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Whose worse men or women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have little desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

This can't be quantified because everyone differs. There's no hard and fast rule regarding who has the more outrageous fantasies or sexual tastes across genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women by far a common guy one is just 2 women....I think women like the whole mental image and find the fantasy a turn on the kinkier the better but i think we are less likely to play some things out then men are,men tend to be easier

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


" Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?"

Or is this what men think/hope women want. Tbh a couple are totally abhorent to me.

But I have other fantasies

Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

Or is this what men think/hope women want. Tbh a couple are totally abhorent to me.

But I have other fantasies

Red"

I'm just going by my experiences of women I've spoken to in the past.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


" Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

Or is this what men think/hope women want. Tbh a couple are totally abhorent to me.

But I have other fantasies

Red

I'm just going by my experiences of women I've spoken to in the past."

Ah but you know how we women are lol

You will find a mixture of men and women who could take any of you points and adjust it to their gender. Variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have little desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?"

I think you'll find very few women fantasise about being raped, you added that like it was a everyday thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have little desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

I think you'll find very few women fantasise about being raped, you added that like it was a everyday thing "

I guess I just bumped into those select few, or bring out the worst in a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

Or is this what men think/hope women want. Tbh a couple are totally abhorent to me.

But I have other fantasies

Red"

Care to share?

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


" Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

Or is this what men think/hope women want. Tbh a couple are totally abhorent to me.

But I have other fantasies

Red

Care to share?"

Would love to tell you my fantasies honey, but seeing as your profile states you are not interested in anyone over 38, I dont really want to be supplying you with todger tugging material... have you tried google, I`ve heard its a very good search engine

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have liuttle desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?"

As a previous poster said its hard to quantify. "One man's meat is another man's poison" can equally be applied to women...

All that it is limited to is the owners lust, unshockability and imagination. True more men appreciate visuals and more women like a tapestry weaving for them, but other than that the sky's the limit.

Fortunately having an imagination and using it to the pleasure of woman is something I adore doing... I love encouraging taboos to be indulged in, for boundaries not merely to be broken but smashed to smithereens and the pieces ground to powder beneath my boots.

Plus the look upon a woman's face when explores a new pleasure and finds to her delight that Madam likes.... That is worth it alone.

So Id say neither sex is more adventurous than the other, they merely require different stimuli to flick the switch that says 'I do believe I'll like this'...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't understand the question.... 'worst'?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

or 'worse' even.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have little desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?"

Could be easier to understand if you thought in terms of personality type instead of gender divides.

Any fantasy can apply to any gender.

Personally I find the idea of being used as a 'fuck toy' totally repugnant.

Rape isn't exactly sanitary in reality either.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have liuttle desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?

As a previous poster said its hard to quantify. "One man's meat is another man's poison" can equally be applied to women...

All that it is limited to is the owners lust, unshockability and imagination. True more men appreciate visuals and more women like a tapestry weaving for them, but other than that the sky's the limit.

Fortunately having an imagination and using it to the pleasure of woman is something I adore doing... I love encouraging taboos to be indulged in, for boundaries not merely to be broken but smashed to smithereens and the pieces ground to powder beneath my boots.

Plus the look upon a woman's face when explores a new pleasure and finds to her delight that Madam likes.... That is worth it alone.

So Id say neither sex is more adventurous than the other, they merely require different stimuli to flick the switch that says 'I do believe I'll like this'...

"

Do you do tea and cake ? That would delight 'madam'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking for myself, none of what u mentioned interests me at all.. And from my experience guys want more kinkier things.

I think also the fact men very much out number females on sites like this, that is poss an indication men have more fantasies they want to act out than woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking for myself, none of what u mentioned interests me at all.. And from my experience guys want more kinkier things.

I think also the fact men very much out number females on sites like this, that is poss an indication men have more fantasies they want to act out than woman"

I wouldn't totally agree to this statement. I think due to how women are hard wired and the fact that in a lot of the more extreme fantasies whereas most men would embrace it most women would be terrified for their own safety means that most women have as many fantasies as men, but most of them involve being in a monogamous relationship and taking years to get to know their partner in these shenannigans....

However this relates to men and women across the board. Ladies who swing compared to the vanilla world are already thought of as extreme...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Classicaly women have said us men are worse when it comes to sex, were dogs on heat. Now whilst this May be true I've found in my experience us guys fantasies are quite tame in comparison. We have little desires for older women, younger women, our mates wives, our mates mums, milfs or a couple of women together.... Now women, oh boy. Being over powered, rape fantasies, kidnapped, used as fuck toys, groups of men's, blindfolds, etc. So really, who is worse?"

Your experience to speaking to men about fantasies is very different to mine. As is the females.

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