FabSwingers.com forum: For all us single folks

By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales

Right now, I'm happier than ever.

How about you OP?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
12 weeks ago

Bliss

I'm way too happy with my single life, to even contemplate looking for a life partner red

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Happy is a strong word.

I'm definitely less sad being single, and I know being in a relationship isn't for me.

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Right now, I'm happier than ever.

How about you OP?

Most of the time I'm happy,I think I find it hard at this time of year

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Happy is a strong word.

I'm definitely less sad being single, and I know being in a relationship isn't for me.

It's good that you realise that

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm way too happy with my single life, to even contemplate looking for a life partner red

That's great ,lucky girl 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm content with being single, because of the vast benefits it has. But I still crave some company, hence being here. 😄

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm content with being single, because of the vast benefits it has. But I still crave some company, hence being here. 😄"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I’m happy simply because there’s zero drama, rows or altercations but someone to spend some good times with both in and out the bedroom wouldn’t go a miss

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By *uzzleMan
12 weeks ago

Hastings

I don't think I could be in a relationship again. I learnt in my early 20's they weren't for me. I've been single for nearly 25 years.

I am one of lifes loners, much prefer my own company and not having to pander to another half.

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By *ustamanMan
12 weeks ago

weymouth

In a word no - I'm not happy being single. The search for a 'life' partner is largely fruitless and frustrating, possibly because I'm involved in many different things suddenly dropping those to put all my energy on to someone I find hard and tends to cause arguments and a quick breakup.

I'd probably say that at the moment I'm a serial intermittent monogamist since I've failed to get other couples to invite me into their dynamic.

Still here holding an optimistic view but repeatedly being knocked back - ce la vie

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By *imples24Man
12 weeks ago

tamworth

Happy being single for now wouldn’t mind a regular fwb for all things fun

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I don't think I could be in a relationship again. I learnt in my early 20's they weren't for me. I've been single for nearly 25 years.

I am one of lifes loners, much prefer my own company and not having to pander to another half."

Wow that's a long time being single,it obviously works for you though

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Happy being single for now wouldn’t mind a regular fwb for all things fun "

Best of both worlds

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'm not happy being single. Unfortunately the person doesn't exist who could plug the gap left by my soulmate passing, so I'm resigned to it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Very happy being single. I get my needs met.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I'm content with being single, because of the vast benefits it has. But I still crave some company, hence being here. 😄

Snap

Damn it. Does that mean you win my comment? 😅

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Meeting that right person if it where to happen you wouldn't mind putting things on the back burner for now

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By *cotlad178Man
12 weeks ago

falkirk

Tbh being single gets suckier each year

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I’m happy simply because there’s zero drama, rows or altercations but someone to spend some good times with both in and out the bedroom wouldn’t go a miss

The making up after a little drama is always soooo good though 😈

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Some good replies folks ,if I don't reply individually doesn't mean that I'm ignoring your comments ,I'm interested iin what everyone has to say

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By *weetiepie99Woman
12 weeks ago

cardiff

I love love, but if it goes wrong, the heartbreak is just the worst feeling, ever

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By *agerMorganMan
12 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Would like to find love again, but my ex’s behaviour towards me put me right off the idea.

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By *imples24Man
12 weeks ago

tamworth

"Happy being single for now wouldn’t mind a regular fwb for all things fun

Best of both worlds

For now yeah. For the obvious but also to socialise with and do stuff that’s better with a lady rather than mates 🤣 win win

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By *tticusukMan
12 weeks ago

Formby

Would love a FWB or ENM relationship

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By *rgoodnbadMan
12 weeks ago

greenock

Can be a bit, meh, at times. Would it be better if it was easier to get more attention from the opposite sex?

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I love love, but if it goes wrong, the heartbreak is just the worst feeling, ever

I agree,and I've had enough heartbreak to last my lifetime

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Happy being single for now wouldn’t mind a regular fwb for all things fun

Best of both worlds

For now yeah. For the obvious but also to socialise with and do stuff that’s better with a lady rather than mates 🤣 win win "

Hahaha agree

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Would love a FWB or ENM relationship "

That would be my happy ever after

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Can be a bit, meh, at times. Would it be better if it was easier to get more attention from the opposite sex?

Hmmmm only you can answer that

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By *moothdickMan
12 weeks ago

stoke

95% of the time love being single, but I must be honest, I do miss female company

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By *uperSalopian7Man
12 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Very content being single. I'm terrible at relationships!

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By *ira2024Woman
12 weeks ago

"Right now, I'm happier than ever.

How about you OP?

Most of the time I'm happy,I think I find it hard at this time of year"

Yeah, that’s how I feel.

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By *end1Man
12 weeks ago

southend on sea

I've been officially single for 15 years thru choice I work alone and can honestly say I've never felt lonely. I've had a couple of longterm fwb. But I'm to set in my own ways for a 24/7 relationship. Yes the down side is as a single guy over 50 its almost impossible to get meets on here but it's not the end of the world.

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I hate being single

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By *ad NannaWoman
12 weeks ago

East London

I'm peaceful being single.

I can't imagine having to consider another person in my life now I've been alone for so long.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

Was in a relationship for 6 years. Got cheated on by my ex almost a year ago, I ended it, no second chances for me with cheaters.

Sometimes I do get a bit down, but overall, I'm doing great. I'm content being single and not looking to rush into a relationship just yet.

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

Both! For the most part I’m a loner and content in my own company, but I do get lonely and I feel like I have so much love to give the right person. A really good, close fwb would probably be a good solution but I don’t feel that will ever happen, so in the new year I will hit the dating apps again. Sigh…

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

What he said!

Though I've already hit the dating apps for what it's worth. Fuck me it's hard work

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By *ira2024Woman
12 weeks ago

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

What he said!

Though I've already hit the dating apps for what it's worth. Fuck me it's hard work"

I would go on a date with you if you were closer 😉🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *oxy-Red OP Woman
12 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I wasn't expecting to be single at this time in my life,I wasn't cheated on ,he sadly passed away and that heartbreak makes it hard to move on

I get your reasons for being single etc and for all of you who want love then good luck

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

Dunno. I have the days where I think I’m too old and there’s not much hope. Gave up on dating, I’m happy making friends I guess.

I have my person in my head, she’s always with me.

It would take some really unlikely happenstance and circumstances for the whole thing to strike again.

Keep going, try and keep the head up and do what I do I guess. Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'd love to find love. But I know I'll just want to be single again after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Though I've already hit the dating apps for what it's worth. Fuck me it's hard work"

Harder than it deserves my attention and effort, that's for sure. Spent 2-3 years on the apps and came up short every damn time. It's such a weird place nowadays, rife with seemingly more issues than here. 😆

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By *C44Man
12 weeks ago

Ipswich

Was happy for 10 years, now not happy and have only managed 2 dates in 5 years, think I left it too long and feel like I'm not going to find anyone now

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I'm content with it for the foreseeable. I love my own space too much to ever live with anyone again, so if I ever changed my mind about singledom it would have to be for someone who also loved their own space. I'm not sure many people would be OK with that tbh.

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

That depends upon whether I'd still get some peace and quiet 😂 if so

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm reasonably content. I like the idea of having an other half, not sure about the reality though. Never say never... Open to any opportunities that present themselves!

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By *sWyldWoman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

For the most part I'm happy. However, I hate the thought I might never have that love again.

So, I remain hopeful.

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By *hortyscotWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Love being single! I absolutely couldn't share my house with another person 😂

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By *rincess09Woman
12 weeks ago

Everywhere

I’m content being on my own but be nice to find someone to partner up with that also wants to stay in this lifestyle

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By *uzzleMan
12 weeks ago

Hastings

There is way too much pressure in society for people to be part of a 'couple' and conform to societal norms such as mortgage, marriage and kids.

I've done none of those things, mainly because I am a natural loner and recluse.

Unfortunately, with the price of housing and cost of living etc, there is even more pressure to 'couple up' in order to survive and have a joint income.

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I kind of like love, it feels meaningful.

Love really doesn't have to be all that complicated.

Famous last words.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
12 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I love being single, wouldn’t mind some dates or 1 FWB, not looking for much more

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Love being single! I absolutely couldn't share my house with another person 😂"

Totally agree. I'm living with a mate at the moment and miss having my own place. Worth moving though, but still. 😂

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I tend to hoard all the best parts of being single along with the best parts of not being single.

Solo poly is the way 💜

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I'm content with it for the foreseeable. I love my own space too much to ever live with anyone again, so if I ever changed my mind about singledom it would have to be for someone who also loved their own space. I'm not sure many people would be OK with that tbh."

I reckon more people than you think would go for that. I’d like to find someone who either wants separate places or at least separate bedrooms. We can canoodle still but then actually have a decent night’s sleep after. You women do the worst Dutch ovens

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By *aarv80Man
12 weeks ago

Crumlin

Happy being single. But I treasure the moments of intimacy I have had with certain people from here.

If I ever was to have a relationship again, I think I would like it to be with somebody else in the lifestyle. But we can't see into the future to k ow how it works out x

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I've been single for a long time and feel like I'd actually like a relationship again (though not monogamy). Currently trying to date as well as swing, but it's hard work.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I live alone and I am more than happy with that, I just miss emotional intimacy that I don't get from swinging solo

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By *aarv80Man
12 weeks ago

Crumlin

It's the emotional intimacy I missed that made me join the site to be honest.

I don't use it like a hookup site, but I know full well I'm in the minority of men with that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

I'm happy. Though I'd take a dashing partner

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
12 weeks ago

the moon

I’m good 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

Happy being single but do miss some parts of being with someone. Affection and intimacy mainly, but also just a mate to go on dates with.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"It's the emotional intimacy I missed that made me join the site to be honest.

I don't use it like a hookup site, but I know full well I'm in the minority of men with that"

With you on that one mate.

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By *ceKweenWoman
12 weeks ago

Bolton

If I had a venue, I’d organise a singles only social in a heartbeat 😍

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By *ira2024Woman
12 weeks ago

"If I had a venue, I’d organise a singles only social in a heartbeat 😍"

Oooo why not! I would attend 😋

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm happy but would be great to share life with someone. I'm very much not a loner. Sigh.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
12 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

I’m content with my choice to be single… my life is busy, I have a current FB… but I do occasionally miss having someone of my own.

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By *lan157Man
12 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

yes and yes...

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Love being single! I absolutely couldn't share my house with another person 😂"

I couldn’t have someone live with me again.

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington

I’m pretty comfortable with the idea of spending the rest of my life alone but still would love to find true love eventually it would make the remaining years so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"If I had a venue, I’d organise a singles only social in a heartbeat 😍"

I'm in.

Speak to a club as I'm sure they'll let you organise an event.

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By *entleman JayMan
12 weeks ago

Wakefield

I love being single. I have no intention of returning to a “normal” relationship.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
12 weeks ago

Marlborough

100% happy being single!

Do what I want, when I want.

Gets what I need, when I need.

Seemples 😊

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

Happy being single. Always open to finding love.

I've accepted I may be single for the remainder of my life as I have an illness which scares men off 😏

So when I say I'm happy being single, it's been a journey of acceptance of this tbh. A lot of talking to my therapist to get to this place of acceptance.

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By *jonesMan
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

I enjoy being single and don't want to change that in a hurry but would love to find a wing woman for dates and adventures and nonsense and good chats

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By *arialoueWoman
12 weeks ago

bradford

I'm happy single but if the right person came along I mite consider more than friend ship

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By *akedMMan
12 weeks ago

Witney

I enjoy being single. But missing having company would like a female friend for going out . Having meals together and having kisses and cuddles

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
12 weeks ago

Next Door

I'm happy single, but do think I'm at the right time/place in my life to look for a partner.

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

South Wales

Honestly? At the moment with all my menopause stuff going on and all the posts I read on Menopause threads (here and elsewhere) about SOME men and their partners, I’m quite glad I’m single.

That might change. But I am doubtful to be honest.

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By *ongandharderMan
12 weeks ago

Rotherham

"Are you happy being single,or would you like to find love again?

Never really had it so don't really miss it

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By *jonesMan
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

"I've been single for a long time and feel like I'd actually like a relationship again (though not monogamy). Currently trying to date as well as swing, but it's hard work. "

Me to..I meet a few woman for coffee etc off bumble etc ...and try and gauge whether they might be interested in this malarkey...

And I like to try and "date" woman off fab...in the sense that we do other stuff , cinema, dancing etc ..a kind of FWB...with emphasis on the friends ..

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By *arnayguyMan
12 weeks ago

Durham Tees

I am long term single and I don't hold out hope of ever being in love again, not the full on, 'the one' type anyway. But I would love to have a closeness with someone special that could include intimacy. I definitely have room in my life for that.

Applications to: PO Box FAB.....

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By *r.XratedMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

"Happy is a strong word.

I'm definitely less sad being single, and I know being in a relationship isn't for me.

You just haven't found the right match

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By *arialoueWoman
12 weeks ago

bradford

I'm happy single but if the right person came along I mite consider more than friend ship

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Happy is a strong word.

I'm definitely less sad being single, and I know being in a relationship isn't for me.

You just haven't found the right match"

That's simply not true for some people. The healthiest and happiest subgroup of people are single women. They live longer, too.

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By *aradox13Man
12 weeks ago

Dorchester

Happy living the single life, but would prefer to find a lady to grow old together with, life is not meant to be a solo adventure. Unfortunately online dating is horrendous, rarely get a match and haven't had a date in years, might have to bite the bullet and start going out more.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
12 weeks ago

Bolton

Be nice to meet someone special x

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