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By *ellybeanABC OP   Couple
over a year ago

west calder

I don’t seem to be getting any responses from females to join myself and my partner ? What m I doing wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No banana for scale.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Yes we can see your pics.

What are you doing to drum up interest in meeting you?

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By *ichierich001ukMan
over a year ago

taunton

Yes can see pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to consider that you are in a long queue behind every other couple and single man seeking the same mythical unicorn. You've only been on 3 weeks.

So you need to stand out and your photos and profile need to attract a lady ... look at profiles from other MF couples and see what they are doing for inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are for me uninspiring. Nothing of you together and I don’t just mean sexually

Your profile text is hard to read, it’s just one big block

You mention water sports. Assuming you don’t mean water polo that’s quite niche. But, fair play for adding it

A someone else has said you seek a single female and they are hard to find. What as a couple will you do to make them feel safe or that it’s a genuine 3-way and not just for you 2

Also some couples sign off messages or posts in the forums with “Mr” or “Mrs”, it let’s others know who is talking

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

As a woman would you look at your own profile and think 'Wow! Out of all the numerous couples on here, they are the ones I really want to meet".?

I enjoy meeting cpls who are seeking to offer me a great time. Not just me being an item they can tick off their sexual bucket list.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a singles profile as well as this ones, we can see your pics but to be honest I can't see anything of the women that I could gauge if there's any initial attraction.

Would you look at your pics as a woman and want to meet?

Mrs

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Also it kinda reads like... You're giving your partner the opportunity to play with another woman first. Then you're both happy to move on to other men/couples? Which is fine, but again not appealing really.

Also you're both straight. So what would be the dynamic? Would you just be looking for your partner to have sex with a woman whilst you watch? Or? If you're thinking about meeting couples, maybe do that now not later on.

I'd personally feel worried that if I met you both. That it reads more the woman going along with it for the partners fantasy, and it could end up in a horrible situation if we started to play...

Honestly, I'd really discuss what you want from the experience as a couple. If you're both fully on board. And if playing with another couple might not be a better fit for you

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Your pics are visible OP.

A little clarity on what you actually want might help 💜

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes we can see your pics but none of you actually together or what you are looking for , it reads like his wish list and the obliging wife is going along with it and not that interested

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don’t seem to be getting any responses from females to join myself and my partner ? What m I doing wrong ? "

Single ladies are the most sought after people on here, and your small collection of photo's are probably not showing you off to your absolute best.

Generally, unless you're a single lady, it takes a great profile, plenty of time, and a bit of work to get any type of response on here.

Cal

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Why don’t you have a look at profiles of single ladies and contact them …rather than sit back and wait for people to contact you……

Your profile pics need to stand out and no offence but if I was single I would have just scrolled by your ad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab

Your profile text is one big block and difficult to read, so many won't bother.

Mrs are you straight? (I am too, a Fab rarity it seems!)

But you may need to explain the dynamic to those you hope to meet.

Female-cuck, stag and vixen and so on... there's lots to learn here in the forums

Also, as mentioned above, (even fully clothed) normal photo of you together would go a long way.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the only logical explanation for me too.

Every day I wake up and my inbox isn’t overflowing with offers of sex…

“huh, fab must be broken”.

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