FabSwingers.com forum: Being a newbie on the scene

Sheffield

So I'm new around these parts as a few already know . Between having a decent profile ( think I'm there haha ) there's getting verified off of people which is totally understandable. There's all these events on to explore , I'd love to go to some like derby Leeds etc but being new I'm not keen on travelling alone to them either .

I could go on I suppose but I won't do . What do the ones who've been in the lifestyle think about being a newbie nowadays ?

Haha if there's anyone who fancies adopting me under their wing feel free to apply in DMs 🤗😊

By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
2 days ago

Stoke

Put your big boy pants on and get yourself off to a club. Honestly, everyone is really friendly in clubs, just have zero expectations and chat to people best you can, you'll be fine

By *imi_RougeWoman
2 days ago

Portsmouth

Try one of the socials off here, at least theres going to be some kind of familiar faces there.

By *anterandbrains OP Man
2 days ago

Sheffield

"Put your big boy pants on and get yourself off to a club. Honestly, everyone is really friendly in clubs, just have zero expectations and chat to people best you can, you'll be fine

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I've broken the ice there . It's going further afield like the attic and Pandora's . I've heard they are amazing but the size alone puts me off if I'm by myself

By *exxyyDy11Man
2 days ago

North West

Big social events are probably the best way for a single male. I've been to a few clubs as a single guy before and a lot of single guys seem to hide away. At least that is what I've seen. Which I can completely understand as can be daunting. But if you're introverted and willing to chat to anyone, I'd recommend club visits too besides social events.