FabSwingers.com forum: Openers

By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

So hard to get noticed on here, whats an opener you like? Just a Hi? A joke?

I’m trying to get my profile too down to something good, thats a challenge. Some I’ve seen just say fill in later, others are fully loaded and explain a lot. What’s a good thing to put?

Thanks

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By *ucka39Man
36 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

You could do a forum search, help and advice, there is loads of useful information by plenty of people from the forum

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Hey" works. If you're cash-strapped because of the third letter then "Hi" will usually suffice, OP. 🩶

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

There's lots of men around here, and there's lots of bland profiles.

Work out how you want to stand out and represent yourself.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

""Hey" works. If you're cash-strapped because of the third letter then "Hi" will usually suffice, OP. 🩶"

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

How are you?

Good thank. You?

Good thanks. Fancy a fuck?

No.

Ok.

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By *hunky GentMan
36 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"There's lots of men around here, and there's lots of bland profiles.

Work out how you want to stand out and represent yourself. "

Find your USP.

i.e. my love for blue underwear.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
36 weeks ago

kent

"So hard to get noticed on here, whats an opener you like? Just a Hi? A joke?

I’m trying to get my profile too down to something good, thats a challenge. Some I’ve seen just say fill in later, others are fully loaded and explain a lot. What’s a good thing to put?

Thanks "

Politeness and respect ought to be a given. So what else is there? Figure out how to convey your personality in the things you write and photographs you post. Do that and you’ll be on the right path.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"There's lots of men around here, and there's lots of bland profiles.

Work out how you want to stand out and represent yourself.

Find your USP.

i.e. my love for blue underwear.

You never mentioned it before Chunky!! 🤣

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By *partharmonyCouple
36 weeks ago

Ruislip

If it's a message, showyou have read the profile by responding to something on it. Show you might be able to hold a conversation. Don't talk about sex.

If it's a profile, try to add a it of humour and don't have 20 photos of your knob.

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By *hunky GentMan
36 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"There's lots of men around here, and there's lots of bland profiles.

Work out how you want to stand out and represent yourself.

Find your USP.

i.e. my love for blue underwear.

You never mentioned it before Chunky!! 🤣"

Shhhhh. It's a secret.

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By *om TangoMan
36 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Maybe you’re sending the wrong kind of messages. Messages like are you horny or want to meet up now will not work. Surely over in the uk with all the clubs it should be easy to get yourself out there. Try find a club that hold nights for those not verified or a local meet and greet social. Your profile says NSA which is fair enough but most ladies would at least like a social to rule out a few things like your not a nutter, you can hold a conversation and you can be respectful. The best way to open a lady’s legs is to open her heart first. Even in a club it’s not a butcher shop where you can walk around fucking ladies like a piece of meat.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's a bit contradictory, you say you have a busy schedule, but then you want to be spontaneous.

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By *exymilf2203Couple
36 weeks ago

Farnborough

An introduction that just say “hi” or “I’m free tonight” just doesn’t cut it with us. Equally, when it is obviously the person has not read or understood our profile, that also gets an instant “ delete”

There are a lot of guys out there offering who do make an effort but to stand out and maybe raise a bit of interest by the wife the opening message needs to make her smile.

This is difficult as it is first contact and therefore the person doesn’t know her sense of humour so I guess our advice is write more than just a “hi” or “do you want to get lucky” but will still be a hit and miss as to whether there is an initial connection

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By *mf123Man
36 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Dick pics the birds love em cant get enough you should send 3 to every woman you see on this thread

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By *ondoner27Man
35 weeks ago

london

"So hard to get noticed on here, whats an opener you like? Just a Hi? A joke?

I’m trying to get my profile too down to something good, thats a challenge. Some I’ve seen just say fill in later, others are fully loaded and explain a lot. What’s a good thing to put?

Thanks "

My advice is don’t waste time just saying hi or something similar, assuming you are targeting women or couples they get lots of messages so probably won’t get involved in slow back and forth small talk. Introduce yourself say why their profile appealed to you and why based on their profile you feel you could be a potential match.

For your profile, I’d say it’s better to be clear what you are looking for/can offer so that people can find you.

Best advice I can give you is take note of preferences listed in profiles. If they mention body type, cock size, height etc and you don’t meet the requirements don’t bother messaging them, it’s extremely unlikely you will be the exception to their rule

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Noted!

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By *urry BlokeMan
35 weeks ago

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By *urry BlokeMan
35 weeks ago

I guess you are asking for profile advice by proxy?

Maybe look at setting yourself a profile pic / avatar

A lot of people won't even open your profile without an 'enticer'

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By *Silver-Man
35 weeks ago

North Wales

Keep your profile short not to long, long reads can get boring, sort some decent pics in your gallery. Message with some enthusiasm, be confident but not arrogant, you may get a response, you may not...take it on the chin if you dont, be patient and you'll be on a roll before you know it

Your welcome..

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