FabSwingers.com forum: Do you like fat men?

By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

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Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

On Holibobs

Not at all. It's facial attraction, personality and skillset that's important. Loads of popular guys in the clubs have larger dads bods, the ladies love that they can make them orgasm, not whether he can do the truffle shuffle

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

One of my partners is the heavier end of dad bod. He's still fucking beautiful to me 💜

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By *hilloutMan
11 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

Physical attractiveness heavily influences your chances on here. It most certainly gets your foot in the door. How one makes use of that opportunity will dictate success. So yes, I believe men who ate not physically in shape will have a tougher time.

I'm very happy with how I look just being shy of 50. Then again, I do ascribe to the notion that my body is a temple, and I treat it as such

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I personally love men with a bit more to them.

My type seems to be rugby player more than gym bod.

More to kiss, more to touch.

It really all does come down personalities in the end.

I'm attracted to personality more than what a body looks like. X

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By *asterfulsoulMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Ignoring the "define success" voice that's screaming in the back of my mind: yes, somewhat. All else equal, a more conventionally attractive body type probably "does better" - especially since many people are looking for a stunt cock, so they aren't necessarily looking too deeply.

I like my body 🙂 it's pretty great. I get to do almost everything I fantasise about, given enough patience and perseverance. I could do with losing some weight, and I could do some more exercise, but that's a "I want to see my kids grow up" thing, not a body image thing.

Enough other people like my body, or are just not that interested in what it looks like. The only thing I'm missing out on is an easier "first page of top fabbed" pic I guess? They can have that.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

Ailsa is not attracted to over weight men. Neither is she attracted to gym fit men with muscles and six packs, or hairless men regardless of their body type. Show her photos of any of the above, and she will shrug and say, so what? However. Personality trumps body type every time. Meet her in person, be authentically kind, talkative, flirty and make her laugh, and she may well find you attractive, regardless of your size.

As for me, and how I feel? Illness over the last few years has taken a toll. I am not as lean or as strong as I was, and this has eroded my confidence a little bit. I keep trying to get myself back to where I was, but both time and willpower is in short supply at the moment. Maybe next year will be different. Xx

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By *londebiguyMan
11 weeks ago

Southport

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

If I like someones face and smile then I don't really care about chubbiness. That can be enough to interest means I find them attractive.

Then there is chemistry too.

That can take it to a whole other level.

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

nah i dont think it does women love personality humour... you could look like a male model with a ripped body,, but dull as dish water

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"nah i dont think it does women love personality humour... you could look like a male model with a ripped body,, but dull as dish water"

I do love personality and humour, but without physical attraction it means nothing. Same as good looks without personality means nothing.

And I'm attracted to the fitter guys, I want those v-lines!

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By *orleneWoman
11 weeks ago

lancashire

i love larger men dad bod ..big men hell yes

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By *viatrixWoman
11 weeks ago

Redhill

No, I thought I’d open my mind and try to be attracted to men bigger than I like… I felt terrible afterwards.

You like what you like. There’s the physical attraction and the chemistry and rapport. For me it has to be slim men. Not necessarily athletic/muscly/Charles Atlas/Arnie. Slim is gorgeous

Many fat men do very well in here (I am using the word “fat” because that is what is used in the original post)

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By *parkle1974Woman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

No it doesn't.

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

One of my longest relationships was with a bigger guy. It was never a thing. I loved him for him. Much like I hope someone would love me for me. We are all far more than our clothes size.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
11 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm a well built gentleman with a love of ale and good pork pies. Its never seemed a barrier to me as a single guy on the scene or as part of a couple. I would say I've done well on here over the years.

I think sometimes people triage the wrong attributes on here to lack of success (or even subconsciously take comfort in scapegoating physical attributes for character attributes). The reason I say this after years on the club scene there are certain gents that clean up. Now I'm not saying looking easy on the eye doesn't help. However body size, shape, size of cock etc doesn't seem to be the common denominator. Self assured confidence (not in an arrogant way), character and charm is the thing that seems to win the day. Often the guys who consistently clean up have this and tend to be all different builds and ages.

So I would say to any larger gent you are attractive and desirable if you want be. Worry less about your shape and build and more about how you present yourself, present your profile and how you interact with others. Because on here and on the scene there are some larger gents who always dress great, are confident and awesome with people. And those gents do very well and are held in high regard. Don't see your body as a barrier.

Mr Misfit

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By *EAT..85Woman
11 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

Of course it does. Lots of people like what they like.

I prefer less fat men as I'm fat and one of us needs to be fit and bendy around the other. I also like tallER men so that I feel smaller in some way!

But with the natural development of friendships in person, these things matter less.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’m partial to a man who likes his puddings

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

I'm not fat but I can eat a lot. However I never seem to put weight on. Does that count??

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton

It all very much depends on the person and whether there's chemistry...

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton

"I'm not fat but I can eat a lot. However I never seem to put weight on. Does that count?? "

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By *HUSH-Man
11 weeks ago

London

1) FAB isn’t as superficial as some of the other apps out there but I would say that I see a lot of profiles asking for muscular ripped physiques. So I think it likely is more difficult.

2) I love my body. I put a lot of effort into it. I do it because I enjoy it though. Playing sports, combat ones in particular and just generally feeling fit and strong feels great. It’s great for my mental health too. The endorphins post boxing/ jiu jitsu are 👍

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

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Thank you for the responses so far. Very interesting.

I think I’ve recently started to feel that regardless of whether it matters to women or not, I love myself and my appearance enough to not be bothered. But I do find it interesting to consider the way that this site, with such a strong focus on physical attraction and sex, tends to favour particular characteristics in people. And how it plays out in the forums is interesting to see.

Of course weight is one. But I think particular personalities do better on here too. That’s for another thread though.

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By *hunky GentMan
11 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We don't tend to have cake and biscuits handy - just saying.

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By *ary69321Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Now it's called having a dad bod, I'm in that bracket, I think the majority of women will say they don't mind, I don't think that true at all, If a woman has a choice between me and a guy with a six pack, the guy with a six pack will win every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

100% but we move.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

Probably does, and it probably also goes the other way, where very slim men might also struggle.

At the end of the day, fab is what you make of it. Don't let it impact you more than a morning poo - Confucius

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

If I like the man then I will like his body it's that simple

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

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By *hunky GentMan
11 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We have to be this big to fit all the sexiness inside.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me"

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈"

Oh I am

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏"

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to"

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x"

OK il stop

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

OK il stop

On second thoughts keep going 🤣

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

OK il stop

On second thoughts keep going 🤣"

Typical male 🤣🤣

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

OK il stop

On second thoughts keep going 🤣

Typical male 🤣🤣"

Tried sending a friend request but I'm too young apparently lol

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By *oxy-RedWoman
11 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

OK il stop

On second thoughts keep going 🤣

Typical male 🤣🤣

Tried sending a friend request but I'm too young apparently lol"

Hmmmm I shall add you

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I'm comfortable being a bigger guy.

If a woman finds me sexy then lucky me

Omg them eyes,I may have just drooled a little

By all means, drool away 😈

Oh I am

If you fancy drooling over me you're welcome 😏

I am drooling over you ,those eyes would make a Nun drop her knickers

And the rest of you is mighty fine to

Oh stop it you'll make me blush x

OK il stop

On second thoughts keep going 🤣

Typical male 🤣🤣

Tried sending a friend request but I'm too young apparently lol

Hmmmm I shall add you"

Apparently I can't message you apparently I changed my age haha

"You can't change your age then mail someone who had previously age-blocked you. Sorry.x

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By *ensual DesiresMan
11 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "
i think it does impact your chances, it's not as acceptable for a man to be chunky as it is a woman. Most just see a big man and think yuck

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By *ensual DesiresMan
11 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"I'm not fat but I can eat a lot. However I never seem to put weight on. Does that count?? "
lucky sod, i eat next to nothing and I'm chunky

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I think the answer will always be sometimes.

For me it’s not a factor I measure someone’s attractiveness on, as I find all sorts of body type attractive.

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By *iker JackMan
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

My body is my body

If I wanted and had the inclination to change it then I would.

The truth is it doesn’t really matter what other people think and want for something you can’t have or they don’t want

If you are happy in yourself then that shows or can show that youre allowing others to like you.

For me self doubt can be crippling and that will effect how you act around others

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By *bwlady123Woman
11 weeks ago

private

Have to say I prefer a dad body over a gym fit guy. Think cause I’m big myself I feel more comfortable around more fuller figure gyms

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think it’s quite low down on the list for most women I’ve met on here. Personality, face and charm is way more important and very few women I know are into gym bodies - some like them but not in place of personality or face.

I think being obese for a guy cuts down the chances but having dad bod or a bit overweight doesn’t really - unless it affects self-confidence & personality.

I keep my mind and body in great shape, but that’s for me not to increase my chances.

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By *oofy321Man
11 weeks ago

moon base zero

Im fat with the added bonus of being ugly but I have had some meets so I guess it doesn't matter im happy being someone's kink lol x

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
11 weeks ago

Markfield

If he’s uncomfortable with himself then it’s likely I will be uncomfortable in his company.

I’m a big girl, obese, fat, curvy, whatever. But I’ve reached a stage in life where I am comfortable with how I feel when naked with someone else. I’ve had several “larger than average in BMI bedmates” and have absolutely enjoyed every single ounce of ‘em and not one of those men was apologetically uncomfortable with their appearance.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

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"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? i think it does impact your chances, it's not as acceptable for a man to be chunky as it is a woman. Most just see a big man and think yuck"

In society, I’d disagree. The pressures on women around their bodies and weight are more than for men in my opinion. But this thread isn’t about that.

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

I think it could, sure. Some women are only attracted to a particular physique and that's fair enough.

For me? I don't really care about someone's body size/weight, bar any extremes. What I do care about? How someone feels. Acts, as in how comfortable they are with their body. If it affects how they are when with someone. I like when people have a low key self confidence, when they're comfortable and confident in who they are. That's very attractive to me.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

Ends

"Im fat with the added bonus of being ugly but I have had some meets so I guess it doesn't matter im happy being someone's kink lol x"

You’re not ugly.

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By *igjonny090Man
11 weeks ago

blackpool and Manchester

I’ve had some success on here, but it’s few and far between and I do think if I wasn’t fat I’d have a lot more success

Important thing is to just be true to myself and not let rejection get me down

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I like some fat / chunky men, but it's about the individual.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"I like some fat / chunky men, but it's about the individual."

I find it's more about confidence than how they actually look

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By *carlettsWoman
11 weeks ago

Harpenden

I'm not a fan of obese or guys with a massive belly but a little extra to jiggle doesn't bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Thank you for the responses so far. Very interesting.

Of course weight is one. But I think particular personalities do better on here too. That’s for another thread though. "

I'd like to hear your thoughts on what personalities thet are. X

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By *enherts32Man
11 weeks ago

welwyn gerden city

I used to be skinny . Never liked myself like that . I looked ill . Feel so much more comfortable being a big guy . I also like food so it's a win win . Not for everyone I know but I couldn't care less .

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By *uriousscouserWoman
11 weeks ago

Wirral

People are people and some will always want the shredded muscular type of bloke.

I'm less attracted to body type and more attracted to the person, but I do have limits.

If a guy is extremely heavy it can cause me issues as I am extremely fat so it can be like two weebles trying to have sex.

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By *orders-cplCouple
11 weeks ago

middx cpl

love a guy with a good size tummy xx

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think how I look will impact the chances of someone liking me depending upon their perspective.

Honestly, I think the question most pertinent to me is: am I prepared to try and change how I look to get someone (or some generalised concept of people) to like me?

Personally, I think if I was running with the generalised concept I'd drive myself potty.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Despite how it may seem I am not confident about my body.

Neither my wife nor my gf like men that are overweight though.

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

I'm comfortable with my body but wouldn't mind putting on a bit more weight

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By *orthampton jamesMan
11 weeks ago

Northampton

I've lost a bit of weight in the last year, still coming in at just over 12 stone, not really sure what I'm classed as but I was called a dad bod the other day 😀

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By *tticusukMan
11 weeks ago

Formby

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

Some people like men who have more cushion.

Personally I love my body but I spend a good 16 hours a week working on it.

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By *ichardHereMan
11 weeks ago

London

Yeah. An overweight guy will have less luck than a muscular guy given all other things equal. Women are evolutionary hardwired to find physically incapable men more attractive.

The same is true for women, though guys are much more likely to sleep with women they find physically unattractive than the other way around, leading many women to believe that their weight makes no difference to their attractiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

No.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
11 weeks ago

Dartford

Not fat men no, but larger men make me hot. They don't need to be muscly at all, just taller and stocky or with a dad bod is good.

Mrs x

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By *urry BlokeMan
11 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Try being a fat, older, short, bi bloke

You get to have fellas knock you back as well as women

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By *ubikslongswordMan
11 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Not fat men no, but larger men make me hot. They don't need to be muscly at all, just taller and stocky or with a dad bod is good.

Mrs x"

Hi there 😎

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

I'am the total opposite, ( slim ) i struggle to put weight on, never lose weight, always stay the same, never go to the gym just really lucky with my body, you would think women would be fighting over the 6 pack, but you will be surprised by how many women don't like it and do in-fact like the dad bod, so just keep doing what you are doing, it is all in the eyes of the beholder

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By *hat.coupleCouple
11 weeks ago

Dartford

"Not fat men no, but larger men make me hot. They don't need to be muscly at all, just taller and stocky or with a dad bod is good.

Mrs x

Hi there 😎"

very mice build x, I'm more of a one man women I'm afraid. My husband is more than enough man for me 😍

It's all about the ladies for me x

Mrs x

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By *agic.MMan
11 weeks ago

Orpington

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

I think my body's alright...it's functional, gets me from A to B...and where I need to be 🤭

Ladies seem to enjoy it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

My OH is tall and dad bod and hot as hell to me ... can't keep my hands off him

I am also curvy and ample and he adores my body.

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London

"Do you think on a site like fab, being fat or chubby impacts your chances of success?

And men, how do you feel about your body? "

I don't know about (1). I'm not chubby, but I guess it can affect some people's chances with some people. Much like other physical characteristics, but most threads I see say being a bit bigger isn't that much of an issue for most.

(2) I have a mixed relationship with my body. I objectively know it's fine, and I'm in good health. But I'm also pretty self-critical and would never say I'm "happy" with it.

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

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By *mf123Man
11 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I feel fine about my body tar appart from old age making old injuries flare up from time to time im not in the shape i was 2 or 3 years ago but thats cos i dont work hard anymore im no longer trying to win so its all good

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By *ceKweenWoman
11 weeks ago

Bolton

You never know whom you are attracted to until face to face but visually, I’m attracted to men with a dad bod 😊

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I don't particularly like my body but it's what I've got, and it's a result of lifestyle I enjoy so can't complain!

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By *avej500Man
11 weeks ago

Stevenage

Old number 8 by her

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I'm not happy with it, but I really struggle with new routines and keeping them. I'm trying my best, but I think I need help with getting into shape.

I don't really want to join a gym though, because I've found the concept extremely boring and monotonous. So I'm not sure what to do. 🤔

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By *ildTimes.Man
11 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"I'm not happy with it, but I really struggle with new routines and keeping them. I'm trying my best, but I think I need help with getting into shape.

I don't really want to join a gym though, because I've found the concept extremely boring and monotonous. So I'm not sure what to do. 🤔"

Have you tried the keto diet?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Have you tried the keto diet? "

It's more the motivation than the methods. I have ADHD, so my dopamine and energy levels are super low all the time. It's a struggle to even sort out day-to-day nonsense, without adding more into the mix.

Besides, I know what works. Exercise and eating less. No need for special diets or expensive memberships to diet clubs.

I've actually done it before, last year. Lost a stone in the first month, purely eating less, drinking more water and walking more.

Went for about 3 months and then just stopped for no reason. As if I forgot all about it and reverted back to the previous lifestyle lol.

I know I can do it, but I don't know if I can ever reach the weight/size I want, given how shit I am at doing things for extended periods of time. 🤨

So yeah, it's a bit different to the average person's desire to lose weight. 😆

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By *ora the explorerWoman
11 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

If I’m honest no I’m probably not attracted to really fat men. I don’t like myself much when I’m fat either though.

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By *ebel just for kickssWoman
11 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"nah i dont think it does women love personality humour... you could look like a male model with a ripped body,, but dull as dish water

I do love personality and humour, but without physical attraction it means nothing. Same as good looks without personality means nothing.

And I'm attracted to the fitter guys, I want those v-lines! "

What she said ^

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By *hat.coupleCouple
11 weeks ago

Dartford

"Have you tried the keto diet?

Besides, I know what works. Exercise and eating less. No need for special diets or expensive memberships to diet clubs.

I've actually done it before, last year. Lost a stone in the first month, purely eating less, drinking more water and walking more.

Went for about 3 months and then just stopped for no reason. As if I forgot all about it and reverted back to the previous lifestyle lol.

I know I can do it, but I don't know if I can ever reach the weight/size I want, given how shit I am at doing things for extended periods of time. 🤨

So yeah, it's a bit different to the average person's desire to lose weight. 😆"

I was the same, ate for the dopamine, no willpower to stick at anything due to ADHD. Ended up having gastric sleeve surgery to stop myself overeating. That was a year ago and I've lost almost 8 stone, I've not looked back once. Best thing I ever did besides marrying my husband and having kids x

Mrs x

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By *HUSH-Man
11 weeks ago

London

"I'm not happy with it, but I really struggle with new routines and keeping them. I'm trying my best, but I think I need help with getting into shape.

I don't really want to join a gym though, because I've found the concept extremely boring and monotonous. So I'm not sure what to do. 🤔"

My advice is to join something with a community aspect to it. CrossFit is highly successful because it offers variety and the social side.

Working out on your own in a commercial gym is quite boring to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"I was the same, ate for the dopamine, no willpower to stick at anything due to ADHD. Ended up having gastric sleeve surgery to stop myself overeating. That was a year ago and I've lost almost 8 stone, I've not looked back once. Best thing I ever did besides marrying my husband and having kids x

Mrs x"

I'm totally with you on that. I comfort eat, to just feel something occasionally. 😂

Hoping with some new potentially fun things on the horizon, that I can at least break out a little from the routines I've gotten glued into. And before this cough got worse, I did actually start to think positively and walked 11 miles.

So I think it's there, but it's the keeping with it. Eventually it always stops, every time without fail. That's not negative thinking, it's just the truth lol.

Aw, well I'm glad that it worked out for you! That's amazing you've lost so much and it's improving your life. 😊

I need to lose about 4 stone, I think. But I'd also like a little muscle, not shirt off at every opportunity sort of muscle, but enough to regain the natural strength I have. I used to be extremely strong for my size and I kinda miss that.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"My advice is to join something with a community aspect to it. CrossFit is highly successful because it offers variety and the social side.

Working out on your own in a commercial gym is quite boring to be honest."

That's actually not a bad idea at all. I do love socialising and maybe having others around could help keep up with the routine.

I've recently come out of a 3-month depression, so I do want to capitalise on feeling better. This cough hasn't helped either and started just as I began to get out again lol.

I'm trying to get back out with my mate and her dogs for walks, because I do love that. We go off-road a lot and it's a damn good workout, mostly uphill and getting caked in shit.

It's just getting better and then activating that part of my brain to get on with it. 😅

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

South Wales

I like all types of men, if I fancy them

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By *tu.xMan
11 weeks ago

around

I'm ok with my body not perfect never as been never will be for 50 plus plus it'll do. some like it some not so much and I'm good with that. I'm not a gym nut just do enough to stay in some kinda shape

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
11 weeks ago

Bedale

Larger men can succeed here, to a point.

There isn't however the same diversity of what constitutes attractive in men with respect to women. No woman is looking for a BBM, it's not a thing. There is pretty much an ISO standard and how far you deviate from it is going to substantially impact your options.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"Not at all. It's facial attraction, personality and skillset that's important. Loads of popular guys in the clubs have larger dads bods, the ladies love that they can make them orgasm, not whether he can do the truffle shuffle

Agree with this entirely

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

Ends

"I like all types of men, if I fancy them

I think we should just bang this out.

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

South Wales

"I like all types of men, if I fancy them

I think we should just bang this out. "

Damn right

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By *ittyDaggerWoman
11 weeks ago

Near Taunton

Do I think it affects it? Maybe.

That said, I don’t personally mind a persons body type. Weight is only one aspect of presentation, and while I appreciate someone being well presented that can look like many different things.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

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"I like all types of men, if I fancy them

I think we should just bang this out.

Damn right

Step into my office

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP Man
11 weeks ago

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"Do I think it affects it? Maybe.

That said, I don’t personally mind a persons body type. Weight is only one aspect of presentation, and while I appreciate someone being well presented that can look like many different things. "

I hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I think there has to be an initial physical attraction - fat, thin or imbetween. But after that, personality and humour either makes that initial attraction enhanced or detracts from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Larger men can succeed here, to a point.

I think there’s some truth there

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By *ildTimes.Man
11 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Have you tried the keto diet?

Besides, I know what works. Exercise and eating less. No need for special diets or expensive memberships to diet clubs.

I've actually done it before, last year. Lost a stone in the first month, purely eating less, drinking more water and walking more.

Went for about 3 months and then just stopped for no reason. As if I forgot all about it and reverted back to the previous lifestyle lol.

I know I can do it, but I don't know if I can ever reach the weight/size I want, given how shit I am at doing things for extended periods of time. 🤨

So yeah, it's a bit different to the average person's desire to lose weight. 😆"

Keto has been shown to be beneficial for dopamine levels and overall mood, might be worth you looking into,

It's a very easy way of eating that doesn't take much effort and improves your physical and mental well being, I wouldn't completely dismiss it if I were you.

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By *andsomeunitMan
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm a bigger 'fat' bloke and honestly the only person I need to be comfortable with is myself.

Everyone has a so called type. It doesn't have to be looks, it can be based on humour.

I decided last year I needed to change for me, not anyone else, but me. So a year on I'm 10 and a half stone lighter.

Yes, I'm still a big bloke. I want to lose another 5 or 6 stone.

No, my body pictures on my profile are not updated yet.

Am I comfortable though??? Physically It's taking a while to discover the new me, I must say.

Do get attention on here? Yes maybe a little bit.

Will I go out and physically look for it, probably not, I'll let my personality do the talking.

Once your comfortable in yourself and with yourself, you portray confidence. No matternwho you are.

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By *irty-pairCouple
10 weeks ago

Essex

I’ve always been on the larger side. Would I like to be slimmer? Absolutely? Have I done anything about it? Yes.

I’m married to the woman of my dreams, and since we’ve been on here, I’ve met quite a few gorgeous women, so I can’t be that bad.

We’ve been naturists for about 20 years and swinging for two and a half. What both have taught me is attractive people come in all shapes and sizes. Personality and confidence goes an awfully long way.

I’m pretty body confident, and I enjoy getting naked in social or play situations. I might be self conscious in a room full of tall, six-pack wearing Adonises, but I think I stand up OK against most normal guys.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

What do you think, Pickle?

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

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I like personalities

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I'm as guilty as most but it seems that our own body hangups are rarely ones that hold us back...

Blokes worried about penis size or dad bods. Women obsessing about boob size, stretch marks or getting older...

We need a daily reminder to love ourselves as other love us. We often get in the way of our own happiness through fear of what others may think and don't find those that think we're awesome.

Oh, and just in case you have any self-doubt today... Yeah, you'd get it!

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
10 weeks ago

Always on the move

I've read more profiles stating that "gym fit" or "toned" being the preferred body type of choice than anything else.

Just my two pence...

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I've read more profiles stating that "gym fit" or "toned" being the preferred body type of choice than anything else.

Just my two pence..."

I'm not their tribe...

I think there is a great peace to be found in learning to love yourself. And whether it's a universe thing or my reticular activator, since doing that I am finding more of what I want and that which seems to want what I bring to the table.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
10 weeks ago

London

"I'm not fat but I can eat a lot. However I never seem to put weight on. Does that count?? "

I hate you

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
10 weeks ago

London

I adore big bears 🔥

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"I adore big bears 🔥"

Grrrrr!

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By *art50tMan
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Almost 3 months on here, and unfortunately, I experience only refusal from women blocked or ignored. Women don't like cubby guys like me or there is something wrong in me. That's my personal experience so far.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
9 weeks ago

Home

"Almost 3 months on here, and unfortunately, I experience only refusal from women blocked or ignored. Women don't like cubby guys like me or there is something wrong in me. That's my personal experience so far."
or maybe just a thought it might be your profile pic that isn't helping you

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By *r 2 pumpsMan
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Everyone has different tastes, I'm neither fat nor thin . Having a nice face definitely helps but not always lol

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By *ornyRebel88Man
9 weeks ago

Fermoy

Messaged someone earlier and the response I got was ‘very fat’ and a block. Cowardly and unnecessary.

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By *r 2 pumpsMan
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Messaged someone earlier and the response I got was ‘very fat’ and a block. Cowardly and unnecessary. "

No need is there !

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By *ornyRebel88Man
9 weeks ago

Fermoy

"Messaged someone earlier and the response I got was ‘very fat’ and a block. Cowardly and unnecessary.

No need is there !"
she was lucky she blocked me so quickly as I wasn’t going to be as polite as she was in my reply!

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By *art50tMan
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A knob pics didn't help eater. I put my face and same story. Don't know, really. I have already self confidence issues,been with the same woman for 18 years, and have never been with anyone else. It's getting so frustrating. I don't know what to think.

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