FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for someone

By *adybyday OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Swansea

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Falling for someone happens all the time sucks when they dont catch you but pain teaches you your alive i suppose

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

Don't do it! It's a trap!

No idea what you said... however good luck in whatever it was!

Jay

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

Op, I don't think you can fall for someone after meeting them once. Maybe the idea of them. Maybe it's really great sex. Whatever it is, take some time for you as you're clearly hurting a little bit. x

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

"Op, I don't think you can fall for someone after meeting them once. Maybe the idea of them. Maybe it's really great sex. Whatever it is, take some time for you as you're clearly hurting a little bit. x"

Hmmm...

Ok we had been speaking for a few months before we met... however I did truly fall in love with Brunette that first day we met.... 14 years later and many more to go 😀

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

Hmmm...

Ok we had been speaking for a few months before we met... however I did truly fall in love with Brunette that first day we met.... 14 years later and many more to go 😀 "

Okay... OP, add the word generally to my post. Thanks.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

Awww feelings

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

Hmmm...

Ok we had been speaking for a few months before we met... however I did truly fall in love with Brunette that first day we met.... 14 years later and many more to go 😀 "
was about to say the same for us. We both had feelings before we met x and after the first time.. definitely down the rabbit hole

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By *nya NeesWoman
6 weeks ago

Brum

Sometimes shit happens 😁

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

Feelings...they are like bright butterflies on a summer's day. Fragile, delicate, sometimes hard to catch but difficult to let go. 🦋

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By *issBellaWoman
6 weeks ago

Wales

You can't help feelings, I know. But fab and feelings aren't always the best combination.

Take some time for you, think about whether this is the place for you right now. If you still wish to come back, make sure you put barriers up (much easier said than done). Think ice queen, you're halfway there. Sending hugs

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By *ABflirtyWoman
6 weeks ago

Norwich

We all have feelings and at times if you click and you like its very easy to have feelings. If chatted to them along time before you meet .

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

I did not see the op... but Op.. sometimes lust is amazing... we can feel we have really connected... being in lust with someone can have the same effect as the other L word..

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By *ABflirtyWoman
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"I did not see the op... but Op.. sometimes lust is amazing... we can feel we have really connected... being in lust with someone can have the same effect as the other L word.. "
very true . x

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By *adybyday OP Woman
6 weeks ago

Swansea

Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch.

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By *illy IdolMan
6 weeks ago

Midlands

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch."

Whatever you said, I wouldn't feel stupid. My fwb told me she loved me, quickly deleted it out of embarrassment, and then blamed it on a typo.

Enjoy your boozy lunch

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch."

Exploration is the beauty of life!

Enjoy

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By *aizyWoman
6 weeks ago

west midlands

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch.

Whatever you said, I wouldn't feel stupid. My fwb told me she loved me, quickly deleted it out of embarrassment, and then blamed it on a typo.

Enjoy your boozy lunch

A fab love story! 😍😍

Glad you are feeling better about things OP, enjoy your lunch.

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By *emma200Woman
6 weeks ago

Warwickshire

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch."

Enjoy your lunch OP.. Hope your feeling better soon x

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch.

Whatever you said, I wouldn't feel stupid. My fwb told me she loved me, quickly deleted it out of embarrassment, and then blamed it on a typo.

Enjoy your boozy lunch

I think that's really beautiful. Love can spring from unexpected places. 💕

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By *illy IdolMan
6 weeks ago

Midlands

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch.

Whatever you said, I wouldn't feel stupid. My fwb told me she loved me, quickly deleted it out of embarrassment, and then blamed it on a typo.

Enjoy your boozy lunch

I think that's really beautiful. Love can spring from unexpected places. 💕"

Hold off on your new hat for now. It was a typo, remember 🤥

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

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i knew you loved bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

i knew you loved bollocks"

You have some mighty fine ones

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By *aitonelMan
6 weeks ago

Away for Christmas

"People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

i knew you loved bollocks"

She keeps them in a jar. Takes them out to use as stress balls.

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

i knew you loved bollocks

You have some mighty fine ones"
awwww thats the loveliest thing iv read in years

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I once fell for a woman on sight. We hadn't even spoken yet. I woo'd her for months. We were together 17yrs.

I think love is a place inside us all and occasionally we meet a person who's very presence elevates us into that place of love. When we both feel the same we are in love together.

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By *mf123Man
6 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"People meet, get on and have great sex and have to make it more.

The lust generally wears off and people just settle.

Bollocks to that.

i knew you loved bollocks

She keeps them in a jar. Takes them out to use as stress balls. "

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By *aitonelMan
6 weeks ago

Away for Christmas

I thought/felt like I fell for somebody a couple of years ago. I was in a bad headspace, I needed a person and insecurities lached on to someone I was "close" with. Making it seem that much more intense. Eventually I snapped out of it and realised what it was.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
6 weeks ago

Southampton

Fell for my fwb.... it didn't end well for me

so now I'm very guarded ... I have no intention of having that happen again

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By *ewlyescapedMan
6 weeks ago

Mumbles

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By *ildTimes.Man
6 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Catching feels... Can end badly, unless you both feel the same...

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By *ntrigued888Woman
6 weeks ago

Beds

I definitely caught feelings for someone I met on here 2 years ago.

It was amazing while it lasted and no one has come close 💔

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By *Jblue321Man
6 weeks ago

Chester

Normally very guarded but do feel I’ve met someone recently so enjoying it whilst it lasts and shoot me in a couple of months when I regret saying that

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Stockport

I must be the worst girl in the world for this. I offer love so easily. But different kinds of love. Love that somebody is lovely. Love that gives lust. Love that is friendship and games. Love that is welcoming into my extended family of friends. Love that might grow into forever feeling. Love that is spiritual. Love for myself. Love of humanity, for the goodness that I see in others (or too often now, fail to see in others 😥).

The love that I try to feel, because without it there is only despair 😭

So I'll tell someone that they are lovely. I'll tell them that I love them for being a fellow human, for being side by side in this odyssey that we call life. I'll say that I love them because their wonderfully imperfect nipples give me joy. I'll say that I love someone because their presence in my life, even if only briefly and tangentially, means my life is better than if they had never been there.

Maybe one day someone will say it back to me.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Well I feel really stupid now, thought the whole thread would vanish.

Met him twice, spent a lot of time messaging in between.

I just thought we clicked and it was worth exploring, anyway I’ve put my big girls pants on and I’ve had a lovely message so I’m off out for a boozy lunch.

Whatever you said, I wouldn't feel stupid. My fwb told me she loved me, quickly deleted it out of embarrassment, and then blamed it on a typo.

Enjoy your boozy lunch

I think that's really beautiful. Love can spring from unexpected places.... 💕"

...such as catacombs, crypts and care homes. I'm really pleased for you, Willy, dear chap. 🩶🩶

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By *usty kayCouple
6 weeks ago

Burnham

I managed 11 years of not falling for anyone on here and I'm deadly determined to never let it happen again to the point where I'm considering giving up swinging without my husband.

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