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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Become less of a thing right?

It’s like they magically catch you up, wtf?

People I dated who were mid 30s when I was late 40s are hitting 40 soon , talking about early nights, whining more & dressing like my nan.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them.

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land

I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. "

Just don’t start dressing my like my nan….

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes "

Yes but you’re hot. So you can pull it off.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them.

Just don’t start dressing my like my nan…."

Or what?

You gonna date me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think mental age gaps are more significant than chronological.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

You’re supposed to wait until your 40s to do that? Oh.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes "

60s grans are hot , boots and mini skirts, mine lived in the previous century. Think Holly Hunter in the Piano, wearing, that thing that stops dogs biting each other.

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By *erigold300Couple
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

My husband is 16 years my junior.

Our gap is only noticeable to other people when we first started dating he looked very young, it was a constant slew of comments. Now that he is in his 30s, it’s less noticeable.

I love having a young sexy man on my arm mostly so I don’t trip and break a hip!

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. "
.I will always be 21

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards


"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. .I will always be 21"

I'm going to be (almost) serious for a moment.

Strap in .

It's playfulness for me. Mental playfulness matched with a degree of physical energy.

I've found that most in the 30-45 age group, with a very, very small number of notable exceptions in their 50s or 25-30. But none starting with a 6. Plenty of other things that are enjoyable about them, but just not enough playfulness.

And I thrive around playful.

BGG - you are 21 in so many ways, and you are also your real age too because you "get it", and that is one of the main reasons why you shine so much.

Thank you xxx

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"I think mental age gaps are more significant than chronological. "

If that were true we’d be in each other's age range

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. .I will always be 21

I'm going to be (almost) serious for a moment.

Strap in .

It's playfulness for me. Mental playfulness matched with a degree of physical energy.

I've found that most in the 30-45 age group, with a very, very small number of notable exceptions in their 50s or 25-30. But none starting with a 6. Plenty of other things that are enjoyable about them, but just not enough playfulness.

And I thrive around playful.

BGG - you are 21 in so many ways, and you are also your real age too because you "get it", and that is one of the main reasons why you shine so much.

Thank you xxx "

TLDR

I’m sorry to hear that / congratulations/ thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I think mental age gaps are more significant than chronological.

If that were true we’d be in each other's age range "

🤐😥

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By *ABflirtyWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"My husband is 16 years my junior.

Our gap is only noticeable to other people when we first started dating he looked very young, it was a constant slew of comments. Now that he is in his 30s, it’s less noticeable.

I love having a young sexy man on my arm mostly so I don’t trip and break a hip!"
I hope to find this one day too xxx as love younger men. x

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By *olin22Man
9 weeks ago

washington

I'm 59 val 63 she looks loads younger

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By *amie HantsWoman
9 weeks ago

Atlantis

Yes. I’m worried I’ll have to restock the talent pool. Some of my previous lovers will be in booking in for viewings at McCarthy and Stone complexes. I’m trying to date guys my age by these oldies seek me out and charm me. It’s such a burden

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"Yes. I’m worried I’ll have to restock the talent pool. Some of my previous lovers will be in booking in for viewings at McCarthy and Stone complexes. I’m trying to date guys my age by these oldies seek me out and charm me. It’s such a burden "
you’re basically me. But not.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Loved a granny in my 20’s, still love a granny in my 30’s

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By *ABflirtyWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich


"Loved a granny in my 20’s, still love a granny in my 30’s"
Well this one could give you the run around . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Loved a granny in my 20’s, still love a granny in my 30’s Well this one could give you the run around . lol "

I’ve always been a good runner!

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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"Yes. I’m worried I’ll have to restock the talent pool. Some of my previous lovers will be in booking in for viewings at McCarthy and Stone complexes. I’m trying to date guys my age by these oldies seek me out and charm me. It’s such a burden "

I feel this but silver lining? You're one step closer to being a wealthy widow. 💕

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. .I will always be 21"

Rock forever 21 but just turned 50 💁🏻‍♀️

(I know that’s not the exact lyric)

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By *irtydesires2024Man
9 weeks ago

West Midlands

I remember getting all sorts of abuse when I was 30 having a relationship with a 21 y/o ,we were out one night I was called all sorts of nasty things ,someone actually spat at me, we were celebrating our 10th anniversary together.

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By *amie HantsWoman
9 weeks ago

Atlantis


"Yes. I’m worried I’ll have to restock the talent pool. Some of my previous lovers will be in booking in for viewings at McCarthy and Stone complexes. I’m trying to date guys my age by these oldies seek me out and charm me. It’s such a burden

I feel this but silver lining? You're one step closer to being a wealthy widow. 💕"

That’s all I’ve ever wanted but sadly these charming old goats that woo me are penniless. No one knows suffering like I do 😢

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land


"I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes

Yes but you’re hot. So you can pull it off. "

You'll be telling me I'd look good in a bin bag next

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes

Yes but you’re hot. So you can pull it off.

You'll be telling me I'd look good in a bin bag next "

Woah!

I’m many things but I’m not a liar, Frida

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. .I will always be 21

Rock forever 21 but just turned 50 💁🏻‍♀️

(I know that’s not the exact lyric)"

And I am definitely not 50

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

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"Well, I mean I haven’t turned 60 yet so I don’t know if my type will still be my type when I catch up to them. .I will always be 21

Rock forever 21 but just turned 50 💁🏻‍♀️

(I know that’s not the exact lyric)

And I am definitely not 50"

Ok xxxxx

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land


"I actually do ware some of my grans vintage clothes

60s grans are hot , boots and mini skirts, mine lived in the previous century. Think Holly Hunter in the Piano, wearing, that thing that stops dogs biting each other."

It's mainly tailored clothes and a few hand-knitted jumpers, cardigans. But also hats.

But to answer your OP. I think I have a younger outtake on life compared to Mam at a similar age (there's only 18 years between us). Still doing everything I used to do when I was younger just with less alcohol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
9 weeks ago

Wirral

Bloody hell, if I went for the sort of age gaps I had in my youth I'd have to start hunting in the local eldercare homes!

It's unlikely at my age I'm going to go for someone a huge amount older, but I also don't want someone too young who makes me feel ancient. My desirable age gap is much narrower than it used to be.

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By *ad NannaWoman
9 weeks ago

East London

I reckon I could still keep up with a 20 something in bed.

Don't be asking me to play Fortnite though, I can get a grip on those new-fangled controllers.

I'll smash you at Atari.

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By *ad NannaWoman
9 weeks ago

East London

My long term buddy was 28 when we first met.

He now has grey hair and a sensible car.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
9 weeks ago

Coventry

I believe so.

The power dynamic and life experience is a lot more even in a 20 year age gap between a 38YO and 58YO than an 18YO and 38YO.

I have nothing against age gaps per se, love is love. I had in my youth a few age gap relationships with women significantly older because I just found more connection and more in common with a more mature mind. However I'm very dubious of large age gaps when one is particularly young (late teens, early 20s). Because peoples minds genrally don't become mature until later in their 20s and they often dont benifit fromnthe same levels of hard taught life experience. So even when technically legal its basically a mature adult with a adolescenct/just emerging from adolescence. So in general a dynamic I find iffy and often from experience a little exploitative in nature. Not saying that's the case 100% of the time but definitely something I'm dubious of knowing how often it is the case.

Mr

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

The conundrums of life

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By *viatrixWoman
9 weeks ago

Redhill

I was with a 24 year old a few days ago.

My mental block makes me wonder why on earth a guy that age would be attracted to me but he said “age is just a number- all I see is that you’re hot and sexy”

A wise, pretty young thing.

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