FabSwingers.com forum: First meet location

By *uxurybubbles OP Couple
6 weeks ago

by the sea

So we have a hard rule we always meet socially in a pub or cafe the first time we meet people.

We even offer them to pick where so they are comfortable. That's not unreasonable is it

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Somewhere 100 miles apart

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By *hrobinsonMan
6 weeks ago

Bridgnorth

I use loci to determine a suitable pub to meet in. Like Liam Neeson in Taken 2 with the hand grenades.

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

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By *ife NinjaMan
6 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Pub, Costa or McDonald's

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x"

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

Oops...tired brain 🧠

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I’m only willing to meet on the random item isle in the nearest Aldi.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
6 weeks ago

Rubiksville

Un ethical life hack:

If you say you're twice the distance away you can meet around the corner and they think you've come an equal distance

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By *oodmessMan
6 weeks ago

yumsville

"So we have a hard rule we always meet socially in a pub or cafe the first time we meet people.

We even offer them to pick where so they are comfortable. That's not unreasonable is it"

Meeting socially isn't unreasonable no but if you've never met them before what would you say to someone offering to pick you up and whisk you off to a neutral location with the only means of getting back home being them.

Would it be a yes or a no given you seem hard and fast about first meet security and privacy.

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By *oodmessMan
6 weeks ago

yumsville

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

Oops...tired brain 🧠 "

I just read the exact same.

Yeah fine fine OP

fine as you were

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By *inger_SnapWoman
6 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No... Has someone said it is?

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

Oops...tired brain 🧠

I just read the exact same.

Yeah fine fine OP

fine as you were

Glad it's not just me

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By *oodmessMan
6 weeks ago

yumsville

"No... Has someone said it is?"

I don't like socials tbh

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
6 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’m only willing to meet on the random item isle in the nearest Aldi."

Oh, so the middle of Lidl us out

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By *oodmessMan
6 weeks ago

yumsville

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

Oops...tired brain 🧠

I just read the exact same.

Yeah fine fine OP

fine as you were

Glad it's not just me

People usually agree where to meet... I think that's where I fell over (

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By *oodmessMan
6 weeks ago

yumsville

* not where as in where

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"No... Has someone said it is?"

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I was going to ask the same.

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By *uxurybubbles OP Couple
6 weeks ago

by the sea

"No... Has someone said it is?"

On more than a few occasions we have had people insist we meet at their place first time infact the meet that stood us up tonight was say we should come to them after they failed to meet us

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By *eductive_chaosWoman
6 weeks ago

Northumberland

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By *he return of meMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x

They said they offer for them to pick where, as in the place, not they offer to pick them up.

Oops...tired brain 🧠 "

I read it exactly the same

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
6 weeks ago

Willenhall

"Personally I would always make my own way to a meet...I wouldn't be too comfortable getting in a strangers car x"

What if it was a Rolls Royce or a Bentley driven by a suited chauffeur with a name like "Jeeves", "Jenkins", "James" or some other name/surname starting with a "J" which the posh-employed ones always do?

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By *uxurybubbles OP Couple
6 weeks ago

by the sea

To be clear we ment they pick were to meet

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By *opman121Man
6 weeks ago

stoke on trent

I use to do the date night in Asda Tuesday evening singles meeting while shopping lol

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