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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton

Hi there I found myself thinking that I would like a relationship with a lady that isn’t straight laced so to speak, I don’t need a relationship I would like one that I can make memories and have a laugh with,

So the question is do any of you have good experiences with websites that are a little bit more adventurous than the mundane

No I’ve not just split up with someone and I have my shit in order not looking too steal anybody’s wife

Thanks in advance

Mark

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
23 hours ago

Brum

You mean like Fab?!

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By *enelope2UWoman
23 hours ago

Fife

Actually attempt to meet someone with legitimate plans based on conversation and that isn't boring basic coffee meets.. you might find there's already an avenue for your interests.

Boys in here love to say this sites only for meaningless hole fucking. But there's women that actually like to enjoy being around men who they fuck.

Read profiles interact genuinely

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton

Is this a dating site?

I haven’t really been looking here as I wouldn’t want to go behind anyone’s back

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
23 hours ago

Brum


"Is this a dating site?

I haven’t really been looking here as I wouldn’t want to go behind anyone’s back "

No, it's not a dating site but it seems that what you are looking for is more fwb?

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton

Not really I said I was looking for a relationship 🤷‍♂️

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
23 hours ago

Brum

I misunderstood then

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By *iker JackMan
23 hours ago

Wolverhampton

Whilst this site is called a swinging site there are many different people on here looking for different things.

From nothing to a relationship and everything in between.

That said if it’s a relationship you’re specifically after they, as you’ll know, take time to form, so just be honest with what you want and hope you connect in a way that it can happen

Good luck OP

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton

Guess so

Thanks for your input anyway

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By *rawnbanquetMan
23 hours ago

Glasgow

Look around on the more traditional sights

People now often state what they want now

Also many women on these sights know that men aren’t looking for a traditional relationship

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By *enelope2UWoman
23 hours ago

Fife


"Not really I said I was looking for a relationship 🤷‍♂️"

A relationship has a starting point.. generally friends to relationship.. Or were you hoping for a hostage or mail order bride

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By *enelope2UWoman
23 hours ago

Fife


"Whilst this site is called a swinging site there are many different people on here looking for different things.

From nothing to a relationship and everything in between.

That said if it’s a relationship you’re specifically after they, as you’ll know, take time to form, so just be honest with what you want and hope you connect in a way that it can happen

Good luck OP"

Fab actually stands for Friends And Benefits... swinging site is people's activity

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton


"Not really I said I was looking for a relationship 🤷‍♂️

A relationship has a starting point.. generally friends to relationship.. Or were you hoping for a hostage or mail order bride "

Ok so I guess I would like to become friends with someone and build a relationship with someone who is looking for similar things in the future I’m not fritzel or anything like that so it would be something of a work in progress where we both know what we are looking for

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By *imi_RougeWoman
23 hours ago

Portsmouth

Well there are plenty of single women on here... You don't need to go behind anyone's back or steal a wife

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton


"Well there are plenty of single women on here... You don't need to go behind anyone's back or steal a wife "

I appreciate that however I’ve seen some women say that they have 100+ messages a day so it’s like looking for someone in the train station at rush hour without shouting

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By *imi_RougeWoman
23 hours ago

Portsmouth


"Well there are plenty of single women on here... You don't need to go behind anyone's back or steal a wife

I appreciate that however I’ve seen some women say that they have 100+ messages a day so it’s like looking for someone in the train station at rush hour without shouting "

That's not the case for all women.

And men outnumber women on all apps/sites... So 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *iker JackMan
23 hours ago

Wolverhampton


"Well there are plenty of single women on here... You don't need to go behind anyone's back or steal a wife

I appreciate that however I’ve seen some women say that they have 100+ messages a day so it’s like looking for someone in the train station at rush hour without shouting "

But if it’s a relationship you’re after then the proverbial ratio gets even smaller.

Read the profile. See if there’s a physical attraction and as importantly it may mention on their profile that they’re open to a relationship

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
23 hours ago

Luton

Yes I have browsed some profiles and sent messages to a couple of ladies however that is why I originally posted to see if there was anything anyone else knew about

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By *ellinever70Woman
22 hours ago

Ayrshire


"Hi there I found myself thinking that I would like a relationship with a lady that isn’t straight laced so to speak, I don’t need a relationship I would like one that I can make memories and have a laugh with,

So the question is do any of you have good experiences with websites that are a little bit more adventurous than the mundane

No I’ve not just split up with someone and I have my shit in order not looking too steal anybody’s wife

Thanks in advance

Mark"

What do you mean by a woman who isn't straight laced?

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
22 hours ago

Luton

I don’t want someone who has no interest in sex or thinks it’s for birthdays and holidays

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By *ohnny DeeeepMan
22 hours ago

durham

Personally there’s a kink site I use which I enjoy but I’m sure if I name it this message won’t go through.

It’s not a dating site but people do seek others on there.

And there are kink dating apps that I find are decent.

If you are looking for something more spicy.

Just google “best kink site” best kink dating apps”

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
22 hours ago

Luton

Cheers mate I will give it a try

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
22 hours ago

Stockport

Site rules don't allow recommending other swinging type sites, but I think that it's okay to mention more vanilla dating sites by name (though not actually linking to them) as they are not really competing with fab...

I've been trying out a number of the dating sites recently as I think that I'm now ready to search for something a bit more like a relationship than a fab meet. But still something that can exist in more of a poly or non-monogamous space.

So far "feeld" and "her" seem to be places where I might find the type of 'ship that I'm hoping for. Both of these allow accomodate more than just male & female genders, and more than straight & gay sexualities. They allow for saying more about what types of sex and kink you enjoy than places like "ok cupid".

I haven't found anywhere that includes forum facilities as wide ranging as those of fab, this is still the place where it seems easiest to engage in char with a diverse bunch of folks.

All the sites I've tried have major restrictions on how much use you can get from them without giving them money, with considerably higher fees than fabs site-supporter. Most of the sites do not allow any messaging until you have "liked" somebody, and they have independently "liked" you. Mostly the sites will tell you that you've received a like from Josephine (for example) but will then not let you see Josephine's profile until you give them money. And mostly you only get one chance to look at any single profile unless you give them money, so if you remember that you did see Josephine's profile yesterday but swiped left (reject) then you don't have any way to go back to take another look. Conversely if you haven't seen Josephine's profile yet, then you maybe won't at all as your age/distance/other filters might be excluding her, and even if your filters will let her through, her profile might not come up until you've been through 500 others first...

TLDR - "feeld" and "her" seem best to me, but it's a real lottery unless you pay memberships. Best of the bunch for hoping to get non-vanilla meetings, in terms of bang for the buck, is still to pay a fab site supporter and to spend a lot of time making contacts through the forums and/or chat rooms here.

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By *heseeker73Man
22 hours ago

witney


"Hi there I found myself thinking that I would like a relationship with a lady that isn’t straight laced so to speak, I don’t need a relationship I would like one that I can make memories and have a laugh with,

So the question is do any of you have good experiences with websites that are a little bit more adventurous than the mundane

No I’ve not just split up with someone and I have my shit in order not looking too steal anybody’s wife

Thanks in advance

Mark"
same mate. I would absolutely love to meet a like minded female to share loads of fun with. And I wish I knew the secret of finding one to play with. A relationship or a NSA fwb to play with. I can't find one anywhere and I can't see santa delivering me any joy either 😕

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
22 hours ago

Luton

Yeah I like it here and not going anywhere but I will have a look at the suggestions thanks for the input

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By *xLusciouslyxxWoman
22 hours ago

Not single and not meeting

OP I met my partner on Fab.

I was ideally wanting a relationship that was not vanilla and I've hit gold. To be honest didn't expect to meet someone and have a relationship from here but it happened.

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
22 hours ago

Luton


"OP I met my partner on Fab.

I was ideally wanting a relationship that was not vanilla and I've hit gold. To be honest didn't expect to meet someone and have a relationship from here but it happened. "

Congratulations and I hope you have a long and wonderful relationship x

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By *vonne5exMan
22 hours ago

Doncaster


"You mean like Fab?!"
Get more sex from plenty of cod

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
22 hours ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Fab works for many.

I've always found if you're not proactively looking for a relationship you're more likely to find one.

Let things happen naturally. You have to get to know someone first rather than going in to any contact with an agenda.

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
21 hours ago

Luton

Thanks Obi

Yes I not running around desperate for it to happen I have time to wait and let it happen I just thought I could save a little time if we start on the same vibe

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By *andH 23 OP   Man
19 hours ago

Luton


"You mean like Fab?! Get more sex from plenty of cod "

Yeah but it’s not like I’m looking for just that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 hours ago

East Sussex


"Is this a dating site?

I haven’t really been looking here as I wouldn’t want to go behind anyone’s back "

If you chat with genuinely single people you wouldn't be going behind anybody's back

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
10 hours ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thanks Obi

Yes I not running around desperate for it to happen I have time to wait and let it happen I just thought I could save a little time if we start on the same vibe "

No worries.

I only ow people who put 'open to a relationship' on their profiles. It gives other an indication.

I suspect it actually may work better for men than women, as often some guys will say whatever a woman wants to hear to get a meet, whereas (in my brief 17 years on here at least) that tends to happen less the other way round.

But it's something that can't be forced and much like vanilla dating you still need to get to know someone before making decisions. The more open you are to socials, date style meets and slow paced conversations not revolving around sex, the better your chances in my mind.

Good luck. 👌

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By *orthern_knobberMan
9 hours ago

manchester

Give feeld a look, takes a few minutes to set up an account.

For some unknown reason, it seems a lot of people here have delusions of grandeur, more so outside of the forums.

It’s probably the weirdest site I’ve been on to actually meet anybody.

I’ve met more people on the generic dating sites than I have here, I use this for the forums and to have a laugh with people now, whenever I feel like meeting or looking to arrange a meet, this is not the first site that I think of, if at all.

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By *2000ManMan
8 hours ago

Worthing

Had a few meets. Usually chats for a few days that end up with them cancelling the meet (had 2 today!). Sometimes single word first messages which go no where. Good luck op.

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By *iscrete GloryholeMan
1 minute ago!

Ashford kent

..I found plenty of fish was OK for dates and sex.. but FAB is for sex

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