FabSwingers.com forum: If you wanted …

By *enegadeM OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Let’s say you wanted a photo of someone and they said sure what would you like ….

Would your choice be

1. Surprise me

2. I’d like ….. (something specific)

Do you like surprises or would you rather choose?

Tell me …..

please

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
6 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Surprises are good because the sender’s choice tells you more about the sender

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

A face photograph is sufficient for me. I don't want them to feel awkward by asking for anything risqué.

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By *ernow1982Man
6 weeks ago

Plymouth

Whatever they're comfortable with. First option is closest to that.

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By *OVE-PORNMan
6 weeks ago

las vegas

Number one surprise me

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By *NormalMan01Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

I like photos that leave something to the imagination.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
6 weeks ago

North Angus

Surprise please, I wouldn’t want to be demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Id like a picture of them dressed as a pickled onion.

No one ever sends one back.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
6 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Surprises are good because the sender’s choice tells you more about the sender"

100% agreed here

I would rather the sender send me something they think I'll like more than me asking for something they may be insecure about

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

bangers love em

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By *enk15Man
6 weeks ago

Evesham

Surprise me.

Last time I asked for a photo of them changing a tyre wearing a Wookie costume... it didn't go down well.

So, surprise me (preferably with a Wookie costume)

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By *EAT..85Woman
6 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'd probably be specific. I've requested many live time selfies on FPF when guys send me a stock photo!

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I'm specific. I only ever ask for recent face pics. If I say surprise me on here - chances are I'll get a dick pic

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

A face photo. One taken at the time they're messaging me - no filters, overly staged things.

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

I'd be specific.

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

Are we talking about people we already know well?

Random people I'd just want a face pic.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
6 weeks ago

kent

It depends on how well I know the person, how close and connected we are. I would always choose ‘surprise’ with someone I wasn’t already closely intimate with, because I would never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. Surprise allows the person to make their own choice, based on their own limits and boundaries and preferences.

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By *enegadeM OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I'm specific. I only ever ask for recent face pics. If I say surprise me on here - chances are I'll get a dick pic

I only ever sent face

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By *enegadeM OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"A face photo. One taken at the time they're messaging me - no filters, overly staged things. "

So if it’s sunny I can get away with massive sunglasses and hat?

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By *enegadeM OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Whatever they're comfortable with. First option is closest to that."

Comfortable is best….

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By *Jblue321Man
6 weeks ago

Chester

I’d prefer a surprise that way it’s whatever they’re comfortable with and then sets the tone for the conversation

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By *inxy777Woman
6 weeks ago

essex

Whatever they are comfortable with x

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By *ubikslongswordMan
6 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Whatever they are comfortable with x "

Same x

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

This depends. Do I know the person? I’m more inclined to ask for something specific if I already know them well.

If I don’t, then I’d rather they surprise me

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