FabSwingers.com forum: Do you like shy people?

By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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I’ve deliberately made this one non gender specific.

Do you like more confident outgoing types on here or does it not matter much?

What are your feelings on your own personality and how it has or hasn’t impacted success on here?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Confidence and extroverted personalities aren’t necessarily the same thing.

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By *emorefridaCouple
12 weeks ago

La la land

I don't actively seek out shy people, but I kind of like shyness in people. Makes them more relatable to myself.

Me personally am massively shy in group situations or being in new environments. But it's something I've worked on recently and I'm loads better than I was. I would say shyness does impact success on Fab, but I'm good with that.

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By *EAT..85Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

I don't not like shy people.

But upon thinking about your question, there are no shy people in any of my social circles.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
12 weeks ago

Bliss

No. Cos I'm kinda a chatty cathy twat and steam roller the conversation. I need people who can say, eh hold up compy, let me get a word In

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't dislike or like someone just because they're shy there has to be more to it.

I have absolutely no idea how my personality has impacted my success. I suspect it's more about the physical than many would be prepared to admit

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
12 weeks ago

kent

Quiet people are often mistaken for being shy, and lacking in confidence. Of course that is true for some, but some of us are just more interested in listening to others, without feeling the need to impose ourselves x

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

Mine is kind of a lack of confidence and not good at starting conversations. I can happily chat with people once its started, but do tend to spend more time listening to others. I'm also very self conscious and funny like to dance or talk loudly in big groups. I'd say looking back now its quite clear I'm probably neuro divergent in many ways and im probably socially anxious but hide it quite well

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Yes, but I couldn’t eat a whole one

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By *oubleswing2019Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

I actively ignore the loud ones and filter out their noise, and listen to the quiet or shy ones.

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By *HUSH-Man
12 weeks ago

London

1. It doesn’t matter too much to me. I do struggle with people that are very shy though but I try and be patient because I have a bit of it myself. It’s a quality that can be endearing if it’s not excessive.

2. My personality is quite introverted. It’s becoming clear that I’m going to have to get out of my comfort zone a lot if I’m to make the most of this place. I’m getting there.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

I'm quite extroverted but I like shy people. They're interesting.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
12 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I'm very shy and introverted. At least on here there is a slight chance of being approached or winked at

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

Depends on in which context we use shy.

I used to be a very shy person at one point. Extreme drop in confidence.

I'm introverted. I don't like large crowds, I do not like to bring too much attention to myself.

I like people that are similar. Those that take time to warm up to a situation.

But complete and total maximum in their hiding away and never speaking up. Just constantly on the side lines with zero confidence at all.

Not really. I have empathy for them but trying to socialise even one on one can be a chore.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales

I wouldn't rule them out because they are shy. However the initial meet up with them would be pretty awkward because I'm very shy initially. So, if you like an awkward AF social, hmu

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

Rubiksville

I'm quite confident once I've got to know the people around me, but generally struggle with initiating conversation

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

"I wouldn't rule them out because they are shy. However the initial meet up with them would be pretty awkward because I'm very shy initially. So, if you like an awkward AF social, hmu

Sounds like my sort of thing lol. Nice big drink so can sip on that whenever there's a quiet spell...

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

If I like a person, I will like them for being themselves and the qualities they exude. Their shyness will have no influence on whether I like them (or not).

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By *sWyldWoman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm actually quite shy at times so I am usually more drawn to people who aren't..

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
12 weeks ago

London

I feel very attracted to shy guys

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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Honestly maybe it’s cultural but nobody sang the song.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.

I need a shy guy.

The kinda guy

That’ll always be mine.

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

South Wales

I do, BUT…as an extremely shy person myself, it can make for awkward first encounters.

I feel more relaxed around more outgoing folk because they tend to carry the conversation and the awkward silences feel less awkward.

And if I fancy someone I get even more shy, and can barely look at them, so it can be a bit of a nightmare.

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

"I feel very attracted to shy guys "

I seem to keep ticking more and more of your boxes....

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

"I do, BUT…as an extremely shy person myself, it can make for awkward first encounters.

I feel more relaxed around more outgoing folk because they tend to carry the conversation and the awkward silences feel less awkward.

And if I fancy someone I get even more shy, and can barely look at them, so it can be a bit of a nightmare.

Sounds exactly like me....

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

I just like people.

Or some people.

I can actually be quite calm & nurturing if someone is shy.

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I just like people.

Or some people.

I can actually be quite calm & nurturing if someone is shy. "

You’re a lovely

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"I just like people.

Or some people.

I can actually be quite calm & nurturing if someone is shy. "

I like people less and less as the days go by

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales

"I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.

I need a shy guy.

The kinda guy

That’ll always be mine. "

Oh lord have mercy...

Have played this over and over!

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.

I need a shy guy.

The kinda guy

That’ll always be mine.

Oh lord have mercy...

Have played this over and over!"

YES! My people!!

I’ve not stopped playing it tonight

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By *cotlad178Man
12 weeks ago

falkirk

I'm shy on first speaking, think I've improved alot speaking to new people in person interms of starting convoy but think I can be a bit bad keeping it going?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, because I'm shy and it's painful having to do all the work 😂 I'm better if I can bounce off someone. Figuratively, not always literally.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.

I need a shy guy.

The kinda guy

That’ll always be mine. "

Tune!!

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By *amierebelMan
12 weeks ago

My own little world

I don’t even like people in general.

Serious though I don’t mind used be super shy many moons ago myself don’t get me wrong first meets a bit a ball ache having make the whole conversation

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not shy but quieter, understated women are hot & energising. Loud , grasping for attention types are draining & turn me off. I like a mix of personalities. I think this lifestyle is great for that.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"I don’t want somebody that’s loving everybody.

I need a shy guy.

The kinda guy

That’ll always be mine.

Tune!!"

Mimi is that you yeah 👀🤩

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By *mmaleiaWoman
12 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’m not shy as such, more socially awkward, I’m fine once I met the person a few times, I’m not great at a social or club to start, even though I go by myself .

I prefer to be with outgoing men

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I’m not shy as such, more socially awkward, I’m fine once I met the person a few times, I’m not great at a social or club to start, even though I go by myself .

I prefer to be with outgoing men "

That's probably more me, I'm socially awkward, I'm very much a people person, and I have 2 variations, either "I'm never going to see these people again, so I can be outrageous" or "I want these people to like me, so need to keep myself in check"

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

The people I've met on here have nearly all been shyer/quieter than their online personality suggests! I don't have a preference when it comes to how outgoing someone is. It's usually someone's sense of humour that draws me in.

I'm fairly quiet and reserved in group settings and open up more 1 to 1. I'm not sure if that's impacted anything on here.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

I can be quiet/shy. People look at me like I'm mad when I say that as I can seem very chatty. But I am by nature a quiet person.

I tend to shy away from very loud people😏

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I dislike the shouty me me me types.

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

I do!

But I am shy too so that can make things a bit difficult

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I do!

But I am shy too so that can make things a bit difficult

You didn't seem shy at the socials I've seen you at

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By *dam1971Man
12 weeks ago

Bedford

Doesn’t matter much to me, it’s nice to find out about people and sometimes that’s harder if they’re outwardly chatty.

Having honest conversations with someone is making ourselves a bit vulnerable, and that’s needed in a relationship and even for just getting naked together.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
12 weeks ago

St Leonards

I'm a sucker for a shy, seemingly unconfident personality that stands its ground on something it holds important.

Often shaking, flustered, and with words coming out mangled and in the wrong order.

But they stand their ground.

I love that.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
12 weeks ago

Stratford

Being shy myself, yes I do

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By *idden gemMan
12 weeks ago

sale

Nothing wrong with be shy it take a while for someone to come out of there shell it's easier if they aren't but at the same time when someone is shy and starts coming out of there shell with makes it more Intermet personally

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Always been strangely drawn to the shy ones. There’s definitely a side to them waiting to burst out once the bedroom door closes in my experience 😛

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By *he AmbassadorMan
12 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Don't they say ,, it's always the shy or quiet ones you need to watch out for,,

So never judge a book by it's cover,,

I myself am shy enough, cough cough,

, so of course I like shy people.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
12 weeks ago

cardiff

I prefer shy people to overly confident people.

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By *usie pTV/TS
12 weeks ago

taunton

yes

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By *idnight RamblerMan
12 weeks ago

Pershore

Yes. Still waters run deep as they say.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

As a shy introvert I'm not put off by shyness.

Mrs

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By *aughtynorthern1Man
12 weeks ago

Carlisle

I like thoughtful types who don't feel they have to be loud or extrovert. Find them calmer to spend time with.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
12 weeks ago

Dartford

As an alarmingly shy in real life kinda guy, I much prefer the quieter type, but sometimes it's nice to have a more extroverted other to bring things out

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I like shy men

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Inverclyde

As a shy person (really I mean in the spectrum) I prefer people who don’t need to talk every second of each day.

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