FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone miss

By *iker Jack OP Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Does anyone miss romance?

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Or is it all about the sex?

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

We have the romance so now it's all about the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I can take it or leave it, it’ll take somebody special for me to want to go through it again.

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By *nya NeesWoman
6 weeks ago

Brum

Nice to have a bit of both 😁😘

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

No because you can't miss something you're currently getting. 💕

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
6 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Ah the good ole days 🥹

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

love a bit romance

love letters

buying little gifts

walks in the countryside

fingering

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By *mmaleiaWoman
6 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Sometimes

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By *ottom charlieMan
6 weeks ago

washington

"Does anyone miss romance?

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Or is it all about the sex?"
there has to be romance of some level or its just 2 people rutting,,,

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Nearly six years together and I still feel this way about my partner, I can't imagine it changing tbh! 🥰

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By *onkeynutWoman
6 weeks ago

somewhere

Yes but I don’t want the end result.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
6 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK

I do miss romance to some extent, but don’t miss the fallout when it goes sour.

I really miss fun dates, my last was with a hotwife I was in a relationship of sorts with, but unfortunately that ended due to distance and a bit of stupidity on my part.

I do miss her quite a lot

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By *laymates7Woman
6 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

No. It’s all downhill from then, and no sex so would rather just have the sex without the false romance.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

No, because it's my current default state: I'm only here for the flirts, the woo'ing, the courtship and the trysts. 🩶

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"No, because it's my current default state: I'm only here for the flirts, the woo'ing, the courtship and the trysts. 🩶"

you’re off your head dumble

h is starting to like u

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By *ustMe!Couple
6 weeks ago

co.down

I do miss romance yes, but after getting hurt and the heart broken I’m more cautious now.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
6 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

When was this OP,,

Must have been pre my mental therapy block on the good auld days,,,

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Be nice to meet someone with the same blood type. In case I need any blood. Single supplement sucks on hols (and sometimes actually does). Flowers occasionally would be nice.

But otherwise I’m dandy being single.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x

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By *ildTimes.Man
6 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Are you saying meeting randoms via fab and fucking isn't romantic? 🤔🤔

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

"Are you saying meeting randoms via fab and fucking isn't romantic? 🤔🤔 "

It's damn good fun, but not romantic nope!

Mrs x

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I like the sex to come with someone who has a stimulating and challenging mind.

Someone not dependent on their feelgood via my adoration of them.

Someone who can walk away and still have an amazing life, as I do, but I bring a bit of extra amazing that adds to their life, as they do for me.

I see "romance" as being too linked to "chivalry", and the infantilisation of women/power command of men for it to appeal.

So, other than my extremely, extremely rare needs to just fuck someone I've only met that night, I don't have just the sex anyway.

But I facepalm when people believe the only alternative is "romance".

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By *ABflirtyWoman
6 weeks ago

Norwich

One day i hope for all that in my life .. x

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"No, because it's my current default state: I'm only here for the flirts, the woo'ing, the courtship and the trysts. 🩶

you’re off your head dumble

h is starting to like u "

Thank you, Marjorie.

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 weeks ago

Fife

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

Based on what empirical evidence?

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 weeks ago

Fife

I don't call it romance..

It's simply connection and chemistry

It's the only sexual connection I will ever do.. if I can't be around them dressed and look forward to their presence I'll never be around them naked.

If they are romantic and still believe in chivalry then that an extra perk of their already rare and great character.

I'm still not marrying or becoming exclusive. ever

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By *iker Jack OP Man
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

Ah I suppose all the singles that have met through here and are now couples on here or off here must have it wrong

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By *ernow1982Man
6 weeks ago

Plymouth

Do I miss romance? Sure, I do. I have enjoyed being in a committed relationship and giving my all.

Allowing myself to be that open and unguarded with another person is frankly an incredible feeling.

It hasn't happened too many times, but the last one changed my life in many ways. I learned so much about myself. What I would do for another person, the sheer amount I could love, the almost fanatical obsession and admiration of her.

It was the most intense relationship and feelings I've ever experienced with another. I'm even doubtful that feeling would ever show itself again.

In a way, it somewhat broke me as well.

For a time, I thought it was irreversible. I was ready to accept my defeat and simply give up. On everything.

But eventually, I began to use everything I had felt as a tool. I used it to discover more about me and what I was capable of dealing with.

It made me stronger.

It made me capable of seeking out more relaxed situations with people, focusing more on friendships, pleasure and excitement.

And I've never felt like that wasn't enough, even with how much I enjoy romance. They are different things, that have their own merits.

Right now, I can't do romance. I have too much shit to sort out and probably not enough time to do it. I'm not sick or anything, I'm just shit at doing things. ADHD lol.

So while I miss romance, I'm also okay with not having it. I've got other priorities. Now if I can have some fun, friendship, laughter and naughty times, I'm content enough. 😊

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x

Ah I suppose all the singles that have met through here and are now couples on here or off here must have it wrong "

Nope, I'm sure it's happened but won't for the majority of people on here x

Mrs x

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By *cotshusb7777Man
6 weeks ago

Bellshill

Brilliant question, I miss the dating from back in the day, everything was fresh and you had to work very hard just to get your hand on a girls bum

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
6 weeks ago

Swansea

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

My husband and I met through this site over 8 years ago.

Back to the OP, I still have romance with my husband and I hope the excitement we have for each other never fades.

Mrs

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think of passion as containing both physical/lust and emotional/romantic qualities to varying degrees

Intimacy is the more discreet factor, being a feeling of closeness, liking and connection. Which can be sexual or non-sexual.

Sex based on passionate lust alone, really needs to be off the chart for me and occurs so rarely I don't even think to seek it.

I can miss those whom I have shared deep intimacy with, it's not something that can simply be replaced. A connection with one person is qualitatively different to that of another. Hence for me it is more accurate to say, I miss the feelings shared with that person than the feelings themselves.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes I miss it a lot.

However romance is still possible in casual relationships too

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

I disagree

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

No, to be honest, the thought of anything more than a FWB situation feels overwhelming. It scares me. Trusting someone enough to let my guard down, and trusting myself to spot red flags or listen to my gut when something feels off—it all just feels beyond me right now.

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x

Ah I suppose all the singles that have met through here and are now couples on here or off here must have it wrong

Nope, I'm sure it's happened but won't for the majority of people on here x

Mrs x"

It's not about majorities. It's not about the numbers. It's about the possibilities. So Fab is one place for romance to happen, amongst other places.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
6 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

How to you come to this conclusion...

Myself and my worst half, met on fab......

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x"

i agree babe

bit like going in a cat shop and wanting to buy a fish

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I could do with some coffee.

Maybe a pizza.

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

"No, to be honest, the thought of anything more than a FWB situation feels overwhelming. It scares me. Trusting someone enough to let my guard down, and trusting myself to spot red flags or listen to my gut when something feels off—it all just feels beyond me right now.

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x

Ah I suppose all the singles that have met through here and are now couples on here or off here must have it wrong

Nope, I'm sure it's happened but won't for the majority of people on here x

Mrs x

It's not about majorities. It's not about the numbers. It's about the possibilities. So Fab is one place for romance to happen, amongst other places."

Well said sir. 👏🏻

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
6 weeks ago

Cheshire

Respect is better then romance, but a cuddles nice

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently."

I saw this in the forums too

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance. "

Nell darling, are you now reneging on yesterday's declaration of love? Women...so capricious! 🙂💌

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

"If you are looking for romance or to date, fabswingers is the wrong place guys

Mrs x

How to you come to this conclusion...

Myself and my worst half, met on fab......

Mr "

Just my opinion, not the place I'd look for love but that just my opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion of course x

Mrs x

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too "

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I just want sex.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta."

You think you’re clever

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By *IXEN200Woman
6 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I have to admit I miss it

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

"I just want sex.

Oh great another flip-flopping woman on this thread.

Thought you didn't want sex ever? Women. Say something and stop flip-flopping.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta."

No deflection, here.

Get her up against the wall, she's got some explaining to do.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I just want sex."

•

Of course you do...{rubs chin, shakes fist}

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"I just want sex.

Oh great another flip-flopping woman on this thread.

Thought you didn't want sex ever? Women. Say something and stop flip-flopping. "

I can want sex but not want men.

If it's a choice of romance or not, I choose not.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Free pizza and coffee for anyone willing to kid*ap and muzzle certain "friends". Nothing drastic, just for a day or so...

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By *izandpaulCouple
6 weeks ago

merseyside

"Does anyone miss romance?

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Or is it all about the sex?"

Romance and intimacy is a large part of our happy marriage.

Swinging, for us, is recreational sex, parties, clubs and swingers holidays.

Social meets are great too but not after any form of relationship.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Free pizza and coffee for anyone willing to kid*ap and muzzle certain "friends". Nothing drastic, just for a day or so..."

I don't think short term pizza and coffee is going to vanquish the long term love for your FWB/FB.🧸

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By *ularliWoman
6 weeks ago

Worcester

"Does anyone miss romance?

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Or is it all about the sex?"

I don’t miss romance. I just prefer getting down to sex.

When romance gets involved it becomes tricky so I avoid it.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta.

You think you’re clever

Not with my current run of typos

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta.

No deflection, here.

Get her up against the wall, she's got some explaining to do."

Well once you've sorted Nell out against the wall Hans (you little devil you

), can I have my shopping please?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

"Free pizza and coffee for anyone willing to kid*ap and muzzle certain "friends". Nothing drastic, just for a day or so..."

I’d offer but black on black crime.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I put my answer in another thread but basically no I don’t miss romance because I’m lucky enough to have people in my life I can be romantic with. And I’m always looking for more people open to romance.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can enjoy intimacy and connection without romance.

Oh. So you don't love anyone right now? Odd. I could have sworn you declared your love recently.

I saw this in the forums too

Well it's all very well zoning in on Nell, buy who's buying my coffee and pizza please?

Maybe some milk as well.

Please ta.

No deflection, here.

Get her up against the wall, she's got some explaining to do.

Well once you've sorted Nell out against the wall Hans (you little devil you

), can I have my shopping please?"

I'm not quite sure Nell shares my vision of romance, in this instance.

I'm waiting on my truffles too, patience is a virtue. No harm in a little light entertainment, in the meantime.

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Bradford

I do but I don't missall the other crap you have to go thru these days to get anywhere

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By *inger_SnapWoman
6 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes... Maybe I'll do that next year.

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By *reggSausageMan
6 weeks ago

derby

Give me romance over anything, someone that gives a shit about my day, someone that thinks about me at least once a day, oh and that lingering kiss, when you have fwb you don’t get those you just get kisses, that lingering one that pops your brain ….. those

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
6 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

A romantic threesome can still be possible....

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By *ceKweenWoman
6 weeks ago

Bolton

Romance is lovely when least expected and by little gestures

Just because we are on a swinging site doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do them

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By *nya NeesWoman
6 weeks ago

Brum

"A romantic threesome can still be possible...."

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I like all the romance,affection, attention and sex.

Some would say I'm a greedy bitch

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Does anyone miss romance?

The courting part or dating, the getting to know someone, the butterflies when you see them, being tactile

Or is it all about the sex?"
we still have all this. First time I've ever had it x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

We have both. Marriage is about making it work. Think of it like baking a cake. It's takes lots of different ingredients but when all mixed in together it can make something beautiful.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

"We have both. Marriage is about making it work. Think of it like baking a cake. It's takes lots of different ingredients but when all mixed in together it can make something beautiful."

Oh that's beautiful xxxx

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Im learning not to do the nostalgia thing it only gives me that sad dwelling feeling so im not sure i want to feel that anymore rather keep an eye on whats 6 feet in front of me

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By *neeyedwillieMan
6 weeks ago

Darlington

See....I don't need the romance. I'm happily married.

But...

When I do meets outside of clubs I like to make them more like dates. Dinner, night out..whatever then back to the hotel. Bit more than the sex....does that count?

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By *arley QuimWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere

I enjoy dates, flirting, and sex 🙃

Just because it's not a full on relationship, doesn't mean you cant enjoy something with someone and have the nice bits too

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By *oxy-RedWoman
6 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Yes I miss the romance

The wooing and all that but I doubt il get that back in my life,so I make do with occasional fun

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"I enjoy dates, flirting, and sex 🙃

Just because it's not a full on relationship, doesn't mean you cant enjoy something with someone and have the nice bits too "

I was about to say the same thing

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By *ineappleroloWoman
6 weeks ago

Derby

I don't do romance, but I do miss being close with someone.

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By *ivpoolmanMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I enjoy dates, flirting, and sex 🙃

Just because it's not a full on relationship, doesn't mean you cant enjoy something with someone and have the nice bits too

I was about to say the same thing "

This

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bedford

Don't believe I've encountered that emotion Captain, I do believe it illogical for me to experience such feelings. Quite simply it does not compute.

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By *lessandra_BWoman
6 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere

I now have both in my life 🥰

It's a beautiful feeling to finally be with someone who is truly sincere; who is benevolent with both their time and feelings; whose sexual needs and desires are actually compatible with mine (a rarity, imo). Most importantly, he treats me with respect and equality (he does not control or demean everything I do, with narcissistic behaviour, like the last person did). Oh, and he has a Fab profile, but we didn't meet here 😊

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