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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took no planning.

A night out, some mild flirting, the stars aligned and off we went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not difficult at all

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

It just kinda happened

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

Uranus, The Squelchy Way

It was at a club, and it just happened very organically. I'd already been with one of the women a few weeks before, which allowed things to progress without awkwardness for everyone.

Then another one happened at another club around two months later.

So, clubs 👍👍.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
over a year ago

Reading

My first threesome took a lot to plan (I initially wrote 'my first nightmare took a lot to plan' and I think that says a lot about how logistically it felt like so much!) because it didn't happen organically. We met on an app and went through basics to find out if we were all wanting something similar, think there was a video call. We talked about preferences and boundaries and then scheduling. It was nice and good first experience but it was also a lot.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes - In my experience it helps if you know them both really well first, then just ask and arrange or put them in the same bed with you and hope !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No planning went into it at all, it just happened one night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a message from a couple, chatted a bit and we planned it a few months ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of backwards and forwards on here

Arranged a social at their house with a view to playing if all were comfortable

They were a couple so they basically led the way at their pace.

Wonderful times still miss them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly Steve, cutting the shortlist down to such a small number just causes so many arguments and infighting.

It's easier to just have an orgy 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't planned, it just happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No planning whatsoever. Drinks, friends, bam!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Had got talking to a couple, met the wife on her own a couple of times and then we agreed a 3some. All very easy to arrange and sort out.

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Honestly Steve, cutting the shortlist down to such a small number just causes so many arguments and infighting.

It's easier to just have an orgy 💜"

💜💜💜💜

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan? "

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho "

Is that no like skipping the starters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s alright for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't plan mine, a couple contacted me via the 'nearby' function and happened from that.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho

Is that no like skipping the starters "

Maybe. Decided to jump in at the deep end

We still want an MFM to happen tho. We just need the right guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho

Is that no like skipping the starters

Maybe. Decided to jump in at the deep end

We still want an MFM to happen tho. We just need the right guy. "

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM? "

Si señor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho

Is that no like skipping the starters

Maybe. Decided to jump in at the deep end

We still want an MFM to happen tho. We just need the right guy.

Hello "

Apologies just noticed your guys age range.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

My first? Zero planning. More a welcome surprise.

Most have come with a partner, for whom flirtation was a mesmerising art form.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

Si señor"

Not MFM?

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It took a lot of planning

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Very easy.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Ours was quite easy to plan, we invited a lady to join us. For the next one we invited a guy, and then we invited both back to have MFMF fun. All worked out rather well.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it was easy, joined here, chatted, met, done.

Mrs

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

It was a long time ago when phones and Internet were not a thing and it was easier then than it is now ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm...no planning at all, they just turned up at the office and we made good use of my desk !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Very easy indeed

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mine was with a colleague and her husband when I was 19

I have a (shit) tattoo from that night as he'd recently bought a tattoo gun from eBay too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine wasn't planned. It naturally occurred on a night out when I was in my early 20's. It was with 2 men. I still think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was there any arguing about who cooked breakfast ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

Si señor"

This is definitely more difficult! 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Very easy indeed"

Oh but this was mfm

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

Si señor

This is definitely more difficult! 😂 "

I managed it 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

Si señor

This is definitely more difficult! 😂

I managed it 🤷‍♀️ "

For a man

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan? "

still trying to do the maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking about the elusive FFM?

Si señor

This is definitely more difficult! 😂

I managed it 🤷‍♀️ "

I’m still not jealous by the way…. If you were wondering.

🥺

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Darlington/Newcastle

My first one was fairly easy. It was a couple from here that are sadly no longer part of the community. It started as a husband enjoying his wife putting on a show for another guy (me) and progressed to everyone joining in on the night. It wasn’t planned but comfort and horn took over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a piece of piss.

They liked me, I liked them both. We said let’s do it, a few days later, I was balls deep into both of them.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It was easy. I went to a club to have it

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By *007ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

They approached me. Went well.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Easy...my wife surprised me one evening with another lady....

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Wants planned was just an accidental banter..had 2 movers it was hot they moved my sofa my dog had destroyed toys lingerie etc and had stuffed it in a hole underneath the sofa. They lifted it and everything fell out..my mom joked see that's why she didn't have grandkids.. they laughed and the following day I had a customer service knock at my door.. I was cooking invited him to stay for dinner. He turned the TV on I had porn paused and obviously off as I'd just turned the TV off when I heard the knock. His friend was outside as it was going to have just been a genuine check on the move etc. the friend came in we had dinner drinks chatted and ended up having a 3 sum. They ended up moving in with me and we enjoyed bliss for 6 months until one wanted more... I still speak to both 12 years later. They introduced me to my 5sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was easy. I went to a club to have it "

Whoa hang on!

Should this be like a breaking news thing?

I always thought you’d never met anyone shag?

BREAKING NEWS! Shag’s had a shag. BREAKING NEWS! Shag’s had a shag:…….more to follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was super easy.

Though it also confirmed the fact I am 100% straight.

If 2 guys wanna go though

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton

A girl I was dating suggested it, we did it with her best friend.

It was an experience. Not one I immediately rushed to repeat but, also not one I wouldn't.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

My first was at a club; just a chance meet, lots of chat and then boom, a lot of fun was had

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Your first threesome? Was it easy to plan?

Not managed a threesome yet. We're looking for a suitable man to join us

We HAVE managed a small gangbang tho

Is that no like skipping the starters

Maybe. Decided to jump in at the deep end

We still want an MFM to happen tho. We just need the right guy.

Hello

Apologies just noticed your guys age range. "

See. This is what happens. Even outside of our age range, this guy went UNLOS at the very idea of a MFM with us

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Still waiting patiently so I will reopen this thread when it does 😁

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"It was easy. I went to a club to have it

Whoa hang on!

Should this be like a breaking news thing?

I always thought you’d never met anyone shag?

BREAKING NEWS! Shag’s had a shag. BREAKING NEWS! Shag’s had a shag:…….more to follow. "
Yes. I do. I did it few years ago too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still waiting patiently so I will reopen this thread when it does 😁"

You and me both. Race ya?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

No planning, just sort of happened. That was way back in 1992

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By *hat.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We'd been on here for 3 months before we had managed to arrange our first mff meet. We hadn't done anything like this at all before joining Fab.

We found going to clubs and getting verified helped us, also we made some friends and they even introduced us to a few of thier unicorn friends too. Introductions and making friends was a key part of getting started in this lifestyle for us.

Sian x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"[Removed by poster at 26/11/24 16:56:46]"

Bloody nora, the idea of threesomes is sending them UNLOS left, right and centre

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Still waiting patiently so I will reopen this thread when it does 😁

You and me both. Race ya? "
first one gets another 3 sum 🤣

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It was a lot easier than I imagined. Originally I'd invited someone to join me and my partner. My relationship ended so I phoned to call it off, but the woman I was talking to invited me to join her and her partner instead.

When I think of how much work it feels now I'm completely flabbergasted at how simple it all was back then!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It kinda just happened in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very easy once all round attraction found

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Very easy. Just met couple at a club and went from there.

First one here took ages to sort out.

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By *jlondon78Man
over a year ago

Suffolk

Still waiting for a ffm but had many mmf with couples on here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

We were very lucky. We got chatting to a lady who liked us. We had a social. We invited her over to ours some time later and away it went.

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When it happens I’ll let you know

Kink (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it happens I’ll let you know

Kink (Mrs) "

Invite me along. Let’s see where we end up

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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