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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Hello there you chilly Willy & other bits frozen fabbers

What’s your ideal first meet with a new fab acquaintance ?

Coffee? Boozy? Cake? Meal?

Where are you most relaxed / comfy to be yourself ?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Coffee house or pub

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By *ernow1982Man
9 weeks ago

Plymouth

I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they

are comfortable with. 😊

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By *igwill69Man
9 weeks ago

London

Afternoon coffee, followed by a drink of we click

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
9 weeks ago

bedford

Local dogging site

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex

Meet for a coffee or meal x

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By *enk15Man
9 weeks ago

Evesham

A game of pool

Having a meal with someone i just met sounds horrendous.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"A game of pool

Having a meal with someone i just met sounds horrendous."

Pool, bowling or crazy golf is my 2nd date, brings out the fun side of them, I like seeing that

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Pub sits well with me

If they turn out to be weird, i can leg it.

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By *enk15Man
9 weeks ago

Evesham


"A game of pool

Having a meal with someone i just met sounds horrendous.

Pool, bowling or crazy golf is my 2nd date, brings out the fun side of them, I like seeing that"

Bowling I’ll probably trip and make a tit of myself 😂 crazy golf sounds good though

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By *oodo69Man
9 weeks ago

London (visiting frequently)

A nice pub or a good bar is always a good start.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
9 weeks ago

Always on the move

Pub, coffee shop, Go-Karting track. Any of them really

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By *ittynzWoman
9 weeks ago

Richmond

Drink in a bar /pub and see if we connect

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Down behind the public conveniences in the park

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A pub as long as it’s not too quiet

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet "
I can chat way too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

First meets have included pub, coffee/patisserie, park (with my dog in tow), waffle place (and I can chat) and the worst (at her request) has been MacDonalds!

Personally, I like a nice country pub, with comfy armchairs and at this time of year a roaring fire.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
9 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

At mine or there place... most trannies are slags 😹 ..were not looking for social meets first.. we are very much wanting the sex straight away..

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet "

Quiet pubs are really awkward …

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By *uperSalopian7Man
9 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Meet for a drink, social only, relaxed and no pressure

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By *ickie_RankingMan
9 weeks ago

London

Meet for a cole/hot drink, plenty of flirting and then knockin boots all night long.

Happened once but not all night long lol

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet I can chat way too much!! "

I'm surprised you don't get jaw ache.

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london


"Coffee house or pub"

Do they do tea 😁

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By *hris-1980Man
9 weeks ago

Nr Tamworth

Ideal first meet:

Daytime: I like a nice coffee or a walk (better if we can do both.) plenty of nice places to wonder and there’s always a good coffee shop somewhere, even better if it has an open fire.

Evenings: I like to go to a nice Pub (nothing super busy and somewhere we can have a proper chat to see if we click, if we want to go further from there then we can or we can arrange another outing or just go our separate ways nothing is on or off the table in my mind.)

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet

Quiet pubs are really awkward …"

They can be. Pool is better

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Coffee house or pub"

What’s your choice of coffee?

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they

are comfortable with. 😊"

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Local dogging site "

Straight to business

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Meet for a coffee or meal x "

Straight to a meal is it …

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"A game of pool

Having a meal with someone i just met sounds horrendous."

Like this relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Walk would be great. Coffee or pub OK

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Pub sits well with me

If they turn out to be weird, i can leg it.

"

Checking for escape routes on entry

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"At mine or there place... most trannies are slags 😹 ..were not looking for social meets first.. we are very much wanting the sex straight away.."

Hahaha straight to it

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By *rill PhilMan
9 weeks ago

Crediton

Bowling

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet

Quiet pubs are really awkward …

They can be. Pool is better "

Much

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Coffee house or pub

What’s your choice of coffee? "

Latte

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Coffee house or pub

What’s your choice of coffee?

Latte "

Noted, if ever you’re needing a free coffee let me know

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Bowling"

This sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Oct/Nov/Dec

A cold evening,in a bar.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Oct/Nov/Dec

A cold evening,in a bar."

So the bar has a warm fire to sit in front of ?

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Oct/Nov/Dec

A cold evening,in a bar.

So the bar has a warm fire to sit in front of ? "

No. It just has rum.

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A nice country pub.

Sat next to the fire.

Seeing the light from the fire reflect in her beautiful eyes.

Humorous conversation.

Flirting.

......

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … "

always hungry!!

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Coffee, save the rest for the shenanigans if it leads that way

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet I can chat way too much!!

I'm surprised you don't get jaw ache. "

I didn’t chat a lot lol. 🙈😂

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet I can chat way too much!!

I'm surprised you don't get jaw ache. I didn’t chat a lot lol. 🙈😂"

Yeah..... you was too busy undressing me with your eyes.

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex


"A pub as long as it’s not too quiet I can chat way too much!!

I'm surprised you don't get jaw ache. I didn’t chat a lot lol. 🙈😂

Yeah..... you was too busy undressing me with your eyes. "

haha, the other way round. lol 😊

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Oct/Nov/Dec

A cold evening,in a bar.

So the bar has a warm fire to sit in front of ?

No. It just has rum.

"

Dark like sailor type ?

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!! "

But for what?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chester

This time of year I think the christmas markets are good for either a date / social. You can get sloshed on mulled wine if all wlsw fails

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Drink and a cake, chat and make a second date

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I have had ,pub meet , picked her up from her job, met at her house , im easy as long as im confident and feel relaxed

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By *rs spicyCouple
9 weeks ago

Chesterfield near centre

I much prefer pub meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Chips that’s all I require 😂😂

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I much prefer pub meets. "

Do you have a certain pub you always choose?

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Chips that’s all I require 😂😂"

Salt & vinegar?

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"This time of year I think the christmas markets are good for either a date / social. You can get sloshed on mulled wine if all wlsw fails "

Now is Xmas markets a date meet? Or a fab social? Or am I separating the 2 but both are the same thing? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Chips that’s all I require 😂😂

Salt & vinegar? "

Just salt and preferably from a seaside chippy 👍🏽

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By *orbidden eastMan
9 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

A coffee, a walk and a few good laughs and if the hours feel like minutes, I think we would be on a good thing

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By *inger_SnapWoman
9 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Coffee and cake, with a walk. Easier to chat and doesn't feel like an interview!

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? "

that would be telling! X

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X"

SEX I tell ya, sex!

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"This time of year I think the christmas markets are good for either a date / social. You can get sloshed on mulled wine if all wlsw fails "

Now is Xmas markets a date meet? Or a fab social? Or am I separating the 2 but both are the same thing? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Chips that’s all I require 😂😂

Salt & vinegar?

Just salt and preferably from a seaside chippy 👍🏽"

I'm in for Chips

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex! "

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Chips that’s all I require 😂😂

Salt & vinegar?

Just salt and preferably from a seaside chippy 👍🏽

I'm in for Chips "

Boosh job done 😉 all you need are chips 😂😂😂😘

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣"

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Pub sits well with me

If they turn out to be weird, i can leg it.

Checking for escape routes on entry "

With thighs like yours, don't run out on me. Walk very slowly in tight shorts to the exit please!

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards "

Nice 🤪

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards

Nice 🤪"

I'm a catch

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Coffee house or pub

Do they do tea 😁"

We’ll find 1 that does

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards

Nice 🤪

I'm a catch "

Well you didn't say you were getting me any chips and scraps

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards

Nice 🤪

I'm a catch

Well you didn't say you were getting me any chips and scraps "

I'll push the boat out, and get mushy peas too. Just for you lushness

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"Meet for a coffee or meal x

Straight to a meal is it … always hungry!!

But for what? that would be telling! X

SEX I tell ya, sex!

Finally, skip all the shiz and get down to it 🤣

I'll get some chips and scraps afterwards

Nice 🤪

I'm a catch

Well you didn't say you were getting me any chips and scraps

I'll push the boat out, and get mushy peas too. Just for you lushness "

Oh you read my mind 🥰

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

A coffee and a chat

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

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By *ernow1982Man
9 weeks ago

Plymouth


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets "

Had my first dog walk and cuppa meet not too long ago and it was lovely. Not only do I love dogs, they're also nice to talk about and play with.

It really added extra enjoyment to the time we spent together. 😄

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By *ickedtiesCouple
9 weeks ago

limerick

Coffee meet usually...but some have been straight to the hotel room 😋😈

Mrs

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂"

Same 🤣

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

Same 🤣"

What! Brummie time soon then

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

Same 🤣"

I'll stick with my "Tried and tested organised group social method™"

Works well for me 😍

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

Same 🤣

What! Brummie time soon then "

Bring it 😁😘

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

Same 🤣

What! Brummie time soon then

Bring it 😁😘"

......looks at Avanti Trains website

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By *nya NeesWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"2 years in, still not done a one to one as a first social. Not sure I ever will. 😂

Same 🤣

What! Brummie time soon then

Bring it 😁😘

......looks at Avanti Trains website "

😁😘

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By *nsaneronMan
9 weeks ago

denmead


"Pub sits well with me

If they turn out to be weird, i can leg it.

"

Bars or coffee shops are good because they have a safe system for women to help them feel safe nowadays

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By *enk15Man
9 weeks ago

Evesham


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets

Had my first dog walk and cuppa meet not too long ago and it was lovely. Not only do I love dogs, they're also nice to talk about and play with.

It really added extra enjoyment to the time we spent together. 😄"

I would try that but my dogs are a fucking nightmare

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
9 weeks ago

West Suffolk/Essex

Straight to the action

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By *ad NannaWoman
9 weeks ago

East London

Warm beach, swimming, spot of lunch at a beachside bistro.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Coffee. Love coffee. Don't think I've ever been to a restaurant or gone out for a meal when cooking was an option. Don't like pubs or bars because of the smell of booze, kinda grim. Cake is too much sugar. Yes, I am as boring as I sound

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By *ointer69Man
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

Golf courses

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

Airport arrivals.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"A coffee and a chat "

Deal, when

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By *exySiren01Woman
9 weeks ago

RCT

Am I the only one that gets more nervous meeting someone for a social meet than just meeting them and getting straight down to business lol

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
9 weeks ago

Merseyside

Definitely a coffee or pub social in the daytime to be chilled out

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By *cotlad178Man
9 weeks ago

falkirk


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they

are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets "

having a dog didn't realise this was a thing? Do people advertise on there profile?

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By *rReyMan
9 weeks ago

Fleet

Ooh I asked this a few days ago. For me it's a cafe, pub meet. Chilled, maybe a bite to eat and see how the flirting goes, or not as the case may be.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Am I the only one that gets more nervous meeting someone for a social meet than just meeting them and getting straight down to business lol"

I think we all have that nervous excitement for a social as it’s more chatty / interavtive? Whereas the ‘business’ is just business??

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Definitely a coffee or pub social in the daytime to be chilled out "

Are you a Costa kind of folk? Or something a little more independent ?

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By *NewBNWOMan
9 weeks ago

back

Depends but I do love a first meet where it's straight to action. If we have a good connection we'll have fun doing food or going for drinks another time

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By *imply_SensualMan
9 weeks ago

Widnes

Something relaxed like coffee, pub or walk for that initial meet. In public, no expectations until both/all agree to go further.

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By *ernow1982Man
9 weeks ago

Plymouth


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets having a dog didn't realise this was a thing? Do people advertise on there profile?"

No, it just came up in conversation. I ask questions before we meet. A lost art, given the complaints of dick pics in recent years. 😂

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets having a dog didn't realise this was a thing? Do people advertise on there profile?

No, it just came up in conversation. I ask questions before we meet. A lost art, given the complaints of dick pics in recent years. 😂"

You converse prior to a meet, get outta here you old romantic you with your conversational buttering up

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By *cotlad178Man
9 weeks ago

falkirk


"I like a cuppa, maybe a walk (especially if they have dogs). But ultimately whatever they are comfortable with. 😊

Oooo I’ve never had anyone bring pets having a dog didn't realise this was a thing? Do people advertise on there profile?

No, it just came up in conversation. I ask questions before we meet. A lost art, given the complaints of dick pics in recent years. 😂"

know they can be used as a catfishing technique in the dating scene so I avoid posting him.

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By *erfHerder74Man
9 weeks ago

Inverclyde

A walk somewhere quiet, chat and a wee kiss and cuddle if there’s chemistry

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Anything but a quiet coffee shop. When the topic of Fab comes up and I speak about some of my first disastrous meets I want them to belly laugh out loud rather than stifled chuckles and looking around.

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

For me typically it's a quick luncheon in some quaint café or perhaps coffee and cake.

More recently it's been a more cultural affair — an art gallery or museum, or perhaps an exhibition.

Occasionally it's also dinner.

I prefer quirky socials and first meets.

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Anything but a quiet coffee shop. When the topic of Fab comes up and I speak about some of my first disastrous meets I want them to belly laugh out loud rather than stifled chuckles and looking around."

Aren’t we allowed to belly laugh in coffee shops anymore? What’s the world come to

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Anything but a quiet coffee shop. When the topic of Fab comes up and I speak about some of my first disastrous meets I want them to belly laugh out loud rather than stifled chuckles and looking around.

Aren’t we allowed to belly laugh in coffee shops anymore? What’s the world come to "

I had a meet in Starbies last year and we dissected Fab between us and it was far too quiet to discuss 'treating with respect' topics. It needed a pub.

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By *ernow1982Man
9 weeks ago

Plymouth


"You converse prior to a meet, get outta here you old romantic you with your conversational buttering up "

Haha, I know. Absolute madness! What is the world coming to?! I'll get me coat...


"know they can be used as a catfishing technique in the dating scene so I avoid posting him."

Sadly, it's true that many people see it as cat (or dog?) fishing there days. Instead of just showing something that you love.

If I had a dog, I would either mention it on my profile or have one picture. I'd be proud to have them in my life, not feel the pressure from sites and apps to hide them, purely because someone decided it was dishonest to show your love for an animal who lives with you.

The world has got it's head up it's own arse, that's for sure. 😂

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By *enegadeM OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Oxfordshire


"Anything but a quiet coffee shop. When the topic of Fab comes up and I speak about some of my first disastrous meets I want them to belly laugh out loud rather than stifled chuckles and looking around.

Aren’t we allowed to belly laugh in coffee shops anymore? What’s the world come to

I had a meet in Starbies last year and we dissected Fab between us and it was far too quiet to discuss 'treating with respect' topics. It needed a pub. "

Ah that’s because you went to Starbies (I did not realise we could give it a nickname) Costa standard would have allowed for outbursts

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By *he AmbassadorMan
9 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Decent Wine bar, with small tables, just in case a covert reach n grab is on the cards

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Decent Wine bar, with small tables, just in case a covert reach n grab is on the cards "

Jesus. Check you out. Imagine having to fork out £20 for a glass of Black Tower and instantly don't feel the vibe for a 'reach and grab'

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Decent Wine bar, with small tables, just in case a covert reach n grab is on the cards

Jesus. Check you out. Imagine having to fork out £20 for a glass of Black Tower and instantly don't feel the vibe for a 'reach and grab'"

Can I sit in between you two?

Let's face it, it could be very amusing! 🤭🤣

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

Not going to lie, love a coffee to start with. If the sexual tension is there that’s just perfect.

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands


"Not going to lie, love a coffee to start with. If the sexual tension is there that’s just perfect. "

This! Just have to make sure you meet somewhere they make nice coffee, at least that way if there is no sexual tension you can just enjoy your coffee.

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By *NormalMan01Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Not going to lie, love a coffee to start with. If the sexual tension is there that’s just perfect.

This! Just have to make sure you meet somewhere they make nice coffee, at least that way if there is no sexual tension you can just enjoy your coffee."

We getting that coffee then Daizy?

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands


"Not going to lie, love a coffee to start with. If the sexual tension is there that’s just perfect.

This! Just have to make sure you meet somewhere they make nice coffee, at least that way if there is no sexual tension you can just enjoy your coffee.

We getting that coffee then Daizy? "

Anywhere but Starbucks!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Decent Wine bar, with small tables, just in case a covert reach n grab is on the cards

Jesus. Check you out. Imagine having to fork out £20 for a glass of Black Tower and instantly don't feel the vibe for a 'reach and grab'

Can I sit in between you two?

Let's face it, it could be very amusing! 🤭🤣"

For a birthday girl we will come naked

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