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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral

Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

Oh shit, that's awful, so sorry for your loss.. sending hugs xx

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over

Sounds awful, so sorry.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
12 weeks ago

Bradford


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "

sorry to hear that hope you are ok xx

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

Oh my gosh, how dreadfully sad. Sorry for your loss 😔❤️

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By *ackformore100Man
12 weeks ago

Tin town


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "

That's the second one I've seen in the fora today. Good grief. Sorry to hear that.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

Sorry to hear about this. Terrifying to think about losing people that mean something to you. Especially in this world. Some people might never find out.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
12 weeks ago

St Leonards

That's a lovely public tribute OPs.

I'm sorry he's gone, for you and all who knew and cared for him.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
12 weeks ago

wonderland.

Oh no. Sorry for your loss Op.

Cali x

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Sorry to hear about this. Terrifying to think about losing people that mean something to you. Especially in this world. Some people might never find out. "

Yes, we are lucky in that regard. May have been easier to think he had decided to ghost us have we not learned the truth.

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Sorry to hear about this. Terrifying to think about losing people that mean something to you. Especially in this world. Some people might never find out.

Yes, we are lucky in that regard. May have been easier to think he had decided to ghost us have we not learned the truth."

I'm so sorry x

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By *usty kayCouple
12 weeks ago

Burnham

Sending love and condolences

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
12 weeks ago

Merseyside


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man "

So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man

So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx"

We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.

We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man

So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx

We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.

We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be."

You were friends. Nobody needs to know anymore than that.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

Such a beautifully poignant post, OP, and also very sad. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. 🩶💚

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

Very sad news indeed, we're sorry to read about this 🖤

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Just under 3 years ago we found a guy on FAB who we invited into our sex life and who became a great friend outside the bedroom as well as in it.

We last met up with him about three weeks ago and earlier today we found out that he has passed away very suddenly. To say we are shattered would be an understatement.

Thank you FAB, if it wasn't for you we would never have met such a warm, friendly, entertaining and remarkable man

So so sorry to hear this hope you are both gonna be ok xx

We will be I'm sure once the shock subsides.

We both want to say goodbye but also both realise how awkward that may possibly be.

You were friends. Nobody needs to know anymore than that.

"

We (all 3) both kept this side of our life relatively private, the hardest thing is going to be being kept up to date with things such as a funeral date etc.

We did make contact yesterday with somebody who knew him and they said that they would keep us abreast of developments. Fingers crossed that they do.

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Awww that’s sad. At least you have the good times as memories.

I often wonder how many old friends pass away here without anyone knowing because there’s a lot of secrecy and discretion, and people often drop off the site. At least with old friends in the real world, you have a chance of reading about it on Facebook.

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Awww that’s sad. At least you have the good times as memories.

I often wonder how many old friends pass away here without anyone knowing because there’s a lot of secrecy and discretion, and people often drop off the site. At least with old friends in the real world, you have a chance of reading about it on Facebook."

Precisely, so much easier with SM but we never even exchanged full names - it was something mutually agreed on at the start and it just stayed that way.

But at least we do have a contact (who is a female) so I'm gonna let Rach take point on this as it may be easier (woman to woman).

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By *esparate danMan
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Thats a real shame being so close. How did you find out

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Thats a real shame being so close. How did you find out"

We recalled him telling us about a shop he used to volunteer in and the area it was roughly in. He would often send photos from there & with the aid of Google etc we were able to pin down the business.

I was working in the area yesterday and called in, spoke to the manager who informed us that he had passed.

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By *omRach OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Wirral


"Thats a real shame being so close. How did you find out"

I should add also that we hadn't heard from him for a few days and he hadn't been online for 3 days - hence our concern.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield

So sad and such a shock for you, sending hugs as needed x

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Oh goodness I’m so sorry for your loss

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Swansea

Oh that's sad. Sending you both our condolences.

Mrs

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By *uriousscouserWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral

Oh what a shock for you, and how horribly sad.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

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By *imply_SensualMan
12 weeks ago

Widnes

Thats awful news, so condolences to you both. Hopefully you are kept informed of the funeral arrangements and so glad yo found out before the funeral so you can pay your respects properly.

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