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By *one_maverick OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

How did you get popular on here and able to acquire meets? I see a lot of single guys that are vastly popular and they're all shapes and sizes.

Since being on here I have found it very difficult and haven't had anything other than a social they wasn't going anywhere anyway.

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By *ack FrostyMan
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Looking at the green arrow you have asked this or a variation of it multiple times before.

Have you followed any of the previous advice you’ve been given?

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By *ubikslongswordMan
4 weeks ago

Rubiksville


"How did you get popular on here and able to acquire meets? I see a lot of single guys that are vastly popular and they're all shapes and sizes.

Since being on here I have found it very difficult and haven't had anything other than a social they wasn't going anywhere anyway. "

I've fallen out of popularity recently because I don't meet anymore, but group socials really help and don't just go and sit in the corner and expect people to talk to you schmooze the room, try to talk to everyone. Including those you don't necessarily want to go further with.

As someone who used to host socials the people who went around the room and spoke to everyone would do better than those who sat in the corner and waited for people to talk to them

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Looking at the green arrow you have asked this or a variation of it multiple times before.

Have you followed any of the previous advice you’ve been given?"

Great catch. Come on OP. If it isn't working for you, change it up a little or go Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Sometimes it’s quite hard to deal with my popularity.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

OP. Plus your username suggests that you could be a mentalist who actually likes being alone

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By *aitonelMan
4 weeks ago

Travelling

By not giving a fuck to playing all the games or jumping through hoops. Being my own person without pandering to the rat race of it all. Knowing the pace I want to do things and accepting the pace my approach will allow things to happen.

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham

ChatGPT has got your back and offers the below advice:

1) Be authentic

2) Be friendly and approachable

3) Show kindness and generosity

4) Develop strong social skills

5) Build a positive reputation

6) Maintain a positive attitude

I look forward to seeing your popularity soar.

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By *NormalMan01Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

I didn’t

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By *ondonlad_88Man
4 weeks ago

Here and There...

Just be a cool person who is respectful and understands this isn't a pussy supermarket..

You won't go wrong

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry

I know from the club/party/organised social scene a lot of it is getting your face about and word of mouth. In fact some guys thrive in the real world scene because they can best represent thier nature and personality face to face rather than as another one of 1000s of online profiles.

People talk. Guys who are wonderful people talk about and recommend. Sometimes these recommendations also lead to party invites too (and thus futher opportunities).

People see you, see how you interact with them in person. Often we've met people we've loved in real life but later looking at their profile would have never messaged based on their profile. Honestly there are some people with not very good profiles who are awesome in real life. Likewise we've bumped into people who's profile we recognise and like off fab but not been for us in the real world.

People also get to see how you interact with others. Sometimes just the lovely way you are with other people can be a huge selling point to those observing.

In our experience those who do well are necessary the most handsome, ripped or swinging around the biggest cocks. Although being easy on the eye is not a bad thing. The guys who do well tend to just have great character, conversations and people skills. And these are the guys we see at different things always cleaning up.

I think online there maybe an aspect of the same. I think a few good verifications (especially from know and trusted profiles) can aid a breakthrough. Presence on the forums helps (depending what you're saying). I guess it's kind of just about building hype. People do like to have a bit of what others are having. Plus cracking an awesome profile is King. However I'm not the best for online advice because in mainly like the real world swinging scene.

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By *entleman JayMan
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

Fighting them off with a big stick. Lol.

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By *olinOfBathMan
4 weeks ago

Corsham

For your own sake, OP, I'm not going to tell you.

Sometimes, it can be a little tiring to be a Fab legend...

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair


"How did you get popular on here and able to acquire meets? I see a lot of single guys that are vastly popular and they're all shapes and sizes..."

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By participating in the fora, in particular the nightly Nocturnal Thread™.

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By *aarv80Man
4 weeks ago

Crumlin

So to repeat ad nauseam....

Seek out and go to socials/clubs.

Interact in the forums..

If people don't know who you are they aren't likely to want to meet you. Good luck

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 weeks ago

Darwen

I'm far from popular. I just head to social events and clubs and try to he friendly with everyone. Regardless of whether or not I'm their types and vice versa. Doesn't mean we can't be friendly with each other.

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