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Success Rate in club - Men

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By *exanthem OP   Man
24 weeks ago

North

What matters the most? Skin colour? Dick size? Grey matter? Face? asthetics overall? Or Alpha energy?

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By *ands2011Couple
24 weeks ago

bradford

Energy definitely matters

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t know what works but I know what doesn’t - sitting in the corner not talking to anyone or just wondering around wanking.

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By *exanthem OP   Man
24 weeks ago

North


"I don’t know what works but I know what doesn’t - sitting in the corner not talking to anyone or just wondering around wanking.

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So Grey Matter plus Alpha energy. Thanks

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By *ildTimes.Man
24 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

How about Sigma 😜

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By *octor ProdMan
24 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

I'm not ripped, not particularly blessed (won't win a rosette, but won't get the wooden spoon either) and no model.

But I talk to people, have a laugh, don't focus conversation on sex and don't follow people around a club.

As a result, its rare that I don't get invited to play

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By *aomilatteCouple
24 weeks ago

Midlands


"What matters the most? Skin colour? Dick size? Grey matter? Face? asthetics overall? Or Alpha energy?

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Aesthetics and personality.

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By *ABflirtyWoman
24 weeks ago

Norwich

Everything , lol x

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
24 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"Everything , lol x"
yip

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I think focusing on "success" as a goal is probably the least sexy for us OP, no offence meant. Is the goal to meeet like-minded ppl, and have some fun with ones you get on with, or to just literally succeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Skin colour

Is that a factor?

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By *ivilised matureMan
24 weeks ago

mortlake

Wouldn't know I've never been to a club or spa.

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By *exanthem OP   Man
24 weeks ago

North


"I think focusing on "success" as a goal is probably the least sexy for us OP, no offence meant. Is the goal to meeet like-minded ppl, and have some fun with ones you get on with, or to just literally succeed!"

You touched it - “ones you get on with”..so what’s the criteria you look for to invite someone for play?

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By *exanthem OP   Man
24 weeks ago

North


"Skin colour

Is that a factor? "

For some it does matter, along with dick size…you see many profiles here on fab.

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By *.T.Man
24 weeks ago

Belfast

Alpha Energy?

Is that strutting round like a peacock safe in the delusion you can take any woman you want irrespective of their wants or desires?

Sexual confidence is one thing, "Alpha energy" screams arrogance. I may be entirely wrong though.

And the fact you sought confirmation it was the alpha thing that got fucks, screams predatory to me.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
24 weeks ago

Cardiff

Nothing would make me more repulsed than alpha energy

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
24 weeks ago

wonderland.


"What matters the most? Skin colour? Dick size? Grey matter? Face? asthetics overall? Or Alpha energy?

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personality and being able to talk to people.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"I think focusing on "success" as a goal is probably the least sexy for us OP, no offence meant. Is the goal to meeet like-minded ppl, and have some fun with ones you get on with, or to just literally succeed!

You touched it - “ones you get on with”..so what’s the criteria you look for to invite someone for play? "

Yeah, well pointed out, although my point was, anyone not overly looking for success as the goal.

But to answer the direct question, as a couple it's ppl who have treated us as one, as a whole. Equal engagement with both of us, that a behaviour. For Characteristics, be FUN, have charisma and a sense of humour.. goes WAY further than anything physically..

Honestly it's tricky to define.. like ppl have said, energy is sexy... Self confidence, but can laugh at yourself.

Also, there is the very human factor of approval by association.. which applies to all situations not just clubs, if you're witnessed getting on well with ppl then everyone subconsciously feel more at ease with you.. funny bunch ain't we? haha

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
24 weeks ago

Londontown

Just like in real life, you're not going to be everyone's type. But, there's always someone for someone at a club/meet.

I find just having fun, being chill and getting to know people is the best way to enjoy the lifestyle.

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By *ornymatt42Man
24 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I know what doesn’t work for me , I went to one in Leeds through the day , firstly was getting followed by 4/5 guys everywhere I went , so sat on a sofa minding my own business , then an older guy probs around 60+ approached and said ‘suck my dick’ to which I replied no thanks , again he tried demanding me to suck it , again I replied no, then he proceeded to climb on top of me and try to force it in my mouth , at which point I had to for forcibly push him off me , put me right off the idea of going again

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By *exanthem OP   Man
24 weeks ago

North

So far no one has said, Dick size or Skin colour to begin with or aesthetics - good to see that tbh….as Fab is filled with people asking for BBC to the front or self declared QoS, Spades wife and black only titles.

Let me explain, Alpha energy means, Sexual confidence in this context.

Fun or playful is another criteria I am adding.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
24 weeks ago

Holibobs

Face and who he knows. Once his skillset has been discovered, lots want to have a try, I have friends who have 4/5 ladies queuing up to bang them

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By * and R cple4Couple
24 weeks ago

swansea


"What matters the most? Skin colour? Dick size? Grey matter? Face? asthetics overall? Or Alpha energy?

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None of that matters to us. For us its about having a great conversation with someone who interacts with both of us and we are able to have a laugh with. Everything else is secondary..

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