FabSwingers.com forum: Can’t a man say a woman is attractive without it being a come on?

By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Yes they can it's just the manner in which it's done x

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕 "

I get you on this x

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By *rRiosMan
12 weeks ago

dublin

Short answer, yes. Long answer no, sadly

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x"

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪

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By *EAT..85Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

Yeah. I've had a fair few compliments over the years that weren't come ons. Often older gentlemen.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Yes. Gay men do it a lot.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪 "

Absolutely xx sending hugs and positive thoughts x

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By *quirrel!Man
12 weeks ago

I feel that whatever I say translates to “I really wanna fuck you” on here!

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By *rostgiantMan
12 weeks ago

Chippenham

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪

Absolutely xx sending hugs and positive thoughts x"

I also feel like this...constantly, so I suck at receiving compliments

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪

Absolutely xx sending hugs and positive thoughts x

I also feel like this...constantly, so I suck at receiving compliments"

Hugs incoming xx

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

On here? Don't be so stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

They can but some women like to overthink things

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By *rostgiantMan
12 weeks ago

Chippenham

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪

Absolutely xx sending hugs and positive thoughts x

I also feel like this...constantly, so I suck at receiving compliments

Hugs incoming xx"

Giant man hugs

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By *lex46TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Near Wells

Absolutely, if a lady looks nice I’ll compliment them. Wether its the hair that’s looking good or nice looking clothes I always say so.

It makes a lady smile.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'd struggle to accept it as I feel I'm not attractive 😕

I get you on this x

It's tough when you feel that way isn't it 😕 😪

Absolutely xx sending hugs and positive thoughts x

I also feel like this...constantly, so I suck at receiving compliments

Hugs incoming xx

Giant man hugs

Medium woman hugsx🤣

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

"On here? Don't be so stupid "

Somebody has been on the gRUMp

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"On here? Don't be so stupid

Somebody has been on the gRUMp"

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By *egoMan
12 weeks ago

Preston

I do this frequently to my friends. I don't see an issue.

Its only their men that can get iffy about it.

They need to do better.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I've learned to take a compliment, and if there is an ulterior motive behind it ,it's not long in following that compliment

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

A compliment is a compliment regardless of wanting to bang.

Now if I show you my meme collection...

Faf?

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Yeah. I've had a fair few compliments over the years that weren't come ons. Often older gentlemen. "

I'm still ruffling my plumage at you.

Is that a "come on"...? Yes. No. Perhaps. Maybe.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
12 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I can say a guy is attractive without needing to bag him!

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By *ce.of.spadesMan
12 weeks ago

Kilmacolm

Tbf lots of men come across sleazy , unless their an old fella or gay but I've always said if a Ferrari drives past guys will appreciate how beautiful it is, and it's pretty much the same with beautiful women. We are never going to drive the Ferrari but it's still a nice sight to see🤣

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By *exsaCouple
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

In this context, i think its a little different.

You might want to choose your words carefully.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Tbf lots of men come across sleazy , unless their an old fella or gay but I've always said if a Ferrari drives past guys will appreciate how beautiful it is, and it's pretty much the same with beautiful women. We are never going to drive the Ferrari but it's still a nice sight to see🤣"

😂

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Harry! Is that you??

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"A compliment is a compliment regardless of wanting to bang.

Now if I show you my meme collection...

Faf? "

I'm a sucker for a meme 😉🤣

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can control how it's expressed not how it's received.

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By *vonne5exMan
12 weeks ago

Doncaster

When going around town with Yvonne she was always being told she was beautiful by blokes, young lads and I've been told I'm batting by 3 60ish old women, I took it as a compliment even if true.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
12 weeks ago

Wolvo

Kinda….

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
12 weeks ago

The Continental

A complicated one, here or out in the Matrix.

Some would say yes, you can compliment without it feeling like a line or looking for an ‘in’.

Some will say “no way, you’re definitely just saying it to get in my knickers”

At the extreme end of the scale, there are some that would say “I’ve not consented to you complimenting me” and would have you labelled as a sex pest, borderline r@pist in the making.

It’s probably wise to gauge your audience carefully before firing said compliment out.

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By * and R cple4Couple
12 weeks ago

swansea

"Yes. Gay men do it a lot. "

Maybe im cynical in my old age

but that's why i love gay men so much theirs never a ulterior motive.. X

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

Some men can…

Those would be the ones that mean it….

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

It's amazing. You look like a normal person, but actually you are the angel of death.

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