrong. When my ex wife and I split she stayed in the house so there's no need for it to be sold. I offered my house to the ex but she didn't want it, just half of what it was worth at the time, £165,000 later she was happy and I remortgaged,

Not meany would afford a £165k mortgage what's that 2k a month or more"

About half that amount

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