FabSwingers.com forum: What do you do

Leeds

With repeated viewers. People who view your profile frequently without even as much as a message or wink. Even when you don't upload anything for a while. I've had some that view multiple times a day with no interaction. Personally I just block them after so long

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By *ack FrostyMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Nothing. I do nothing.

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By *agerMorganMan
3 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Just ignore it, maybe something they like but don’t have the courage to message etc.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I smile, and say out loud that I never did care about the little things.

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Can’t say I’d even notice let alone care

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By *ernow1982Man
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

I get the same few men who keep peeking, although they're blocked from messaging me lol.

I like to pretend their memories are bad (like mine) and just leave them to it. Doesn't bother me whatsoever.

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By *an1978Woman
3 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I did it before.. to act like a shy smile in a bar...

Instead i got a block... I was gutted as I fancied him a lot but was too shy to send the first message lol.

If I get someone I don't want attention from, maybe I may consider blocking, but generally I leave them be, or if they've caught my eye i may say hello.

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By *runette n JayCouple
3 weeks ago

bilston

Well we look at profiles depending on our moods/wants at the time.

So we shortlist and will look a few times.

Blocking could burn bridges! 🔥 🌉

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

If they're just a normal looking account, nothing. I just assume they're enjoying the content but wish to do so privately, which is absolutely fine.

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I've always just felt it was a bit rude. I only have message filters for new people. But even those who match what I'm looking for will get blocked. Like they're just staring from a distance, watching everything I do

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By *tsJustKateWoman
3 weeks ago

London

Why do anything??

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

I think hmmmm and then move on ..

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
3 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t even look at my viewers. Or winks. Or friend requests.

I simply don’t care. Let them view. It alters my life in no way. If it improves 5 minutes of theirs…. Bonus.

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By *batMan
3 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Personally, I quite like it when pet look at my pics. But then I’m quite the exhibitionist aren’t I?

Anyone want to see some Friends Only? Pique my interest and I’ll share some private pics too.

Gbat

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I think of them as the same as those who message then ignore your response, then message a few days later with exact same message and ignore your response

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By *ndy8440Man
3 weeks ago

Jarrow

I would love to just get 1 viewer never mind repetitive ones.

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By *oomerangboyMan
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

More than half a dozen views in a week, you’re doing well lol, take it as a compliment and if you get a message billy bonus !

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By *ndy8440Man
3 weeks ago

Jarrow

I would love to just get 1 viewer never mind repetitive ones.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

If I like the look of them I message them...I find they soon disappear after that..

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By *innocioMan
3 weeks ago

barnard Castle

I usually end up viewing the same profiles over and again I'm clumsy as buggery with my phone screen it's to sensitive

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t even look who viewed me. Never have. Most people are in ninja mode anyway

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I wonder what the appeal of a fat chested man is 🤔

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

It’s not something I check

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By *ucka39Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Have a peek back, so it turns into a peekaboo 🤣😂

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I'll let you know when it happens

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

The last time I blocked someone for it was after I sent them a message because they would view almost every day and they ignored me. Are they interested or do the think they recognise me? What's the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Leave them to do what they do

Doesn't bother me at all.

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Leave them to do what they do

Doesn't bother me at all. "

You're dazzling body brings them in

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"Leave them to do what they do

Doesn't bother me at all.

You're dazzling body brings them in

Not my personality? 🤣

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Leave them to do what they do

Doesn't bother me at all.

You're dazzling body brings them in

Not my personality? 🤣"

Look first, get to know later

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
3 weeks ago

London

Nothing. My silver membership ran out though so I wouldn't notice anyway, not that I check who's viewed anyway.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

Do nada. Its free to look.

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Alright then what about people ignore your message even though it is a response to theirs? They say something like how you doing, I respond great thanks you, then that just gets ignored. Then they say the same shit again a week or so later. Same message, I respond similar and ignored again. Most ignore because they aren't interested, that's fine. But they messaged first. I hadn't interacted with them at all before their message. This has happened 3 times in the past month

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"Alright then what about people ignore your message even though it is a response to theirs? They say something like how you doing, I respond great thanks you, then that just gets ignored. Then they say the same shit again a week or so later. Same message, I respond similar and ignored again. Most ignore because they aren't interested, that's fine. But they messaged first. I hadn't interacted with them at all before their message. This has happened 3 times in the past month"

Those ones who just resend the same message without acknowledging your response will basically never get their messages read ever again.

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By *Silver-Man
3 weeks ago

Mold

Doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

take it as a compliment

happens to h all the time

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

it doesnt bother me tbh

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By *ather WickmasMan
3 weeks ago

The Continental

Let them look.

That’s the point of uploading stuff. For people to look at.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nothing.

If we minded people looking at our photos, we’d not put them on.

And if they want to get in touch, they know where we are.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
3 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"Have a peek back, so it turns into a peekaboo 🤣😂"

Same!!

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By *osey WalesMan
3 weeks ago

Surrey

"I did it before.. to act like a shy smile in a bar...

Instead i got a block... I was gutted as I fancied him a lot but was too shy to send the first message lol.

If I get someone I don't want attention from, maybe I may consider blocking, but generally I leave them be, or if they've caught my eye i may say hello."

Same

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Nothing. Unless it's someone we aren't into, then we block.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Dartford

Nothing, our profile is open to view so we aren't surprised when it gets viewed............simples!

Mrs x

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, where do I begin?

You have a lot to learn about the wondrous intricacies and idiosyncrasies if Fåb.

Don't let such trivial things concern you. Embrace the views and let them ogle at your profile. People have done worse things to be blocked.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

Darwen

Doesn't bother me in the slightest

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Block them. It's a bit creepy

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

Doesn't bother me x

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
3 weeks ago

Wales

Don't go there

Excessive views with little interactions make me VERY anxious as I found out yesterday

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I have no problem with people viewing. But when I happen to look at previous viewers and see the same profile appearing between others several times it's a bit wierd. If you're not interested don't look. If you are message or even a wink will be fine. Can't be too nervous with over 30 verifications by meeting. Surely there's only so much of one profile you need to see before deciding if you're interested or not. What's going to change in an hour that'll sway one way or the other? When it spans over several days it's even more weird. Makes me paranoid and a bit uncomfortable

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By *reggSausageMan
3 weeks ago

derby

What if they are miles away and just have you on the hotlist for the purpose of perving at time specimens of deliciousness, there’s a lady in London who I look at when she posts new material, I often message her to say ‘bravo good work’ and I always get a thank you back, manners cost nothing, absolutely no chance of ever meeting but I will still look, that’s the point of the hotlist surely

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"What if they are miles away and just have you on the hotlist for the purpose of perving at time specimens of deliciousness, there’s a lady in London who I look at when she posts new material, I often message her to say ‘bravo good work’ and I always get a thank you back, manners cost nothing, absolutely no chance of ever meeting but I will still look, that’s the point of the hotlist surely "

But it's even when I haven't been posting anything. There's nothing on my profile to make others want to hotlist or anything like that. When I do upload stuff, it's more or less the same stuff as I already have. And one of the more recent one's I blocked was a couple in Leeds who would view almost every day

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By *runette n JayCouple
3 weeks ago

bilston

Another point...

We may view your profile over and over if you use the forum, especially across different topics and trying to remember who is who.

You are over thinking it

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By *uri00620Woman
3 weeks ago

Croydon

Even giving this a second thought would be too much effort. I'd just move on.

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By *he return of me OP Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Another point...

We may view your profile over and over if you use the forum, especially across different topics and trying to remember who is who.

You are over thinking it "

Don't think anyone from forums has viewed. But when I see that someone viewed constantly and then go to work and someone makes a comment on my dick when that's pretty much the only type of content I upload, then obviously I am going to be paranoid

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I have no problem with people viewing. But when I happen to look at previous viewers and see the same profile appearing between others several times it's a bit wierd. If you're not interested don't look. If you are message or even a wink will be fine. Can't be too nervous with over 30 verifications by meeting. Surely there's only so much of one profile you need to see before deciding if you're interested or not. What's going to change in an hour that'll sway one way or the other? When it spans over several days it's even more weird. Makes me paranoid and a bit uncomfortable"

They were just having a wank OP 🤷‍♂️

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

Nothing. They obviously like something so I just leave them be.

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