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"WHAT ABOUT YOU MRS TMN " remember when you changed your name to something about eggs?  | |||
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"Hate them. Hate your voice, hate my voice, hate voices in general, write me a text or fuck off. " To summarise, I’m not a fan. | |||
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"Love receiving but never send" Same here. Always feels odd leaving voice notes. It's like saying, I'm not quite ready to commit to a conversation, but I will speak to you intermittently | |||
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I was once chatting with a lady who started sending 15 minute voice notes and by the time I had listened to them there was another 10 minute-r waiting! It got too much. | |||
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"Are you a fan? Talk to me. Mrs TMN x" Sometimes. Before this flare up, I was rarely alone or somewhere quiet so I didn't send many because it would just be background noise  | |||
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"Anyway, I send her voice notes and sometimes they’re 10 minutes long. And she listens to them. And sends me back 10 minute ones. " 10 minute voice notes??? You need arresting. Lol | |||
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"Love receiving but never send" Why not? | |||
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"Love them, one of my friends works shifts so we rarely are off at the same time. So it means I can hear her voice. Plus messaging in Welsh is a pain with autocorrect so it means I can communicate quickly in my preferred language " This chimes with me. It’s a lovely way of giving time to people who you otherwise wouldn’t sync up with for practical reasons. | |||
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"Yes I am but it really depends. A voicenote that asks nothing about me, doesn't express any interest/discuss any thing I've spoken about before? Fuck, no. I love hearing people talk, that stream of consciousness. The mini podcasts from my favourite squirrel. 🥰" Stream of consciousness is very much my vn vibes! | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol." Fair. I usually forget then have to send a PS | |||
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"I do like to send & receive them… sometimes it’s a lot easier to contextualise what you need to say in a voice note as opposed to typing out an essay of a text message " I feel this! It’s very natural to me. | |||
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"I dislike them. With a written text you can scan it quickly. You can also refer back to anything easily. Voice notes are a pain to have to replay if you miss anything or want to hear a part of it again. I'd prefer people not to send them." All excellent practical points. | |||
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"I have this friend on fab, I love her to bits, like as an actual real life friend not just a fab friend. Anyway, I send her voice notes and sometimes they’re 10 minutes long. And she listens to them. And sends me back 10 minute ones. If we weren’t already happily in love I think her and I would be so endgame. Anyway yes I like sending them but replies are less instant. Depending on where I am. " That sounds super cute 🥰 Less instant replies, is that a positive or negative? | |||
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"WHAT ABOUT YOU MRS TMN remember when you changed your name to something about eggs? "Reported. | |||
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"I love sending and receiving voicenotes. Sending, mostly because its quicker. Receiving, I love hearing their laughter, the shyness behind it etc
"It’s quicker, yes! And hearing someone’s voice is lovely. | |||
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"Meh. I have a love/hate relationship with them. Sometimes I enjoy hearing their voice and having a “proper” conversation is nice. I’m not always in the mood to communicate that way though and sending them back and forth just for the sake of it when you don’t have much to say feels like a chore. " Yeah you don’t want it to feel like a chore  | |||
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"It depends who from, I've people I can't open voice notes from in public 😂 But I don't mind them. Mrs " Ha ha, I hear you! | |||
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"Nope, leaving a WhatsApp note says, you have to listen to me, you can't discuss this and I don't want to talk to you. I hate them with a passion." Gosh, those don’t sound like fun voice notes to receive | |||
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"I don't mind them when they're brief, but a 15 minute voice note is just a podcast I never signed up for. I'm not listening to that." What if it’s a really good podcast? | |||
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"I dont mind them from certain people. I can never bring myself to send them though "Why not? | |||
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"Hate them. Hate your voice, hate my voice, hate voices in general, write me a text or fuck off. " What if my fingers are broken though? | |||
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"I love hearing someone else’s voice but hate hearing my own! "A few people have said this! You don’t have to listen back to yourself though? | |||
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"Ooh I love it when your authoritative. Yeah they can be nice, it took a while to get used to them. A friendly fabber guided me towards their usage." Authoritative? Must be cos I’m in my forties, an older woman who knows what she wants | |||
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"Hate them. Hate your voice, hate my voice, hate voices in general, write me a text or fuck off. What if my fingers are broken though?" Then you can’t finger me, not interested. | |||
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"Love receiving but never send Same here. Always feels odd leaving voice notes. It's like saying, I'm not quite ready to commit to a conversation, but I will speak to you intermittently "Interesting. Is that how you feel when you get one? | |||
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"Are you a fan? Talk to me. Mrs TMN x" Is that like new words for what used to be called a phone call? | |||
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"Right time, place and reason yes. I’d rather a vn than a phone call sometimes as it gives me time to respond. Also a vn rather than a text as things can loose context when in written form. If you’ve had a bereavement and still have voice notes from the person thats also comforting. " Time to respond and context - two big reasons I love a vn. The thought of listening back is lovely too x | |||
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"Love em It helps build a picture of the person. I have a friend I met years ago in Ireland and we chat on phone and voice notes. Keeps the friendship more real. " Helps build a picture of the person, I like that. | |||
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"I got a voice note today out of the blue from a Fab friend (WhatsApp). It was great. Adds the personality and emotion to the message. " Personality and emotion 😍 | |||
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"Hate them. Hate your voice, hate my voice, hate voices in general, write me a text or fuck off. What if my fingers are broken though? Then you can’t finger me, not interested. "  | |||
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"Are you a fan? Talk to me. Mrs TMN x Is that like new words for what used to be called a phone call? " Nope. | |||
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"Hate them. Hate your voice, hate my voice, hate voices in general, write me a text or fuck off. To summarise, I’m not a fan. " Me either 😂 | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. Fair. I usually forget then have to send a PS "Haha, considering how bad it can be, it's just easier to call or message. There would be a lot of PSes. 😂 | |||
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Has the thread become the fab equivalent of a voice note?! 🤯 | |||
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"Has anyone else noticed an age divide? Youngsters love voice notes, middle age love text, seniors love calling " I like messages and calls. 42, so yeah kinda right. Definitely seems to be mostly a generational thing. | |||
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"I like listening to them but I don't send them. " Random Bullshit voice note incoming | |||
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"Ooh I love it when your authoritative. Yeah they can be nice, it took a while to get used to them. A friendly fabber guided me towards their usage. Authoritative? Must be cos I’m in my forties, an older woman who knows what she wants "'Talk to me'. I totally read the tone as an instruction 😆 I'd like to say age wasn't a factor, but I can't say the same for attraction. | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol." This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣 | |||
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"I have this friend on fab, I love her to bits, like as an actual real life friend not just a fab friend. Anyway, I send her voice notes and sometimes they’re 10 minutes long. And she listens to them. And sends me back 10 minute ones. If we weren’t already happily in love I think her and I would be so endgame. Anyway yes I like sending them but replies are less instant. Depending on where I am. That sounds super cute 🥰 Less instant replies, is that a positive or negative?" you’d have to ask the other person I guess | |||
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"I'm intrigued by this concept. So it seems some people, rather can call and converse, record and send messages to someone who records and sends messages back.... Mind truly blown. " I think the idea is that you can listen to the voice audio at a time and place that's convenient and reply similarly when it's convenient. Phone calls have to happen at the same time for both parties and you can't choose if someone phones you at a given time. | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣" I don't use voice notes to save people from the stream. I use my powers for good! 😂 | |||
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"I don't mind sending or receiving but LadyBoner don't like them so I rarely send them x" Can I change my answer? My son keeps sending them while we're trying to watch Tele lol | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣 I don't use voice notes to save people from the stream. I use my powers for good! 😂" I’m chaotic neutral | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣 I don't use voice notes to save people from the stream. I use my powers for good! 😂 I’m chaotic neutral " I'm more Chaotic Good. 😛 | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣 I don't use voice notes to save people from the stream. I use my powers for good! 😂 I’m chaotic neutral I'm more Chaotic Good. 😛" I'm Chaotic Everywhere. 🤪 | |||
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"I'd rather call or message. Tried voice notes a few times, but it always feels awkward and I sometimes forget what was said to me (ADHD and memory issues), so I don't bother with them lol. This is the reason I love to voice note. Because of my ADHD - I can just let loose with my stream of consciousness. Whether the recipient understands it (or appreciates it) is another matter 🤣 I don't use voice notes to save people from the stream. I use my powers for good! 😂 I’m chaotic neutral I'm more Chaotic Good. 😛 I'm Chaotic Everywhere. 🤪" Someone has to be! Sounds like it would be the most fun anyway lol. | |||
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