FabSwingers.com forum: Help a couple out

By *rmrsexcitement OP Couple
12 weeks ago

hull

This is for the ladies out there. We messaging ladies and seem to be getting nowhere. Are we doing something wrong? We seem to get 1 or 2 replies and that’s it or get nothing back. Can you help us please. We knew to this. So Any advice is welcome. Thank you

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
12 weeks ago

furnace

You have to wait for them to contact you

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By *rmrsexcitement OP Couple
12 weeks ago

hull

*new to this*

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The unicorn is a rare beast and forever drowning in offers from couples who are probably better off just paying for a sex worker.

Why in particular would such a creature choose yourselves over any of the others?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
12 weeks ago

Have a look at the Unicorns and Couples thread in the swingers chat, See if anyone who has posted catches your eye, post a comment and let people know what you're looking for,

(copy and paste Unicorns and Couples in search box)

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi ops

You're competing with lots of people for a bi fem, so they can be choosy.

Most couples want woman to join them, as so single males and other women .

I'm not your target market, but it's difficult because she'd need to find you both attractive and feel you were offering something different to all the other couples messaging.

Many couples seem to have more success meeting women in a club, so you could consider that.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish

As someone who spent almost 20 years as a ‘unicorn’, have a think about what your profile tells women about you. What do you enjoy, what are you both like in terms of personality, what do you offer?

Do be careful of commoditising women though. They’re not creatures to be captured in a net - they’re people, with preferences and personalities. If it feels like you’re a box to be ticked or there for the enjoyment of the couple, it’s very off putting.

As said above, the ratios don’t go in your favour so it’s all about standing out. It looks like you have had some success already though in a short time going off your veris?

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By *partharmonyCouple
12 weeks ago

Ruislip

Are you contacting them because you think they are people you would like to get to know, or because you want to have sex with them? If it's the latter, most women will run a mile.

We have found it incredibly easy to find women who want to know us. It's because we literally don't try to find women to have threesomes with. We try to find women (and couples) we get on with. On this scene, that can open doors. For us it has, but we'd still be happy to know the women we have met regardless of sexual possibilities.

Now if only there was a way of finding the right couples...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

If I was what you're after (I know I'm not) I'd read no further than 'woman wanted for tonight'.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"If I was what you're after (I know I'm not) I'd read no further than 'woman wanted for tonight'."

Yes, I had the same thought 🙂

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By *inkShyWoman
12 weeks ago

near Windsor

Are you messaging those who have bi on their profile, or indicate interest in a couple involvement?

I get many messages from couples, and I have zero interest at the moment in another woman so I tend to decline, or ignore if I'm pushed.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
12 weeks ago

Merseyside

Have you considered a large social event or a club night for single women and couples?

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester/London

More men and couples than women here, so even the Mid Women can dictate ...just how it is 😂

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By *rmrsexcitement OP Couple
12 weeks ago

hull

Yeah I re-read that does seem pushy it’s not meant like that at all. We just want to start talking to someone and actually get to know them have that attraction I was just trying different methods as I’m not sure what people are actually looking for..

But all info is taking on board.. thank you x

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By *rmrsexcitement OP Couple
12 weeks ago

hull

Yeah we’ve been to clubs and had success but I think it feels a-bit rushed, we wanted something abit more slower and intimate and if anything happens it happens if not, not. But definitely try some more clubs x

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By *rmrsexcitement OP Couple
12 weeks ago

hull

Yeah we’ve edited our profile and are now looking only for bi women and hopefully bi women see that my wife’s that way and it’s not a one way street x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Let the Mrs do the looking and messaging, if I was a unicorn I'd be more likely to respond to another woman than the man.

I agree about the "woman wanted" in your status. Goes against what you're saying in your profile about having a social first.

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By *ojo2joWoman
12 weeks ago

Penclawdd

"If I was what you're after (I know I'm not) I'd read no further than 'woman wanted for tonight'.

Yes, I had the same thought 🙂"

Agree

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