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"Why did you message the person? In future advise anyone receiving abuse to report the profile. The same goes for you. It's pointless getting involved because it will just turn in to an argument " I'm glad I did because this person revealed their true profile to me, who uses the forum alot, and not just the troll profile. I have reported and blocked both but the old one isn't there anymore. | |||
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"Sorry that happened to you. I have had some hideous messages from forum users too and you have to see them post their smug bullshit knowing they’re a giant prick. It sucks "Yes many of people on forums are actual pricks in private messages I have experienced | |||
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"Sorry that happened to you. I have had some hideous messages from forum users too and you have to see them post their smug bullshit knowing they’re a giant prick. It sucks "Hey it was just the one message!! And I was going through my "dungeon experimentation" phase at the time  . | |||
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"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head. All you can do is report, block and try move on. Nothing else you can do " I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site. | |||
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"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head. All you can do is report, block and try move on. Nothing else you can do I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site." Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc. | |||
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"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head. All you can do is report, block and try move on. Nothing else you can do I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site. Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc. " Im glad, its great to see the good outweigh the psycho! I hope they both give up eventually. Wonder if we could pair them off so they'll leave us alone? | |||
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"Why did you message the person? In future advise anyone receiving abuse to report the profile. The same goes for you. It's pointless getting involved because it will just turn in to an argument " Does anything actually get done when abuse and timewasters are reported? They just seem to carry on as normal. | |||
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"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head. All you can do is report, block and try move on. Nothing else you can do I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site." The scary thing is that these weirdo's (male & female) are out there in society lurking among us. | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them." I like this. | |||
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"Mr's ex has multiple profiles on here, we get shit, get it blocked, another pops up. Every now and then it goes quiet but she keeps rearing her head. All you can do is report, block and try move on. Nothing else you can do I have an ex that does this too. He even asks other local guy to message me and tell them what I've said. Fortunately, they tell me he's being weird and reports him. They now also keep an eye out and get in touch if they spot him back on the site. Luckily the guys she contacts usually contact us about the issue as she gives out our details etc. Im glad, its great to see the good outweigh the psycho! I hope they both give up eventually. Wonder if we could pair them off so they'll leave us alone? "She's already married, that's the stupid thing!! | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. " Me too | |||
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"So just a question...do these people know that they're toxic and upset people with no conscience or are they oblivious and really don't know?" Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both. Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead. | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Me too "I'm commenting and DEFINITELY NOT NAMING OR SHAMING THE PERSON ABOVE.  . | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. " Me 2, great idea. Pick a word and comment with it every time they do.like Pineapples or something lol | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. " Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt!" He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... | |||
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" Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both. Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead. " Ok, so does anyone here think that they've posted toxic replies or upset anyone with a reply to a post? | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here..." DM me I got all the goss | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss "Why are you commenting after everything I say? | |||
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"So just a question...do these people know that they're toxic and upset people with no conscience or are they oblivious and really don't know? Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both. Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead. " Yeah but in my experience most Dickheads will fight their corner when informed they are Dickheads and storm off still steadfast on remaining a dickhead which means going fwd they now know they are dickheads, and what's the chances that you were not the first to inform them in the first place which means they knew all along they were dickheads and just enjoy being nasty shites to people because they have daddy issues or were unchecked bullies or were dropped on the fireplace as babies, .who knows, But I do know Leopards don't change their spots. | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
Why are you commenting after everything I say? "Because.... | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
Why are you commenting after everything I say?
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
Why are you commenting after everything I say?
tell me your secrets. "I once got a marble stuck up my nose? | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
Why are you commenting after everything I say?
tell me your secrets.
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. I like this. Are you outing him? I knew it, he's got that look! Butter wouldn't melt! He has. Oh..shit...wait...there's a problem here... DM me I got all the goss
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tell me your secrets.
I once got a marble stuck up my nose?
I was 38."😆 Impressive. | |||
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"What the hell is wrong with some people. Today my friend was abused for no reason at all so I messaged the guy saying he was a troll. I then reported him and blocked him. I then get a message from a different profile, who's a common forum user, - you should be fucking ashamed of yourself, asking why I was defending a 'land whale'.... And then blocked me. Not only is this shockingly vile, but is it common for people to have two profiles? " This feels like it is only part of the story. Generally multiple profiles don’t tend to get involved in an argument - even more so if they are clearly separate individuals. In my experience people piling into an argument that they are not initially part of means that there is a deeper issue that is not being mentioned. What is the back story? | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them." erm yes i agree with you....just wanted to reply to your post lol | |||
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" Probably have to ask them, I imagine maybe a mix of both. Sometimes a dickhead doesn’t know they’re a dickhead until they’re told they’re a dickhead. Ok, so does anyone here think that they've posted toxic replies or upset anyone with a reply to a post?" I know for a fact I've upset people with some of my replies, more often than not unintentionally. I've had "friends" contact me in regard to toxic messages they have received and when they shared them I genuinely couldn't see any abusive language or anything that could be taken negatively. When I've told them that my interpretation of these messages is completely different and based on that I wouldn't be messaging or reporting the "abuser" I've become the bad guy. Some of those people have also taken offence at forum comments others have made and asked me to back them up in their response. When I've pointed out that the comments were about someone else entirely and had nothing to do with them they have unfriended me. As always there can be 3 sides to every fab story. | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them." Good idea this | |||
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"If you comment after every post they make in the forum, we’ll be able to tell who it was without you having to name and shame them. Good idea this " It's not a good idea. If admin have evidence and I stress the word 'evidence' they will take action. | |||
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