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By *otts-man OP Man
4 weeks ago

Long Eaton

Anyone else had experience of dealing with a narcissist ex partner?

Unfortunately she's the mother of my two kids, so I can't detach myself from her 100%, so she continues to try and exert control over me.

The divorce has taken nearly 3years, due to her controlling everything.

I'm worn down with the continuous stress.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Mate , I had some of that medicine myself , brain washed,harassed, emotional, physically, financially every thing, until I moved solicitors and paid for a barrister instead of one of the run of the mill boffins.

Cost me a fortune but he had it boxed of within a month, you need a clean break it's called. Keep your chin up there is light at the end of the tunnel. Best of luck and hugs to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

always your fault

you’re satans worse older brother

h has got the t son

chin up and hang in there

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By *otts-man OP Man
4 weeks ago

Long Eaton

She wants a "mesher order" on the house, which would mean I can't force her to sell up until my son is 18... Another 8yrs.. which means I can't get a mortgage myself.

My solicitor has said that she will never get a judge to agree to it.

I've got a barrister lined up for the court session... But it looks like she's planning to represent herself because she can't afford proper legal advice 🙄

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

"She wants a "mesher order" on the house, which would mean I can't force her to sell up until my son is 18... Another 8yrs.. which means I can't get a mortgage myself.

My solicitor has said that she will never get a judge to agree to it.

I've got a barrister lined up for the court session... But it looks like she's planning to represent herself because she can't afford proper legal advice 🙄"

That's the chink in her armour, the barrister will sort her in the best place right in front of the judge ,stay cool man sounds like winner winner chicken dinner in your favour 😉

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By *otts-man OP Man
4 weeks ago

Long Eaton

She's claiming she can't afford it, but I know she's got a significant amount of cash at hand... So I think she's going down the "ok look at me, I'm the poor jilted ex wife with two kids to look after, so I can't be bothered to get a full time job" route...

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