FabSwingers.com forum: Body shape

By *ver and Out 01 OP Man
24 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Going on from and not wanting to highjack Mr Pickles post on “fat men”, so a question for all

If you’re talking to someone and check their verifications and notice that they are successfully verified by someone who is the total opposite or partial opposite to you in looks or body shape does that put you off from messaging them?

When I say verified I mean not only verifications where it says or implies that something sexual happened but also just in general?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
24 weeks ago

Brum - ish

It wouldn’t put me off. But it might make me less likely to anticipate a reply if, for example, all their veris were from gym fit people. I’d only actually be put off if they explicitly specified a particular preference.

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t read them anymore it’s all bollox from group socials, piss taking or graphic details of sex.

I would rather figure someone out myself without nonesense from others distracting me

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Not anymore, I have in the past avoided or not believed guys actually want to meet me when all their veris were from slim/petite women.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
24 weeks ago

Merseyside

We do read them but doesn’t define anything about how we see their choices and would ask about it in conversation prior as wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I understand how this is a factor and was talking to my fiancé about it.

I don’t check verifications really so no it doesn’t factor in for me. But I think if I found out someone was never around people like me or sexually with people like me, I’d feel weird about it. But it wouldn’t out be off.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I understand why, for example, bigger women might be put off by a man that never meets or hangs around with bigger people.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
24 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Not at all, I’ll always message somebody regardless if I like them

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I only use veris to see they're real. Never read or look at the commentators

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No, I’m not put off.

I’ll ask anyone I like the look of to check me out.

Whether I get a response or not is a different matter, but fuck it….i’ll take my shot.

I married the complete opposite of me, in terms of size and stature, thanks to taking that shot.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
24 weeks ago

Coventry

I get it, we're larger people and people have winked us, messaged us who verifications have no one like us on there or themselves nothing like us in shape/size. Also we've had some really hot times with single men, ladies and couples who when we've looked on the their profile after haven't got anyone like us shape/size wise in there verifications.

What we've learnt is often for a lot of people character and chemistry seem to be key components to attraction. However obviously there is a element of physical attraction even if we've not their "traditional type". Which is logical really when we look at ourselves. We like the larger figure however a lot of the people we've found chemistry with and played with have been all different shapes/sizes and sometimes the complete opposite to us. I think getting to experience a variety of different people is one of great things about the lifestyle.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
24 weeks ago

Holibobs

Not at all, the attraction/chemistry confirmation, is only really a go on the face to face meet after all

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

There are things on veris that will put me off people but the body shape of their chosen partners is not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No, never.

I like various different body types myself, so it would be odd to assume other people only have very limited and specific tastes. Maybe some people do, but I won't find out until I message them.

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By *viatrixWoman
24 weeks ago

Redhill

"I don’t read them anymore it’s all bollox from group socials, piss taking or graphic details of sex.

I would rather figure someone out myself without nonesense from others distracting me "

This is true, most of them are bollocjs. The sarcastic ones put me off haha

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By *oxy-RedWoman
24 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Well it would make me think if all the guys verrie where from slim ladies but the biggest turn off would be if the verries where graphic, we all know what fab is so in my opinion we don't need graphic verries

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By *weetiepie99Woman
24 weeks ago

cardiff

No, I don't read veri's. They are a load of dangly's

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By *ubikslongswordMan
24 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Well it would make me think if all the guys verrie where from slim ladies but the biggest turn off would be if the verries where graphic, we all know what fab is so in my opinion we don't need graphic verries"

I agree graphic version just make me cringe

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By *dam1971Man
24 weeks ago

Bedford

"I’d only actually be put off if they explicitly specified a particular preference. "

This part for me too.

Verifications aren’t written under oath so I don’t read too much into them.

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By *entlemanH666Man
24 weeks ago

Here, there….

There have been occasions where I have noticed that a persons verifications are made up of a very specific type and I have not messaged because I do not fall into that type.

There have also been occasions where initially I thought that bit after reading their profile my decision has changed and I have messaged.

I think it all depends on a profile as a whole but type in verifications has certainly influenced me.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
24 weeks ago

Maidstone

I assume I'm nobody's type anyway so I wouldn't make things harder for myself by scrutinising their verifications!!

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By *a LunaWoman
24 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

Yes, if they meet folk who have toned physiques and look “glam” then I realise I probably won’t be for them as I’m more akin to a squishy overly plump sofa that has seen a lot of action.

Not THAT kind of action!

Sadly!

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By *ubikslongswordMan
24 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I assume I'm nobody's type anyway so I wouldn't make things harder for myself by scrutinising their verifications!!

How can you believe you're nobody's type???

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By *oxy-RedWoman
24 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I assume I'm nobody's type anyway so I wouldn't make things harder for myself by scrutinising their verifications!!

Your bloody gorgeous so stop that crap

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By *HUSH-Man
24 weeks ago

London

Verifications to me are just confirmations from others that the person is real. I don’t always read them though.

A bio is the most important thing to me on here. What are they looking for? What are they like?

It’s a great filter.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Sitting on the table

Their body shape is more important to me than the bodies of their previous conquests.

Not sure I'd even bother combing through someone's verifications like that tbh...

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By *HUSH-Man
24 weeks ago

London

I didn’t answer your question 🤦

No it wouldn’t put me off. People can like all different types.

I personally can’t give an answer as to what I’m attracted to. I either feel attraction or I don’t.

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By *vaRoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I tend not to read them, but if their profile states a specific preference for a body type other than mine I wouldn’t bother messaging or replying. Being an exception their rule isn’t a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I do feel a little intimidated if they only meet people who are gym fit and aesthetically, body perfect. I do wonder why they message me, when all I bring is the jelly. 😆

I would probably feel like a compromise. 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I assume I'm nobody's type anyway so I wouldn't make things harder for myself by scrutinising their verifications!!

How can you believe you're nobody's type???"

You haven’t seen her face

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

If they have described someone who looks very different to me as their ideal woman or words that imply that I would feel that I was like an understudy. So yeah, it would put me off.

If all the people they'd met were much younger it would put me off too.

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Mayfair

I wouldn't say it puts me off but it makes me think twice. The verifications are invaluable to me because it gives me an insight to what type of men that woman has met and whether if there's anything above and beyond that I can offer.

I rarely message and therefore it's a moot point...but if I've come across a woman whose profile is majestic in every way but her verifications are exclusively (and intentionally) from tall men or black men, then I become extremely reticent in engaging with her. I don't represent her demographic.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If there were several veries from people the opposite of me ie slim/ much younger ladies, then yes I'd probably not message them or reply to a message from them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

I don't really pay attention as I'm only interested in them being reliable for meeting

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By *amierebelMan
24 weeks ago

My own little world

It’s all about their body’s not who they’ve met to which I don’t even bother to read veri’s

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By * WillisMan
24 weeks ago

London ec2

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By *ansoffateMan
24 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I look at verifications a bit like a Network engineer looks at a honey pot server.

It can indicate a sense of humour though.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"It’s all about their body’s not who they’ve met to which I don’t even bother to read veri’s "

I'm a little different, although I do not find bigger ladies to my liking and my wife is petite as is my GF/fb one of my clients was a married lady with zero confidence at size 22, we got on so well and I did find her attractive and after only a few training sessions ...very unprofessional of me...we just couldn't resist each other and became lovers.

I think the chemistry between two is far more important than body types.

I don't chat that often on here and never read verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

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By *loomy GirlWoman
24 weeks ago

leicester

I’m out off by guys messaging me if all their veri’s are from very slim people.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
24 weeks ago

Wirral

Unless they've expressed a taste for fat birds in their profile I probably wouldn't message first if all their veris were from very fit, very attractive ladies.

If they've messaged me, the physiques of the people in their veris is unlikely to stop me responding. I have some very clear photos showing my size - if they're messaging me I figure they've seen them and know what they're doing!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

I can be put off more by sexual remarks that makes me think maybe we aren't compatible, as for body size if someone had only ever met size 8 women or size 22 women I'd probably wonder if I was their type, but then again we wouldn't be chatting if I wasn't.

Mrs

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