FabSwingers.com forum: Be honest!! How was the experience?

By *ickie_Ranking OP Man
12 weeks ago

London

Have you ever been with an esc0rt,

gigolo, working lady/gentleman, prost*tute , renter, tom, strumpet etc and how was the experience?

This post has a maximum of 0.1% judgement 😆

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By *iker JackMan
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

That’s still too much judgment for me 🤣

But I cannot honestly say I have not knowingly been with one

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Swansea

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Why not?

Mrs

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By *iker JackMan
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Why? What’s the issue?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Why not? What's wrong with sex workers?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I l8ve your optimism about the judgement. Some of tge most judgey people I've come across reside in these forums. 😆

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

The oldest profession. Each to their own

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Did not take long for the prejudice to start

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have never paid for an e*cort but I have met a lady on a fab meet who it turns out has worked as an e*cort.

If I am honest she was exceptional. I don’t know quite what she was doing differently but it all added up to an amazing experience. Everything was just slightly more sensual, a touch more tactile or lasted a fraction of a second longer than normal. Mind blown.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

As for answering your question, mixed experiences. Some have literally only been interested in the money and don't care if you know with the experience being nothing as described. Others hide the fact it's for the money better and at least deliver what's promised.

If you want anything other than a fun way to scratch your itch (like genuine care) then don't pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Might wanna up the 0.1% with this so early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"
dodgy experience in Bangkok ? Seriously mate it's a sex positive environment around here in general 😉

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Think that's a guilty answer, bet you've really been balls deep in a lady of the night! 😂

Mr F.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Think that's a guilty answer, bet you've really been balls deep in a lady of the night! 😂

Mr F. "
I'm an arctic monkey so I have the accent for when Roxanne puts on her red light 🤣

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

I don't rule it out, for when older and potentially interesting men are thinner on the ground.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
12 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Have you ever been with an esc0rt,

gigolo, working lady/gentleman, prost*tute , renter, tom, strumpet etc and how was the experience?

This post has a maximum of 0.1% judgement 😆 "

Have you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

My ex once spent 400 pound of our money on one, couldn't tell you if she was worth it or not but guess he had fun 🤷🏽‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"My ex once spent 400 pound of our money on one, couldn't tell you if she was worth it or not but guess he had fun 🤷🏽‍♀️"

Sorry to hear about that

It’s easy to forget that men in relationships are more likely to use such services

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

Experience was the same as meeting anyone else in a night club

that's where I met her and was told few days after. Wasn't any exchange beside body fluid

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By *laret_jonoMan
12 weeks ago

Clitheroe

On a stag do in Amsterdam. When in Rome and all that.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
12 weeks ago

Risca

Yeah, spent a fortune on one..p!ssed up on a stag doo in Estonia. We showered, had sex, showered again, went to bed, had sex, showered, had sex in a hot tub, then showered. I was pretty clean at the end of it, but felt so dirty. It was great.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

"Yeah, spent a fortune on one..p!ssed up on a stag doo in Estonia. We showered, had sex, showered again, went to bed, had sex, showered, had sex in a hot tub, then showered. I was pretty clean at the end of it, but felt so dirty. It was great."

Sounds like you got your moneys worth 🤣🤣

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By *rSircumsizedMan
12 weeks ago

Risca

Sounds like you got your moneys worth 🤣🤣"

Just on shower gel alone

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

I've never paid for sex. I'm quite shrouded surprised that even for an "ugly fucker" I've always done ok for myself and never felt the need to pay. Think I'd also rather be with someone who wants to be with me than doing it just for money

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
12 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

"I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔 "

Surely you get plenty of offers for that to not need to pay for it

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
12 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔

Surely you get plenty of offers for that to not need to pay for it"

Yes but I wouldn’t be expected to have sex if I paid 😂 there’s always a catch here

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By *airyfatmanMan
12 weeks ago

by 'ere

"I think I’d pay for a happy ending massage but that’s about it. 🤔

Surely you get plenty of offers for that to not need to pay for it

Yes but I wouldn’t be expected to have sex if I paid 😂 there’s always a catch here "

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"
this is more than 0.1%

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By *k_123Man
12 weeks ago

the north

The best sex I’ve had is with one , in fact it gets better every time we meet. I really don't find it an issue as we both really enjoy or time together and we both get what we want from the arrangement.

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

I found it very impersonal and was just to ‘scratch an itch’ I didn’t fancy a repeat visit

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By *otguy555Man
12 weeks ago

Bristol

Met one once and she was a really nice woman. We chatted and had some drinks and started getting naked. We had fun for about 3 hours from kissing and sucking to full on sex. Every way possible. She was only supposed to be there for 2 hours but she was with me for about 6 hours. We were messaging after for about 3 weeks and she even took me out for a few pints. Lovely woman

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Bought a bottle of champagne in a strip club in Geneva after skiing holiday years ago. Hadnt cum for a week!

She sucked me and then shared the champagne! Most expensive champagne I've ever bought but I've never paid for an lady of the night.

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By *aughty driverMan
12 weeks ago

Romford

One of my best 3xperiences ever being with an escrt. Met the same personn a few times i must admit

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By *electableicecreamMan
12 weeks ago

The West

Myself and my friend were looking for a blind thumb massage in phnom penh in Cambodia and instead the taxi bike guys brought us to a hotel that had a glass wall with three tiers of women wearing numbers.

I don't know why we didn't just walk out. I felt like a rabbit in a headlight. I picked one at random and we sat on the hotel bed watching Crimson Tide and comparing my white skin to her tan until the clock ran out. It was a good laugh. She didn't speak a word of English. I paid her about five times what she asked and told the guy at the front desk she was amazing. I was 19.

And I remember walking back to my hostel through the red light district late one night in Amsterdam. Two beautiful women told a very merry me I could have both of them. I'd no money left. Still think about it. Think I was 22.

If I had the money spare to pay for a woman who was a master of her craft I'd absolutely do it.

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By *ripfillMan
12 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

The oldest profession. Each to their own "

Beg to differ … personally the oldest profession I think is midwifery !

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

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I bet you have. Come on, confess. Redeem yourself here. †

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

I’d never been with a black woman before. The first was really nice, the second too ‘princessy’….

I booked another because she promised the best bj in town, and I thought a ‘professional’ would be a guaranteed pleasurable result. It wasn’t, she was all teeth…..

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By *2000ManMan
12 weeks ago

Worthing

I know people that have. More common than you imagine. They are in relatioships now and were not at that time.

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By *urvyFan!Man
12 weeks ago

Bury

I have. It wasn’t sexy. Very regimented. Fun though.

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By *NormalMan01Man
12 weeks ago

Harrogate

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

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By *m3232Man
12 weeks ago

maidenhead

Over the years seen many. Some not so good but when you find one that you click with it’s always been great.

Met a good few lovely ladies.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
12 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I cooked many a dinner or lunch for a few window ladies in the Dam while I trained as a chef many Many moons ago,the back of their building ran out to meet the back of ours and they were always out the back on fag breaks and chatting on the deck chairs in dressing gowns,we were always having BBQ or grilling on our days off so we ended up having chats they were all very sound people( no idea why I thought they wouldn't be), one took me and my flat mate to a night club the night Ajax won the Euros back in 95, she was sexy as ffk,it's a regular job over there, met up with regular people friends in the club and did regular people things,at my young age that changed my perspective on the whole sex worker thing, coming from A Religious ran Ireland at the time shunning such things was beat into us, but those few months opened my eyes

,I got a snog when I was packing up to come home, back then I was thinking I was a right rebel lol, the neighbours to my right were a couple who ran a smoke shop, mad neighbours great times

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Amsterdam. When I was a lot younger. Everyone has to eat. If you've got it, flaunt it. Just don't want some random gadgie taking money from the ladies....that makes me quite vexed

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By *uckurcumMan
12 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Absolutely not ashamed to say yes,had a good few years ago .... Great experience,nothing complicated,great company and sex,good looking guys.

It's an arrangement and everyone gets what they want ...and your assured a meet !

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By *ickie_Ranking OP Man
12 weeks ago

London

No I haven't.

In my late teens while in the Red Light District my girlfriend at the time was willing to pay a lady to have sex with me but that didn't develop.

Also was speaking to a lady years ago on Fab who said we can meet up in a hotel after she finishes work. I asked what she does and she informed me she a sex worker but meeting up straight after a client put me off.

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By *partharmonyCouple
12 weeks ago

Ruislip

We are both advocates of ex-workers. We have both booked ones. It is a perfectly legitimate form of work and should not be stigmatised as it is.

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

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12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference"

Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.

Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?

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By *r TriomanMan
12 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

As a young soldier living in Germany in the early 80s, I had sex with Sex Workers a couple of times. Sex Work is legal in Germany and it was a safe and fun experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference

Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.

Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?"

The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right

I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life

I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference

Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.

Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?

The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right

I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life

I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that"

A brothel may/may not have had women (in the main) coerced. Of course awful and exploitative things happen with that kind of work. Many many es0rts are completely autonomous though. It's on the person paying for the service to recognise that and decide themselves what they are OK with paying for and whom. It's often pretty obvious when there's exploitation involved. Writing off everyone involved from either side smacks to me of someone who has limited understanding of what it's all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference

Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.

Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?

The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right

I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life

I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that

Does the autonomous “worker” truly give her full consent though once the man has payed?

Can she really stop at any time once the money has exchanged hands and have the man accept it?

Does she actually want to be with this man or is she going to suffer because that’s the only way she can pay her bills?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
12 weeks ago

wonderland.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
12 weeks ago

wonderland.

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either"

Why not?

And for the record we have both done so...

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By *cousePedroMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

I shared a flat in London with a girl I worked with and her sister. Purely a useful flat share nothing else. I was in Amsterdam and saw a sex eorker who was the spitting image of my colleagues sister who lived with us. Needless to say I dipped mybwick and called her by my flatmate s name which she was okay with. Had a great time

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

"No I have not and I hope no one else on here has either

Quite right. I hope no one here has casual sex with strangers either.

Oh wait.....

Big difference

Go on.... sex is sex no? I might meet someone from here who has had 10 partners that week. I could meet an esc0rt who has had 2.

Is it presumed numbers that's the issue here or the *consenting* tranactional nature?

The latter.I couldn’t care less about the former.I simply couldn’t.100 a thousand a million I’m not there so I have no right

I also used to live underneath a brothel and that’s haunted me for life

I believe that however it may start out it will always end in the same place and by paying you are facilitating that

Does the autonomous “worker” truly give her full consent though once the man has payed?

Can she really stop at any time once the money has exchanged hands and have the man accept it?

Does she actually want to be with this man or is she going to suffer because that’s the only way she can pay her bills?"

Yes to all. (Not in all cases, of course).

Ps: it isn't ALWAYS about the money anyway. It can be a nice addition to work they enjoy alongside another mode of work perhaps. There's that too.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
12 weeks ago

lewisham

When recently separated from my ex I tried one on a trip to Amsterdam. Beautiful woman, very nice person but I found I wasn't in to it. As a result I realised that having the other person fancy me (however briefly) is an essential part of getting me turned on.

So I wouldn't bother again, but good luck to those who do, so long as the sex worker is safe and consenting. Each to his or her own.

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

No I haven’t, sex for me is very much about mutual desire and wanting. So someone for whom it is a job wouldn’t be a good fit for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

In recent years I've got more info the idea of CBT, ballbusting and humiliation and it's hard to broach the subject with someone in a normal sexual encounter so I have paid three times to go to a brothel (are the still called that) in Birmingham to pay for girls. Three different girls as with varying experiences, all three I immediately explained that I didn't want sex I wanted humiliating my balls kicking and to kiss their feet and if I did cum then I was to be ordered to eat -

The first time she hadn't done it before but got into it, kicks increasing in severity and her occasionally apologising and letting her kiss her feet as I recovered, I came on her feet and she laughed saying she bet I didn't want to eat it any more which I agreed, good experience

Second was amazing, she knew what she was doing, improvised with slaps to the face as well as cock, strong kicks and even spat in my mouth, she could tell I was about to cum and made me stand up to kick me so I didn't cum before my time was up, even I finally did she made me eat it off her feet immediately before I went off the idea, I'd love to see her again

Third time the second lady wasn't available but she was ok, good kicks from different positions but hardly any foot worship or verbal abuse and she kept laughing, I did cum in my hand but no mention of eating it. She was too nice basically

So yeah I have three times but for something I can't see myself trying to achieve in a normal situation. Mostly positive experiences

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